- Gender and Relationships
Guys - Do You Have a Reason to Cheat? Part 2
How many guys out there have another woman on the side? You know someone you go to when things are not going well with your partner. O.k. you do not have to answer that. You already know who you are. Some of you there have more than one woman on the side. Why?
Well let's view some problems you have probably noticed from your partner. You know...the problems that may have caused you to cheat in the first place.
Problem #2: No sexual freedom
Reason: There may be things that you are afraid to ask your wife or girlfriend to do sexually so you ask the other woman.
Solution: Do not be afraid to communicate with your woman about the issue. There is a possibility she may become a little open-minded. She is probably not used to doing things that are considered wild. However if she feels safe and comfortable around you, she may be willing to give things a try.
Problem#3: She nags too much
Reason: It is probably because she needs some help from you, or once again, because of female problems.
Solution: There are a lot of women out there who nag, just for the sake of nagging. If that is the case, then ask yourself this question: Do I really want to be with a nagger?
If that is not the case, it is probably because:
A. She needs some help from you. It's understandable that you may be a hard worker, and you had a long day at work. But would it kill you to help her out with a few things around the house?
If you put in some extra effort to help, you will get rewarded greatly. For example, if you cook or clean once in a while, you may find that she will nag less and/or you'll get better sex. In turn, there will be more things that she will do for you.
B. P.M.S. Self explanatory. If you need more understanding, read up on the subject or simply just ask a woman.
For all you guys out there who want another woman because you just want something new, then do not drag your current partner along. It is not fair to her if she is truly committed in the relationship.