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Guys: How To Develop Your "Swagger" To Attract More Women Pt.3 - Your Walk

Updated on June 20, 2009

When it comes to attracting a mate just by walking, women are the best at it. They walk with awareness and a lot of confidence. So what can you do? The exact same thing.

Here's how:

  • Walk with awareness. Women are always aware of who's around them when they walk-and they tend to put an extra bounce in their step when they see a man that they like. And more of than not, that man will move to her quick like a moth to a flame. Always, always, always notice who is around you, and walk with a purpose to attract.
  • Walk with confidence. You don't have to be a male model to have a strong walk. But you do need to have good posture, and a walk that oozes confidence. Walk as if you have no care in the world. Be comfortable, relaxed, and happy. If you're depressed, angry, or tired, it will show in your walk.

So remember, the way you carry yourself, dress, talk, and even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some "swagger"-and how you walk plays a huge role in addition to your overall image.


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    • loveguru23 profile imageAUTHOR

      Daniel Amis 

      6 years ago from Queens, NY

      Thank you Keith!

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      6 years ago

      its vry nyc

    • loveguru23 profile imageAUTHOR

      Daniel Amis 

      7 years ago from Queens, NY

      *By the way, my new website address is for those who are reading this article for the first time. The link that I posted above in response to a comment has been changed. Thanks for reading!

    • loveguru23 profile imageAUTHOR

      Daniel Amis 

      7 years ago from Queens, NY

      Hi Jeremy,

      My apologies for just getting back to you. I've been out the loop for sometime now. But I hope all went well with you at the mall. But here's a few tips that may come in handy for you or anyone who finds themselves in the same situation.

      1. Take a few deep breaths. This will allow you to have better control over your nervousness and approach someone with a clear mind.

      2. Don't use cheesy pick up lines- but have a good opening statement. The worse you can do when you open your mouth to speak to a potential match is say something cheesy. So as an alternative you may want to compliment her on something (whether it's her smile, eyes,or even an article of her clothing).

      3. Be direct. Let her know that you would be interested in talking to her again and ask for her number.

      ** Be process-oriented rather than outcome-oriented. Have fun. If things goes well and she give you her number... then great. If not, move on to someone else. Remember even the biggest homerun hitters strike out alot.

      Hope this helps!

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      8 years ago

      I am good looking going to mall tomorrow kinda nervous any tips on how to get a number

    • loveguru23 profile imageAUTHOR

      Daniel Amis 

      9 years ago from Queens, NY

      I agree! Barack does seem to have alot of swagger.

      Daniel Amis

    • Lady_E profile image


      9 years ago from London, UK

      Right so. The way we carry ourselves tells people a lot about us. Is it me or does Obama have a bit of a swagger when he walks? Can't help noticing it.


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