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How Do I Start A Texting Conversation With A Girl?

Updated on December 27, 2010

3 Secret Texting Tips To Start a Conversation With a Cute Girl!

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I'm going share with you 3 Secret Texting Tips To Start a Conversation with a Hot Girl

If you start texting hot girls the way I tell you, they will start thinking about YOU and not the other guys trying to beg for their attention with their lame, boring texts…

And your Inbox will be flooded with eager replies from fun and sexy girls!

Here's the 3 Secret Texting Tips To Conversation Starters


Tip #1. You CANNOT text girls the same way you text your friends

This is one of the biggest and fatal mistakes guys make when starting a texting conversation with a cute girl they’re attracted to. You can’t just text “Hi, what are you doing?” or “Hi, remember me from…?” VERY LAME.

Tip #2. Girls are emotional

To be successful with girls, you need to create some kind of feeling in your text messages.

You need to communicate with girls on their level. Girls must feel attracted to you.

Tip #3. Set the right tone in your messages

Your text messages should be BRIEF! Conversations are for the phone and facetime.

Your texts also need to be fun and flirty. Girls find humor very attractive, so use a little cocky humor.

And be a little mysterious and unpredictable. Girls love this quality, too.

Now I know you’re dying for me to give you an example – and I will not disappoint you

I know guys are kinda slow to put this all together and actually come up with the exact words to say.

So I’m going to give you a text conversation I recently had with a really cute girl I met at a party.

Now I like to have a good time and I’m a pretty social guy. So this girl I met at the party was into the Karaoke singing a group of friends were engaged in.

So I used her Karaoke singing in my first text to her a couple of days later to start the text conversation.

HOT TIP: Using something memorable or funny that happened when you meet a girl is a great conversation starter for your first text.

Now follow along grasshopper to see how “The Master” was able to create more attraction with this girl in my text

ME: “Hey, thanks for that inventive rendition of (whatever song title she sang, suggesting she did a bad job of singing it). What other talents should I be leery of?”

HER: “Ha ha. Well, at least I gave it shot. Can’t say the same for you :)”

She’s laughing, good sign. She replied a few minutes after I texted so I knew she is able to talk right then.

ME: “I’m not saying you weren’t any good. I would just keep your day job.”

This is a fun way to challenge her or qualify her and women love this.

HER: “Ha ha. It’s fun. My girlfriends and I go out for Karaoke once in a while. What hidden talents do have?

ME: “You’ll just have to wait and find out for yourself.”

I created a little mystery and unpredictability by not answering her question and getting her more curious and interested in me.

HER: “Are you asking me out on a date?”

You see women read into things and what I said is indirectly telling her that I want to see her. Women always give indirect signals like what I just said. Speaking their language creates connection and attraction.

ME: “No, but it looks like you just did.”

Saying “No” to attractive women is powerful because they rarely get told “No” by all the wussy guys chasing them and this really builds attraction.

HER: “Ha ha. Yeah sometimes I can be forward :)”

ME: “Cool, I’ll call you later and let you know when you can take me out :)”

This is my first smiley because I usually want her to be wondering if I'm joking or not.

HER: “Ha, ha. Can’t wait!”

See how easy that was?

It was short and flirty and I gave her mixed signals. This set the tone to create a connection and deeper attraction with her.

If you follow this style of communication when texting girls, especially the hot ones that are getting hit on all the time, you will stand out head and shoulders above the rest of the losers sending her boring, needy-sounding text messages.


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      chris hill 

      6 years ago

      Very good looking boy/man and very popular and good in the bedroom got a mercedes so can travel looking for an older woman a fit girl in her 30s

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      8 years ago

      I trying to meet someone I'm 24 years old

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      8 years ago

      hey i used the joke about her talents and i CLEARLY made it a joke but she took it serious which she doesn't usually do and now won't reply to my texts and i can't speak to her face to face because i can't plan to meet her,help?

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      8 years ago

      i loved to see your face

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      9 years ago

      OMG that suxed..big time!!

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      cody im 17 years old 

      9 years ago

      i like girls that have black hair and chery lips

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      10 years ago

      Good feedback. Yeah, I'm trying to help guys understand that short bursts of flirty banter is THE WAY to text women they're attracted to.

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      10 years ago from Australia

      Yay! Great advice from a man to other men! I'd love it if guys put more effort into texting me. Because texts aren't a voice with emotions, we can't read much into a text that just says "how u goin" usually that kind of text is one I'd either ignore or think was creepy. Also if you hardly know the women you should remember to put your name at the end of your text, because unless she has your phone number in her phone the only message you'll get back is "Who's this?"


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