- Gender and Relationships
Having an Affair
Are you aggravated because she doesn't do all of the sexual things every guy wants his girlfriend to do? Are you just bored? There are plenty of good reasons someone has an affair. You have to decide if it's the right thing to do. Okay, maybe you could leave the relationship. There could be reasons for not wanting to leave though. If this is the case and you need romantic involvement what else can you do? So now the question becomes not what are you going to do, rather how are you going to do it?
It becomes about accounting for your time. You know your significant other wonders what you're up to most of the time. The only thing you can do about this is to find anything and everything to do. You can actually do all of this stuff while you're trying to meet someone with which to have the affair. The more you do, the more excuses you'll have for always being gone.
Once you get a number of activities in place on your schedule you can get on with the business of the affair. It's probably best to start out slowly to see how things go. So a little jaunt down South with an old friend may just be best way to go. You'll have to start lying though. You can't take off to destinations unknown without telling your partner some type of concocted story. In this case it's best to tell a partial truth. Since you do have to go to the airport, you might want to say that you're traveling to the location, but actually do something other than what they think you're doing when you get there.
After you get one little tryst under your belt so to speak, it will be easier to indulge the next time. And that's the thing about an affair, it makes you want to do it again. So you'll have to think about who you'll be seeing. If you want to keep it convenient you could get a regular date. If you want to keep it interesting you'll have to be on top of your game always coming up with interesting things to say.