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How does Texting Affect you in Relationships?
Communicate correctly to gain self-confidence
Text messages can make you feel disconnected with loved ones
· How often do you text him or her?
· Is the constant text slowly destroying relationship?
· You text your partner while at work or in a meeting is that a good or bad idea for your relationship?
Dating has changed over the past decades.
Texts has become the popular way of staying in contact.
The face-to-face dating has become scarce or quite rare in many relationships.
The company of two people felt more meaningful when they met and spent hours together.
In this modern day it is more about text messages to each other to feel safe and heard directly.
The main focus of a relationship was the face-to-face encounter which is rare in the time of today.
The lack of poor communication among the seventeen year old, to the twenty five year old is growing each day and involves more about texts..
The younger age group has changed many individual's lives.
Whether you are at school or at work, text messages are sent most of the time to each other. Making of plans for the day, or the week text messages have become the trend.
From gossiping to flirtatious moments, text messages are the way to communicate.
Do you think constant text messages are the best of ways to disconnect from someone?
· Is it too much for the age group showing much of the lack of proper communication?
· Do they have healthy relationships in this way?
· What are the Pros of text messages?
People use text messages to avoid face-to-face encounters.
If they want to say something hurtful they text it and don't have see the other person hurt from their harsh words expressed.
When you decide to break up with someone you often use to dump them right!
To avoid them seeing the actual experience you use text messages.
Nervous people use text messages as a way to block off contact with others.
Conversations have become complex so text is more simple and easy.
Flirtatious moments are easily approached with a text when face-to-face flirting can be a problem for some people text fills that gap easily.
You can say what you know and feel with no regret.
If he likes her and not sure if she feels the same he would text her to see how she takes it all in and the same for her in the same situation.
Text fulfills the need of nervous people and shy people.
The first moment in a relationship begins with text and that goes all the way.
Dating someone and to find a relationship in this modern day is more about text messages to each other.
· What are the Cons of text messaging?
Text messages is annoying once you send a text to someone they feel obligated to reply, and sometimes the mobile phone is not at hand.
While driving or in an important discussion the received text messages can be frustrating to anyone.
When you use text for every conversation you tend to miss out on the reality of life.
Attending functions and improving your career abilities can be a problem if you are totally dependent on text messages.
Meeting people face-to-face is like a thing of the past for many people.
· What happened to true expressions?
Sometimes messages are taken the wrong way or are not clearly written making you feel annoyed with the understanding of the text.
What people don't realize when constantly using text messages they become psychologically distant and avoid the most difficult conversations.
People who use text for most of the day, or who are dependent on text can become less confident and find difficulty in communicating with others.
They have a low self-esteem and are not comfortable when talking in a relationship.
Mostly women feel good about text and it does show them happiness. Men on the other hand, don’t show much of happiness in text.
Such complex relationships are about hurting each other in their text. They feel distant from each other and text to make the other angry or jealous.
This causes the relationship to be less romantic.
Men don't feel text is a happy moment.
The many texts that a man receives he becomes unhappy with it.
Text does not work out as well for all partners.
She feels text is a way to converse with someone. It is quick and so easy. While waiting for the confirmation she can still do other stuff around the house.
However, text had hindered her romantic affairs in many ways.
Text is used as substitute to actually seeing the person.
Conversing with someone and seeing their gestures, or hearing their tone of voice can make a lot of difference to you.
Her solution was not to text back until the next day.
You should communicate via text on some legitimate commitment.
· Don't make text a habit.
A text message shows more lies and less honesty in the words used.
People can lie through a text message and more cruelty can be shown.
The emotional bonding is not felt from a text message.
· The following story was not a surprise to me:
A woman happily married to her husband for nine years and they have two children together.
She found her husband's behavior quite strange.
One day he confused her with his abrupt behavior and she did not understand the reasons for his weak behavior.
He treated her and the kids in a very different way.
Later that month he did not come home and called her and asked for a divorce.
She could not believe that he wanted a divorce and that he hated her after all this time they were married.
The whole situation made her feel upset and knew she did not deserve that from him.
She was frustrated and felt sick from the divorce and for awhile she felt that way. Her love for him was everything to her and he did not see it.
Text messages caused her marriage to fail and he had been taken from her by another woman.
I don't text all the time and prefer face-to-face conversations.
The youthful age group tends to text more than the older generation. A mutual agreement by two people in this way can be acceptable in some ways.
· Are you more satisfied with text?
· What do you think about text?
· Is text a good or bad way of communication?
When in an emergency or if you need to send a quick message to someone in regards to your daily activities that can be a good reason.
I say what I think directly, so text messages won't work out for me.
I don't hold back my feelings and prefer saying it right out to the person.
· Can Text harm relationships?
· Would you blame the technology or would you, blame the culture for the constant text?
People did write love letters to each other at one time those times are gone by.
Do you think text is a respectful way of communication?
Don't text when you are angry, or when you are trying to be a comedian your text messages can be take the wrong way or misinterpreted.
Sometimes people can't solve a problem face-to-face and choose to do it via text.
It can help you or destroy you.
· Is text ideal for serious relationships?
When in a disagreement don't text your partner that can confuse both of you.
People can become disconnected with themselves when they use text as their main focus.
There is less quality in a relationship with constant text.
Text is an inconvenience when driving or when you are out with family.
You require face-to-face communication when in a steady relationship your commitment ought to tell you that proper communication is needed.
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