- Gender and Relationships
6 Ways Men Can Improve Their Sex Lives
All you ever seem to hear from men is that they don't get enough sex. Sex, sex, sex it seems that's all they ever think about! Well, I've got news for you. There is a way, in fact there are 6 ways to improve your sex life. And, no, one isn't some stupid pill. Not that there's anything wrong with that!
Here are 6 ways to improve your sex life:
Know what you are doing! Study up...get a book, take notes, know how to make a woman climax because if you don't know how to do that, you are going to have some long sabbaticals in between trysts! Every woman is different, so you have to talk to her and find out what makes her tick, make her feel safe and let her know that her secrets are safe with you. But whatever you do make that the goal, make her happy and you will be happy too. And if you do, you wont be waiting long for the next round.
Compliment your wife, tell her how sexy you think she is, how beautiful she is all the time. Don't tell her this just when you want to do the deed. Tell her this all the time. Try little text messages throughout the day, sexting isn't just for pervs you know! And if you think for one moment that criticizing her or nagging her about the way she looks is going to help your sex life, boy are you barking up the wrong tree. Nothing kills the chance for romance like criticism. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar and that is especially true in this department.
Create a private, stress-free environment, some flowers and candles for no reason would be nice but a lot of us would settle for just a clean house. Mix it up now and again, boredom is not just a problem for men. Women get distracted easily and they have a lot on their plate, Environment is very important to a woman, men could do it in a pick up truck going down the high-way, not women...environment is very important.
Don't skip the preludes, kissing, massages and foreplay are key. If you skip those you will be skipping other things too like nookie for the next 6 months!
Don't be available all the time! That's right DON'T be available all the time. Give us time to miss you. It's the law of supply and demand. If you are available all the time your value lowers, if you aren't it rises, Absence makes the heart grow fonder...trust me on this one.
Finally, if you were a woman would you WANT YOU? Women want to look up to their man and feel proud of them, if you just lay around all day or have let yourself go then don't expect her to be begging you for it...it's not that she doesn't want it, it just might be that she doesn't want it with you...step up and take a good hard look in the mirror. And, I know this might make some men mad but a woman can have it anytime she wants with just about any man she wants so the onus is on you not her. Let me tell you something. I did a little experiment once (mainly because my friend didn't believe this when I told him) and I put an ad on Craigslist posing as a 76 year old woman who wanted a young man for the night...I know, I know I'm going to hear some flack on this but it WAS just an experiment to make my point so don't get your panties in a bunch! Anyway, I put the ad up on Craigslist just to see how many men would reply...the ad got over 400 replies! So trust me when I tell you a woman can have it anytime and the onus is on you to encourage her to want you, not the other way around! And, it doesn't take much, remember she loves you and married you so you have the home-team advantage.