- Gender and Relationships
FAMILY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP: How To Find And Get The Guy
How Many Guys Do You Meet In An Average Week?
And that does not mean just anyone. It does not mean same guy you go out all the time, it does not mean your friends, it doesn't mean same guy you always go to the pub with. I mean new guys! How many guys do you meet in an average week?
There are amazing guys everywhere. Now think of it like this: As a woman, you don't wanna be running up the guys out of nowhere. But, they're always of doing it.
There are ways of making it really simple and what women forget is that women have been doing for a long time. Women think that women don't like the move. They do! And even women who look like, they don't like the move, men will making the move.
Think of it like this: A woman walks pass the man that she likes, and as she walks pass him knowing that she likes him, she drops her handkerchief and then she keeps walking. And the guy sees the handkerchief and says "This is an extraordinary opportunity to be a man", he picks up the handkerchief, he walks it over and he says "Ma'am, I believe you dropped this!"
And now, they have a conversation. Now, he in his male mind thinks he did that. He thinks he made the move. He didn't! She did! She chose him!
I don't know when women stop doing that but they did. They stop choosing the guys they want and they wait to be chosen. And it drives me freaking crazy because they wonder why they always end up with the guy they don't want because they wait to be chosen.
Now, imagine a scenario where we wait to be chosen, and how likely that makes it we're gonna meet the guy we've always wanted. Women don't do any other things in their lives like that. Women don't go shopping like that. They don't walking to the department store and stand there and go "Now, I just wait to the right dress to come to me":) Not happen like that!
What they do? They walk in and they choose. Find something and throw away, find something again and throw away,. They take 10 things to the changing room, try on and say no,no,no, then they find one, they like it, and they buy it!
In their love lives is like they become completely different people. Is like the one they ruin their lives when they wait and it's so tragic because they deserve more than half the guys that coming up to them but the problem is if you always waiting for people to do something will constantly choosing from the select group of guys instead of the entire buffet of guys that is out there.
So ladies out there, from this simple tips, you can now say this to yourself: "I can go out and can just choose who is I want , instead of waiting to be chosen".
Hope it can help a lot.