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How To Get Women To Remember You After You Approach Them

Updated on February 4, 2013
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How To Become a Ladies Man

I’m sure your initial thought when you see a woman you like is about getting her number and going on a date. That’s not a bad thing to focus on, but there is something even better to focus on to ensure that you WILL get that first date and the digits you desire.

Focus on this: I want her to remember me after I approach her, talk to me in a good way to her friends, and get excited to see my call when I decide to call her.

If you can be the guy that women remember and gush over – then you can get women left, right, and center.

If a guy makes a good impression with a woman she will think about him long afterwards; dream about him, fantasize about him, and smile when she thinks of him.

Women like to share their feelings so she will also discuss him with her friends. She will literally be excited to hear from him and the chances of her saying yes to whatever he asks are very high.

So how do you become the guy that she can’t get out of her mind?

Simple: Be different than other guys and be something that she wants!

No - it really is that simple!

How To Be Different Than Other Guys

If she is single and good looking then she may be getting approached a lot in her days. She probably sees a lot of the same techniques played out like:

“I couldn’t help but notice you from across the room. I would love to get your number and take you out for coffee sometime.”

While that is sweet and nice, it’s typical, and if you don’t have anything else to offer her than you may not stand out in her mind.

In fact, it’s been proven that information that is not very meaningful to us can be lost within minutes. So if you don’t make an impression and leave her wanting more than she will most likely push your encounter with her into the back of her mind and not be very enthusiastic to meet up with you in the future.

So follow some guidelines to help yourself be more of a permanent memory in her mind.

1. Don’t by a typical guy

Approaching her with the cliché expression or joke is not going to win you points. Its what every guy uses! So use some of your own jokes or conversation starters that make you stand out.

You are unique - and you think, speak, and act uniquely from anyone else. Use that uniqueness to your advantage and stand out from the other guys!

2. Take in what she is saying and use it.

This will win you the girl alone. If you listen to what she is saying and show her that you are actually listening to her you will move up in her books.

Women like to share – and they talk about things that are important to them. So even if you think that it’s not that important to remember, remember this:

If she’s talking about it then she thinks it’s important!

Listen to what she is saying and respond appropriately. She will appreciate it.

And use what she is talking about for future successes with her. For instance when you call her you can quickly be the guy who she remembers talking to about her cold coffee by asking her if she had a better day in regards to drinks – and she will love it!

3. Show her you know how to handle her

Confidence. If you can show her that you are a guy who can handle her, make her feel good, and understand her than you have it made.

Be a guy who knows women in and out of bed and you will be a rare specimen to women indeed.

How do you do this? Learn everything you can about women. The way they think and why they think it. The way they act and why they act like that. They way the feel loved and exactly what it is that makes them feel loved.

Understand women and you will be 1 in a million. The secret is that it’s not that hard. You just have to learn from other people who already know what they are talking about!


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      Michael perry 

      4 years ago

      Most women have high standards, you can only have a few 1 in a million so be picky and really listen to your gut feeling. Psychologist found a relationship can be sized up by sight alone. How she moves, talks to other guys body movement. They all give away what kind of person she is. Big yellow signs staring you in the face saying leave her alone or vice versa don't let her get away.

    • Relationshipc profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Alberta, Canada

      Thanks frugal? Good thing I put number 2 in there I guess?

      Chase: That's why I'm trying to show guys that approaching women doesn't have to be scary...if you have confidence in your approach (know what you are doing) then you should have more courage to approach any girl you find attractive.

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      7 years ago

      another thing to note is that sometimes the good looking ones don't get "hit on" a lot because guys are usually more scared to approach them. Just throwing that out there

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      Brenda Trott, M.Ed 

      7 years ago from Houston, TX

      hmmmm...voted up but only because #2 is very true:)


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