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How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Into Your Life Without Begging And Pleading

Updated on April 30, 2011

Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend

If you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back into your life, after you tried everything. I'm glad you're here. I just want to share with you one very important thing you can do now. Stop pleading, begging and promising that you will change.

Most men make promises that are very sincere at the time, but end up as broken promises upon getting back into the relationship. Your ex girlfriend is fed up with the lies, and want out. She already took you back several times just to see if you would change but you didn't.

An ex that will take you back several times can be convinced to take you back again. She will not commit to marrying you until she knows that your serious. However, if she does, your relationship will not be happy because of your lies and broken promises.

You have the opportunity to get your ex girlfriend back, but it involves you changing everything you've been doing.

No more:

  • Begging
  • Pleading
  • Stalking
  • Texting
  • False Hopes

You may think that you winning by showering your ex with flowers, dinners and all types of attention, but she knows that it is all talk. She is not stupid and expects you to act out after the advance don't work. She may get tired and take you back, and the cycle will continues.

In order to get your ex girlfriend back for keeps, you have to make a drastic change:

  1. You will have to stop all contact at once to make her take notice.
  2. Don't call her until she calls you.
  3. Do something nice for yourself to build self esteem like a course or hobby.
  4. Work out and stay groomed.
  5. Go out with friends that won't talk about your ex.

Your staying away will make your ex miss you and want to see you again. She will now be more relaxed and believe that you are moving on. Her contacting you is the reason for the stepping back without the contact.

When you both see each other again you will look better and well rested with plenty to talk about because of your new course or hobby. Doing new things keeps us interesting and conversational.

I know your probably thinking about what you are going to do next. No worries. You can learn how to rebuild trust in your relationship, while away from your ex girlfriend from your relationship course. You can learn how to hold a conversation that will pull her back into your arms. Learning how to get your ex girlfriend back is worth the work if she is the one you love.


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    • Elearn4Life profile imageAUTHOR

      Darlene Matthews 

      6 years ago

      The point is absence makes the missing and forgiving you easier until you do speak without the fresh hurt feelings..

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      6 years ago

      How long will it take for her to contact you if you don't contact her at all? what if she is in all but 2 classes with you in school?


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