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How To Kiss And Impress Your Boyfriend
'I wonder how your kiss feels,
To see love painted in your eyes,
To have your arms around me,
In lover's paradise'.
A kiss is not just a kiss. It is a sweet intimate act shared between two people that can either break or enhance a special moment. A succession of sloppy, bad kissing moments can turn off the desire to kiss at all, for some, while sweet, passionate kisses can leave us gasping for more.
Kisses can be sloppy without thought and intrusive, while a kiss can also be the most heavenly delight bestowed upon man. Technique is the key to the art of kissing.
The Kiss of Desire
The scent of love fills the air,
With passion flowing free,
My lover’s breath upon my neck,
I moan with ecstasy.
Our bodies intermingled,
Flesh upon warm flesh,
I feel his mouth upon my cheek,
I can almost taste his breath.
Our eyes of fire finally meet,
To drown in strong desire,
My long blond hair strewn and damp,
Consumed in love’s strong fire.
Suddenly I feel his lips,
Sweep gently on my face,
I arch my back in pleasure,
As he quickens up the pace.
Our lips meet again to linger,
My red lipstick smudged by lust's flames,
His kiss becomes more urgent,
To fill my loins with pain.
I feel his hungry tongue,
Exploring with each kiss,
Bringing me to heaven,
Caught up in this bliss.
Our kisses last for hours,
No closer can we be,
This intimate encounter,
Sends passion's cries to me.
© Blondepoet Hubpages 2009
A great kiss has great passion behind it. When you kiss someone without much thought and feeling you may as well not kiss at all. Biting your lover's lips to bits, sloppy kissing and leaving a trail of saliva all over your lover's face are huge no-no's, that turn people away from the desire of kissing in an instant.
To give a great kiss, you need to put some feeling behind it. If it is a first kiss refrain from diving in with your tongue full throttle, introduce your tongue slowly in your lover's mouth, let yourself feel each new sensation slowly.
A very sexy touch is before your lips meet, brush your lips briefly over his lips, letting your warm breath blow gently across his mouth. Anticipation can be a huge turn-on for you both.
'I can forget my very existence in a deep kiss of you'. Byron Caldwell Smith
Different Styles For Every Mood
Another term for french kissing is 'tongue kissing '. Producers have utilized this seductive kiss to create captivating love scenes in their Hollywood movies, creating some memorable kissing scenes we can never forget. Who can forget that famous kissing scene between Rhett Butler and Scarlett O' Hara in one of the most classic movies of all time, 'Gone With The Wind'?
When french kissing, it is preferable to close your eyes. Catching a glimpse of your partner's wide open eyes inches away from your own, can be quite a turn off and shock, if you are not expecting it.
Make this kiss as passionate and delicious as possible by not only using your tongue to explore the corner's and depths of your lover's mouth, but by using your hands to caress and tantalize your lover's naked flesh at the same time.
A soft, ultra light kiss which barely touches the body parts. A kiss designed to tantalize and arouse your lover by lightly brushing your lips across his body, producing almost a ticklish sensation to the body. Butterfly kissing is also performed by flicking the eye-lashes quickly across the skin to give your lover a wonderful erotic sensation with promises of what is to come.
A Nibble Peck Kiss:
A big turn on for a lot of people is to have their ultra sensitive areas gently nibbled and softly kissed, such as the ear-lobes, neck and nipple area. Be careful not to bite your partner when doing this, unless of course he wants you to bite him. Nibbling and biting are two different things. Nibbling involves the sole use of the lips to produce a wonderful arousing sensation most people enjoy.
A Great Lover Gives Hot Kisses
What makes a lover great? It certainly isn't about having the perfect body to get you by. Relying on your great curves to satisfy your man doesn't quite cut it, if you lay there like a dead fish checking the clock in five minute intervals to see if its dinner-time.
A great lover is:
A woman who thinks and feels sexy regardless of her size.
A woman who has no inhibitions in the bedroom, who is comfortable with her own nudity.
A woman who is not afraid to show her passion and excitement to her partner. A groaning, writhing woman whose arousal is evident, further arouses a man's own excitement.
A woman who takes an active role in love making.
A woman who lets herself go free, submitting to her desires, with a desire to please her partner.
A woman who is not afraid to show her man what she wants.
© Blondepoet Hubpages 2010
Do You Consider Yourself A Good Kisser?
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