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How To Love Your Woman

Updated on April 10, 2012

Learn How To Love Your Woman Right

So you have found the one who makes your heart go 'boom-diddy-boom' and you are looking for some ideas or advice on how to let her know that you love her. You want to know how you can make her feel loved and desired in a way that will win her heart, yes?

Well, my friend, relax! It is not as hard as you think.

Let's begin by looking at what kind of things that you can do that speak of your love for her, and we can go from there...

Love in the Rain

Little Things Matter When You Love Your Woman

Little things can matter to your woman. Things like birthdays, anniversaries and any other dates that are important to her and you. If you have trouble remebering dates, don't worry about it. Ask her for those dates and stick them on your mobile phone or on a calendar or in your diary so that you can commemorate those dates as they come round.

Do you need to do extravagant things to celebrate these dates? Not at all! Think about things that are important or mean something to your girl. The trick here is to listen to what she talks about, that way you will know what interests her because she will tell you.

Many women like flowers as a gift - tip: avoid giving her flowers when you have bad news. Most women like jewelry and this does not always have to mean expensive items.

There are many things that you can do that don't involve money like making her a lovely cup of tea unexpectedly, or rustling up a simple, or fancy, but tasty meal, or setting the mood with candles and give her feet or back a sensual massage... the ideas are limited only by your imagination!

The point is that you are looking for things to do for her or give her that will mean something to her, and the only way to find that out is to pay attention to what she says. The greatest gift you can give her is your undivided attention and learn how to actively listen to her.

Another very precious gift you can give her is respect, even when she disappoints you in some way. This is a little harder than you think. It is very common for a man to lose respect for somone when they mess up and let's face it, everyone messes up, no-one is perfect. So forgive your girl and choose to continue to respect her. And you choose to do this, because you love her, and as she is the woman you love, she is worthy of respect, including yours.

If you are truly serious about this woman, the love of your life, you will eventually want to give her the rest of your life, and you will want to share your future with her. This is the ultimate gift that says, "I love you!"

What Are Your favorite Ways To Show You Love A Woman?

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      Herb and Bernie Hopkins 4 years ago from Clayton Alabama

      Great article!! Another way to say "I love you" or "I'm thinking about you", is to leave little post it notes around her car, or the house, etc. Just knowing that your loved one is thinking about you and taking the time to leave you a "love" note means the world to lots of women (and men for that matter."

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      Romeos Quill 4 years ago from Lincolnshire, England

      A useful, and wonderful article. Thank you.

      Yours Sincerely,

      Romeo's Quill

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      Windy Grace Mason 5 years ago from The Eastern Shore of Virginia, Maryland and Delaware, U.S.A.

      Lovely article, my friend :) Voted up and Beautiful!

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      Ram Bansal 5 years ago from India

      Just 'I Love YOU' works like a magic on my girl. Apart from this, she likes to be listened to her infinite talking.

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      Johanna Mary Elisabeth Baker 5 years ago from Christchurch, New Zealand

      I can relate to the new gadgets...mine are laptops and new phones...just one of each of course...thanks for your comment cebutouristspot...

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      cebutouristspot 5 years ago from Cebu

      Nice article. I should say you must learn to know what your women like in the first place. :) My wife dont like jewelry but she love new shoes. She dont like flowers but she love a new dress. Lastly she love gadgets :)