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How To Make Woman loves You

Updated on January 17, 2010

As a man we want the best for our life. Woman is part of the man life. Woman could make this life more colorful. She has something that man doesn't had. Of course there is different between man and woman. For us who prepare to get married or who want to get a couple in our life, we feel empty without the presence of women. Sometimes we have thousand questions. Does she really love me? Does she match with me? This hub is related with dating and how to get the woman heart.

I hope this hub into a fresh reading and useful for those who are still single right now and for information for those who had married. Your wife will love you more than before. Back to the topic. I'll explain how to make woman loves you.

Show yourself

When you feel comfortable with women, try to involve some conversation with her. Not always a heavy topic, we can also try to talk about our hobby. Show your true about your self. Your sincerity will attract the attention of her.

Don't rate too much about her

Nobody perfect in this world. Don’t compare her with other woman.  Especially in front of her. If she leaves you, you’ll regret later.

Don't be too aggressive

If she loves you, she will give the positive reaction. Be careful, don’t over act in front of her. Too many phone calls, send her short message too much, ask about daily activities made her doesn’t curious anymore.  Limit yourself, this will make her a longing for you.

Show your attention

Show your seriousness to listen her stories. If the relationship began better and start  close, take time to listen her story.  Give response with intelligent opinion, without being patronizing.  If you make her feel comfortable with you.  You’re in the half way.

Make her laugh

A smile is one powerful weapon to establish communication with someone. Smiling is a reflection of someone who had a positive thinking. If you are talented, give her fresh joke. You can pass the cheer with her. Surveys show from 9 among 10 women prefer guys who have a sense of humor.

Show the best from you

Be the best, doesn’t mean forcing yourself to do things that you really don’t like it.  Don’t push your self. Just be your self, with clean look, smell, fresh breath, and not too messy. Especially if you show the skills in front of her. Don’t hesitate to play the guitar in front of her or cook for her. Don’t be surprised if her would be amazed with you have done before.

Let her guessing

Don’t too open your self. Tell about your self slowly about who you are.  If you open directly, she will bored.  So, let  her curious about you. Let it continue to grow and develop.  She always hope to know you again and again.

Don’t be too familiar

If you love her, you should respect her privacy. Don’t exceed the limits. Such as: to show your familiarity you easy hug  or kiss her. If she felt uncomfortable, please stop it directly or you’ll left by her forever


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    • prasetio30 profile image

      prasetio30 6 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Dear my friend, acaetna. Thank you very much for coming and your love this hub. I think you are the best hubbers with love as your passion. I am glad to see you here. Cheers...

      Love and peace,

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      acaetnna 6 years ago from Guildford

      Great advice, I am wondering why I haven't read this hub before!!!

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Hi, epigramman. Nice to see you here. Congratulations for you. I am glad to hear this news. You are the lucky man, I am proud to be your friend. I hope I can follow your success to get a good woman. The most important thing is "love" and how you share your love to her. Money could disappear soon, but love always eternal. I hope I can see your wedding from facebook, I hope you want to share this moment for me. God bless you!


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      epigramman 7 years ago

      ...well I was sweet talking a woman about a month ago - and since then it has escalated to even greater heights - in fact next week we are about to be married - and she told me that although she loves me for who I am - she said luckily for me that I get all of my great ideas and lines from Prasetio30 hubs I am not a true original but I certainly know that your hubs have helped me tremendously - I am marrying the boss' daughter and now stand to inherit the control of the company!

      Thanks buddy you are a cheerleader for the human race and a great motivator!!!!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks jannyC for supporting this hub. For me, personally I really hate a man who hurt woman. Don't worry there are many good guy out there.

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      JannyC 8 years ago

      As a woman I support this hub lol! And a man is currently do this right now. He is listening to me and opening up about himself let still leaving me curious maybe he read your hub!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks carloadriancanon and Red_Dragon for supporting this hub. We all woman lovers. The problem is how to keep the woman heart bloom like a beautiful flower. And makes her smile is one of the best.

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      Red_Dragon 8 years ago

      Making her laugh, i agree with this :D

      This is what i love to do with all lady's whether friends or someone i care about. A smile makes me smile and it makes everyone happy, great article!

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      carloadriancanon 8 years ago

      Nice tips. I would propably follow your tips. Thanks

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Veronica for stopping by. If I love woman I am not compared her with other woman, that's the point of relationship. I also give my big appreciation for nice comment to you.

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      Veronica Allen 8 years ago from Georgia

      This is great advice prasetio - my favorite is not comparing her to other women. It's hard to feel as if you have to live up to someone elses expectations.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks for all who give your time to visit this hub.The best thing in the world is how to appreciate other people. I think not only man appreciate woman, woman have to appreciate man. Take and give between relationship gave us more spirit in life. It is good for dating and person who had married.

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      itakins 8 years ago from Irl


      Great advice for all men-I have to say ,as a woman ,a sense of humour was top of my list-first he made me laugh and everything else followed.Well done .

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      H P Roychoudhury 8 years ago from Guwahati, India

      Good hub And good information. Thanks.

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      Micky Dee 8 years ago

      Prasetio, this is great advice. If I were still alive I'd use it. Thank you sir.

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      dusanotes 8 years ago from Windermere, FL

      Interesting Hub. You have some good ideas, keep it up. Don White

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      christinecook 8 years ago

      Very good advice.I like how you teach to respect,be slow,be tender.Anything worth waiting for is worth working for.