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*How To Tell Her/Him I Love You & Show your love*

Updated on January 27, 2016

Over The Text...

1. "Hey there handsome/beautiful" - So much better than simply reading ‘Hi’ or ‘Hey’. Make him/her smile with the very first text you send. It can only get better!

2. "I miss your cute smile" - Who doesn’t love a compliment on their appearance? Men and women alike love compliments, and this one will definitely make him/her smile with that cute little grin you know and love.

3. "I love you" - This one should obviously be reserved for more serious relationships, but once he/she reads this he or she will definitely get butterflies in his belly.

Perfumes/ Colognes

You can never have too many fragrance options. Even if the fragrance recipient already has a signature scent, chances are they will be delighted to add another fragrance to their collection. Because the signature notes found in fragrances have such a wide range, having several different scents ensures you'll always have the right one for any occasion. Many popular fragrances come in fragrance gift sets that include body lotion, shower gel and portable roll-on scents for a discount. They can also include commemorative boxes or tote bags for men and women.

Designers such as:

Ralph Lauren, Versace, Chanel, Victoria's Secret, Armani, Malone, D&G, Jimmy Choo and Gucci are of the top perfumes and cologne names for women and men.

Bvlgari Man in Black Eau de Parfum Spray for Men, 3.4 Ounce

Glow By Jennifer Lopez For Women. Eau De Toilette Spray 3.4 Ounces

Gift ideas..

Nothing is more delicious than chocolate..

Chocolate in itself, when given as a gift, says I love you. This is the basis for such holidays as Valentines day, or other special days like anniversaries, or birthdays. They also can be interpreted by the type or filling. Use your imagination and create something special between you and a loved one. A unique tradition, or perhaps a hidden meaning that only exists between you two. The beauty of chocolate is that not only is it awesome to eat, but since its so popular and accepted that it can create a bond, feeling, mood, or something just special that didn't exist before.

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Ask her/him out..

There are different levels of personal space. As you get physically closer to someone, it feels more and more intimate for the both of you. When a woman or a man accepts you being in her/his close, personal space, she/he will subconsciously feel more comfortable around you. That comfort then paves the way for attraction. It can be easy to stop talking properly, especially in a long-term relationship. Maybe you’ve gotten too comfortable, or don’t feel like there’s much to say. Just try!

Don’t do things you’re ‘supposed’ to because people say they are romantic. If roses, chocolates and expensive dinners aren’t your thing, then don’t do it! News flash here, not every girl likes that stuff. We’re not actually all the same. One might like it and the other might hate it. Take the time and effort to be romantic in a way the other person will appreciate. Surprise your partner with a spontaneous, mostly unplanned date. Head somewhere and go with the flow, or perhaps take a random drive. You can do other silly things on a date like a pizza challenge, whisper challenge, ice skating, Connect Four, and M&M-eating etc... Even learning how to dance is a big step for guys who don't know and that could be great on a first date. Another idea for a date could be, start a fire, turn off the lights, and talk with your guy until there's a sense of comfort.

When you think the time is right and you think that you will get in a relationship with this person then go head give them a little kiss but then make them want more at the same time. This will create a tension and more attraction between the two of you. Make sure that your teeth are clean, your lips are not dry and chapped. It's good to put some chapstick on before hand and drink some water to clear your throat. The worst first kiss is an aggressive, overly wet kiss.

If you want your man/woman to know that you love him/her, then you should encourage him/her to achieve his/her goals every day, whether they are big or small. Being there to support and encourage him/her the night before a big exam or a job interview will show him/her how much you care and want him/her to succeed.

  • If he's/she's not feeling confident, list all of the things that make him/her great, and all of the reasons that he'll/she'll succeed.
  • If he/she has a big event coming up, leave him a sweet note to wish him/her luck.

Be yourself when you are with your partner and just be calm and confidant. If she's/he's constantly trying to touch your hand or finds excuses to do so, then she's/he's probably interested. However, don't assume that she/he doesn't like you if she/he isn't touching you. Likewise, don't start touching her/him if she/he isn't making contact with you. If she/he likes you, she/he will either hold your gaze for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these signs could mean that she/he likes you. If you happen to glance at the girl or guy you like and you see her/him staring back at you, then this means that she/he doesn't like you, or she/he does like you, although she/he may quickly dart her/his head in a different direction. If she's/he's looking at you in a mean way, check your teeth.

Ask her/him to a movie...

Giving yourself 10 or more extra minutes is not only a respectful gesture, but also useful if you want to find good seats. Scolding your date would be a mood killer, but don't just act like nothing happened. When your date arrives make sure that you give a compliment. Try to compliment your date casually like "You look nice" rather than going over the top with things like "I like your dress". Choose the movie carefully depending on your mood and what you want. Make sure that it's not a boring movie or something that you will fall asleep during.

  • Some girls like it when guys put an arm around them. However, if it’s a first date and the other couples around you are making out, putting your arm around her might make her think that you’re trying to make out, too.

Make sure that don't make the date night bad but something that both of you will remember and will have a great time during.

The Proposal...

When things get more serious between the two of you and you both think that it's time for more than just "friendship", well now it's up to the guy. If you know that the girl you've known for so long and have dated for a while, if she's right for you well why don't you just pop the question. Here's a list of some of the things you can do in order to make it more romantic.

  1. Choose your favorite place
  2. Arrange a surprise
  3. Night of dance
  4. Plan a romantic destination getaway
  5. Go to the beach
  6. Get a bunch of friends together and throw a party
  7. At work
  8. Make the ring the surprise in a box
  9. Build a scene of a snowman proposing, and then tell your soon to be fiancee to look outside. When they see the snowman, get down on one knee.
  10. On New Year's Eve, sneak away to a romantic spot just before midnight and propose as the perfect start to the new year.

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    • mahsa setareh profile imageAUTHOR

      Mahsa S 

      2 years ago


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      2 years ago

      Dude i suggest you just kiss her on your date, instead of that compliment that might even creep her away. Maybe make it nice and a bit romantic

    • mahsa setareh profile imageAUTHOR

      Mahsa S 

      2 years ago

      hahahaha I like Wendy's reply to KC it's great...

      I agree, unless you know her then I'm sure she wouldn't mind you saying that, but then again, it's kind of funny, maybe you will even scare her like that and she will not come back. loooool...

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      2 years ago

      To KC: dude why would that be a starting line for you? How is that even something you would say to a girl on a first date...well that is unless you know her and she's ok with it...but maybe something better than "the dress looks hot" I don't know if you are a guy or girl but either way, maybe invite her to lunch,'s much better

    • mahsa setareh profile imageAUTHOR

      Mahsa S 

      2 years ago

      I would suggest something a little bit more "formal" nothing to scare him/her away. You don't want him/her to run away while you are trying to compliment them.

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      2 years ago

      So I shouldn't lead off with "That dress makes you look hot"? I'll have to keep these tips in mind for my next date


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