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How To Tell If She Is Cheating
Signs she is cheating
The old stereotype of a cheating spouse being an insensitive pig of a man is quickly disappearing. In today’s world, it is just as common for women to cheat as it is for men. We are catching up quickly with other gender: being able to vote, going to college, climbing the corporate ladder, flying airplanes, and now cheating on our beloved spouses. Maybe we just have an insatiable need for affection that can never be fulfilled by one man. Maybe women are starting to have a fear of commitment. Or maybe it is just payback time for all the cheating husbands in the world. Either way, it is a fact that married women are on the prowl looking for that emotional support buddy in the office, the big buff guy in the gym, or the sugar daddy we have always wanted. Guys, keep your women on a leash because they are going wild. The suspense of wondering if your woman is getting in on with another man can be torture. Luckily for you guys, I am giving you some inside advice, from a woman’s perspective, on how to tell if she is cheating.
Suspicious cell phone activity- If you suspect your woman is cheating then you are probably already checking her cell phone every chance you get. However, you don’t just want to check for repeat, late night calls to her best guy friend. Women are smarter than that. If you notice a lot of calls to a girl friend then might want to double check that number. It is possible that she has saved “Adam” as “Amanda” in her contact list to avoid looking suspicious. Another thing to pay attention to is how often you hear her cell phone ring. You may notice her checking her phone all the time but you never hear it ring. This is because she doesn’t want you to hear it. Women will often put their phone on silent to deter their man from checking it when it rings.
Going out with friends- I am not saying that women shouldn’t be allowed to hang out with their girlfriends. I am just saying that it is a great cover-up for cheating. If all of the sudden your girlfriend goes from going out once a month to going out once a week with the girls then you might have a problem. She could be getting her friends to cover for her while she is with her cuddle buddy. Or she may actually really be going out with the girls every week but chances are she is hooking up at the bar if it is becoming a more frequent habit.
Working late/Going to the gym- Lately it seems like she has been working tons of overtime but you’re not seeing any extra money for all the hard-worked hours. That is because she isn’t working them. What better alibi than being at work where she is probably unavailable to take your call? The gym is also a classic excuse, especially if you don’t have a membership at the same gym so she knows you can’t show up there to check on her. Plus, after a “hard workout” she has a great excuse to go straight to the shower when she gets home, which leads us to our next hint.
Rushing to the shower- If the woman has been out getting it on with another man, the first thing she is going to want to do when she gets home is shower. Sex can have a very strong smell sometimes and your woman doesn’t want you to smell cologne when you try to kiss her when she gets home. If she has been out fooling around she will probably head straight to shower and brush her teeth when she gets home.
Change in appearance- You have been together 5 years. She has gained 20 pounds, never does her hair anymore, and sweat pants are the newest trend. Suddenly, you start to notice her losing a few pounds, going to the tanning bed, getting her hair done, and dressing fabulously. You think she looks amazing but unless you have noticed her giving you a lot more nookie then she is probably changing her appearance to get the attention of another man.
Not giving it up- This one is a given. You are supposed to be her only source of pleasure but if she isn’t getting it from you, don’t think she is going without. If she wants some lovin’ and she isn’t satisfied at home then she will find it somewhere else.
Women cheat for a wide variety of reasons. Maybe she needs you to be more in tune with her feelings. Maybe you have a bad habit you need to drop. Maybe you just aren’t satisfying her in the sack. Who knows? A woman can walk into just any place and find a man who wants to have sex with her. Take good care of your lady or she will find someone who will. Cheating does not signal the end of a relationship. It is a signal for you to step up if you love her and want to keep her.