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Understanding Today's Man

Updated on September 16, 2011

It's Complicated

Men are sexual creatures and everything they do is driven by sex. It's unfair to say that this is the defining character of a man; but it's the key factor to understanding their nature. When speaking to men they all made it clear that sex and money are their top priorities. The average man wants to get as much sex as possible and not with just one woman. Let's be honest; men are damaged creatures . Their self-esteem is revolved around how much sex they can have and how many women they can get it from. They constantly must have their egos stroked by hearing things such as:

  • You're a wonderful lover
  • You are the only man for me
  • Yes Poppy that's it! Oooooooooh!

Give me a break! Don't get me wrong....I love my men. I love their strength and courage; but this is when they are being good. When they go bad this is another story; they become cowards that do not have one honest bone in their bodies. They become manipulative and yes evil. Therefore, the only thing you really must understand about a man is he will eventually let you down. He will take your love and trust and use it against you as a weapon. He will replace you like something dirty and last but not least he will blame you for it all. I blame that b**** "Eve" and if I come across her in the after life her a** is mine! LOL.

Women love is a battle field and you will get many wounds. There are good men out there but they are extremely hard to come by and many of us have had them but we opted out for the bad boys. Therefore, we must deal with the consequences. If God shines this blessing upon you once again please take hold of the good man and do not let him go. Until then keep plenty of bandages for your bleeding heart. Understanding is for yourself and so is your love. The one thing you must understand is if you give a man your all; you will not get it all back. He will leave you empty and alone and trust he will not come back with good intentions. Therefore, move on and tell him to move around.

 God Bless, Girlfriends.


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    • SweetMocha-Monroe profile imageAUTHOR


      8 years ago

      Thanks for the comment. I love you and have a Blessed Day !

    • breakfastpop profile image


      8 years ago

      Wise advice. Look for a good man and you shall find him.


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