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How Will I Know That He is the One for Me?
How will I know if He is "The One" for Me??
First of all, to all you girls that have found "The One" CONGRATULATIONS!! but there are lots of people out there that have also found #2 and #3... The divorce rate in our country is at a staggering 50%..So, my question to you is Why do want him to be "The One"!? So you think that you know he's "The One"? That's great! but before this "One" becomes your legal partner in crime, or if you just don't know if he really is "The One" there are several factors that you should take into consideration.
Obvious Stuff: Future Family, SEX, Finances, Religion...This is also the Easy stuff! and if it's not....Stop kidding yourself! He's not "The One" Any major differences in values that the two of you have will definitly be issues in the future.
Communication: This is the most important factor..If you are not expressing your true feelings with your partner..It is not going to work! Fighting is Healthy..as long as it's not fist fighting!
Individuality: You need to be embraced for who you are-this is why your friends and family Love you! If he doesn't love you for who you are..then you don't want him to love you! and shouldn't want him to be "The One"
But, the real question is How will I know if he is "The One"?? Most people will tell you that they "just knew"..but then those same people who married "The One" (including myself) have also said that they would have never gotten married if they knew they would be divorced!
So, the answer is Don't worry about knowing if he is "The One"! Work on building and maintaing a healthy relationship with the one you Love!