How Am I Dealing With Resentment
Resentment and people
She spoke with an unfriendly manner has an evil eye too. I realized her conversations were very abrupt toward me, and tried to be friendly throughout the evening but that didn't work out as well.
The strong angry emotions that I sensed from this individual did not disappear this woman has been this way since I had opened my summer business.
Even though she showed me resentment and hatred I totally ignored her harsh behaviors. I don't think she knows any better than that. I can't change the way she behaved but can do better, and be better for myself.
I did not want to feel down or depressed, and decided to write about my experience. In all this time I know this person; I have not had to cope with her odd side until a year ago.
I don't visit her anymore, and feel it is best to keep my distance. My life is different to that of hers, and I chose to live in a way I know that would make me happy. Her traditional lifestyle has stopped her from being the person I am. The envious look through her eyes explained everything.
She looked at me with intense feelings of hate. Gossip is a number one part of her daily activities.
She tends to disagree with almost everything I speak of and assumes she knows me.
I have overcome many obstacles.
The resentment experience is a small one.
I have no intention of having her in my life. She is just not worth my valuable time.
I have picked up new tips from all of my experiences from such people.
Burn fire with fire:
I believe these types of people deserve to be burned more with my great achievements. I let them know of what I have achieved and see the changes in their behaviors.
Burning fire with fire is a helpful way for me though may not work for everyone else.
The more good news I have the more I flash it.
Confrontation is good.
The person with hate, and resentment, or jealousy is purely a cunning person.
Be careful of how you approach these types of people.
They need to know that you know about their gossips and resentfulness.
Don't be afraid to let them know.
The kind of people who resent you is those who don't have what have in your life.
I have seen this many times through my personal experiences, and often I am faced with such resentment.
The one who resents you has issues with self-confidence, self-doubt, a low self-esteem and they self-loath.
· What caused this woman to be resentful toward me?
She sees I am self-confident and speak out my mind.
I have what she may never have in her life. Love, happiness, is a great part of my life.
I am always the center of attraction and she is not.
I always dress well.
My modern lifestyle causes her resentment toward me.
She can't cope with my way of life.
I live an active lifestyle and she is the complete opposite of me.
She notices my smart decisions.
Poorly educated people can behave in this manner.
Different levels of life.
Her negative way of life is destroying good friendships.
I observed resentment from this person when I got to know more about her.
When at one time I felt a good friendship could derive from our acquaintances.
She has intense anger.
I have noticed animal instincts in this individual.
The attack mode surprised me in the presence of others.
Some people don't know how to control their emotions.
I understand that the mentality is different here and forgive her for that behavior.
I am just myself and she is just herself allowing for such differences.
I am in control and won't let my wild emotions take over my thoughts.
I connect with my life spiritually, and feel free in my mind of all that goes on with people and resentment.
My values are important to me and I will not let her resentment get to my head or to my heart.
What makes her feel good does make me feel good.
My observations tell me that she is going through an abusive relationship.
The irritable signs and differences have shown me about her hateful behavior.
Resentfulness is built up on anger, gossip, and intolerance, hurt, less-valued, or unnoticed.
Here the woman is not noticed and needs attention from someone.
Unfortunately, her approach to life is very different and troublesome.
I have more attention and that is not making her feel good toward me.
Instead she behaved in a resentful way.
I have increased my positive thinking to avoid noticing resentment in others.
My greater challenges have opened my way to many experiences.
I am dependable.
I have taken on responsibilities that only a few can take on.
I am reliable and find faith in my hopeful thinking power.
I am committed and honest in my daily lifestyle.
My open-mind had allowed me to be this way.
I have a good sense of humor which not many people have here.
I was raised in a respected life and that won't fade away from me.
In my old and new experiences I have been courageous and powerful in all my actions.
I am not perfect and don't expect everyone to be perfect or like me.
Resentment has never been part of me and will never be.
Everything I wanted or want in my life has come from my own ideas and dreams.
I did not and don't dream of what others have or possess.
I pity those who feel resentment toward another person.
I learned from my new life in Croatia and the more I noticed of other people the better that was for me.
I don't need to lick up to such persons or any other persons.
I don't need her acceptance.
I am just who I am different and special in my own way.
I feel good when I am with happier and friendlier people.
Life is full of surprises and this was one of my surprises.
Having to have had experienced resentfulness from someone whom I once felt could be a good and friendly person to me.
That had really disappointed me.
I did not see this one coming my way.
Her bitterness gave me the opportunity to see her true self.
I also figured out her emotional bitterness. Being married to a husband with Post traumatic stress Disorder (PTSD) is another problem.
Coping with a husband in such depressive state and mentally that can be overwhelming.
Forgive and move on. Holding a grudge is not going to make you the better person.
Let go of what you don't have control over.
People are different and behave differently. Accepting those types of behaviors does not always come your way.
Don't be as they are and show them that too.
Acceptance is difficult from both sides.
I show people my uniqueness and know nobody can be me.
My true smiles have got me to see the greatness of life itself.
You can have anger, hate, and gossip for as much as you would like to.
When it comes to having what you deserve nobody should try and take that away from you.
· Life is too precious to live in anger and to feel resentment.
Let go of Resentment
Be free of hatred
''Strength of character means the ability to overcome resentment against others, to hide hurt feelings, and to forgive quickly.''
by Lawrence G. Lovasik
Resentment and hatred
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''Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.''
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2014 Devika Primić