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How to Buy a Loose Diamond for Your Engagement Ring
There is no doubt that you can get a much better value for your money by purchasing a loose diamond and having it set than by buying a finished engagement ring from a jewelry store. Some buyers, however, shop at jewelry stores because it seems easier and less confusing than learning about loose diamonds, locating a loose diamond supplier, and finding the right jeweler to mount the stone. However, there are numerous resources available for those who want to get the very best value for their money, and since an engagement ring is such an important sentimental purchase as well as an investment, it is worth the effort to buy a loose diamond.
One important element of buying a loose diamond for your engagement ring is that it’s more romantic. Every bride-to-be wants to believe that her engagement ring was selected especially for her and that care and thought went into the purchase. On the other hand, most women have very specific tastes in jewelry and also want an engagement ring that they would choose for themselves. The best way to resolve this paradox is to select a loose diamond of the finest quality you can afford and let your fiancée choose the setting. If your fiancée wants the actual proposal to be a surprise of sorts, the jeweler can help you remember her preferences, or your intended can give you pictures from magazines of her favorite settings. Once you have purchased a loose diamond from your diamond consultant, you can have it set and then pop the question whenever you like.
Up to 85% of women prefer round or square diamonds, so the shape of the diamond is not nearly as difficult to decide upon as the setting for the engagement ring, which determines the shape of the diamond anyway. Round diamonds are by far the most popular, with square diamonds a distant second. Your girlfriend can try on numerous settings, with or without diamonds, to find the one she likes best. The process of trying on rings will also help you learn whether your bride wants a solitaire diamond or one diamond with two smaller diamonds on either side. Note that larger diamonds hold their value best. While your girlfriend is trying on engagement rings, be sure to memorize her ring size.
Purchasing a loose diamond for your diamond engagement ring allows you to ensure that you get just the right piece of jewelry for this momentous occasion. You will have far more confidence in your proposal if you know that the ring you are presenting to your girlfriend is exactly the one she would have chosen for herself. In fact, since you are going to the trouble to buy a loose diamond and have it set instead of purchasing a finished piece of jewelry, it is likely to be even better than the one she would have chosen for herself!