FAMILY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP: Choosing A Lifetime Partner
How to choose your partner in life?
Millions of people are mated but they are not matched. The path of married life may appear beautiful and full of happiness but thousands of others have been disappointed after marriage because they are not warned to make haste slowly in the choice of the companion.
The Vital Factors in your choice
One of the important in your life is the step you are about to read and should not be taken for granted. You may love but do not believe that love is blind.
*Watch out every development of character in the person with whom you think to link your life destiny that is why you need to weigh every sentiment.
*You need to examine carefully to see if your married life would be happy in the future so you need to reflect.
*The couple should realize that farther than whether they loved each other, they should be responsible enough in the marriage relation.
*The choice of a life companion is to secure the physical, the mental and the spiritual being for parents and children that will enable them to bless others and God.
*Many of the couple are entering marriage relation without realizing the responsibility rests upon them.
The following are duly considered:
*Is she the one to stand by his side?
*Will she be patient and painstaking?
*Will she make him happy in her love?
*Has she anything now to depend upon?
*Will she bring happiness to your home?
*Will she not leave her father and mother?
*Are her principles correct in this direction?
*Is she fitted to bear her share of life's burdens?
*Will she use all your earnings and hers to gratify a love of appearance?
*Will she not withdraw him from their society just to suit her own pleasure?
*Will she have care for your mother and father at the very time when they need a strong son to lean upon?
All girls should ask the following:
*Is he worthy?
*Is his life pure?
*Will he be patient with my mistakes?
*Does he respect and honor his parents?
*Does he recognize his obligations to her?
*Has he the traits that will make her happy?
*Is he mindful of her wishes and happiness?
*Can she find true peace and joy in his affection?
*Will she be allowed to preserve her individuality?
*When the novelty of marriage is over, will he love me still?
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