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How to Enjoy a Great Time With Friends (ONE TIP)
Don't Defend an Offense
Have you ever hung with a group of people and the experience and noticeably bland. No one likes this, it makes hanging with those people fairly awkward and an undesirable experience when it comes to hanging out on future occasions.
My intentions is that when you hang with your friends that the experience be memorably fun and that it produces a laughter that's addictive and the standard for future relationships. Despite what you may think, All it takes is one simple step and your fellowship time will be graving experiences.
DO NOT TAKE OFFENSES: I always wondered how come when I hang with my friends (Namely TeamEpic, Guys in the pictures) There are NEVER any dull moments. The atmosphere is always vibrant, full of light and Freedom. Its simple, WE DO NOT TAKE OFFENSES. People that take offense to a lot of comments, remarks and jokes usually have an insecurity or a self-esteem issue. That is something that is very dangerous around friends you want to have fun with. Reason being is because they continuously have to monitor their actions so that nothing will offend you. It not only makes the person restricted of a free environment but also makes them annoyed that they have to be on self lock-down for the time of hanging with you as well as feel you out to discern what they can and cannot do.
-Our desire should be that someone feels free enough around us to express their true selves without hurting anyone. It lightens the atmosphere and makes the fellowship more fun more free.
-Me and my friends know that we Love each other and will never intentionally do anything to tear each other down. We understand that the jokes and remarks given are just for laughter and freedom sake and is not meant to belittle one another. We usually have our insecurities removed over time which makes it a lot easier to receive one another remarks and jokes. This has been the key to us having a blasting time every time we hangout. Now some people have insecurities that should be noticed and well respected. Just note that you can be the weight that possibly keeps everyone from having a good time. No one wants dissension or division when hanging with friends and applying this simple technique can possibly remove those awkward moments while hanging out.
-So purge those insecurities, become more confident more firm and try your best not to take offenses. It will really cause your experiences with each other to be worth while.
-BELOW ARE TWO SIMPLE VIDEOS OF ME AND MY FRIENDS ENJOYING ONE ANOTHER. WE ARE MAKING FUN OF ONE ANOTHER, BUT IT'S FUN BECAUSE NO OFFENSE IS TAKEN, NEITHER WAS ANYONE HURT. WATCH TO GET A VISUAL AID OF MY BLOG POST. =D