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How to Get Girls Easy

Updated on August 17, 2015

Learn to pick up women naturally

Guys that are successful at appealing to ladies know there exists an artform to the approach. Often times, men underestimate the nature of females and their desire to meet someone who is personable, real and confident. If you can learn to be someone who is enjoyable to be around, you will find the doors will open much more often. When men use superficial tricks and insincere conversation starters, they generally get the eye rolls and wonder what they may be doing wrong.

The following are suggestions for how to get girls easy, even if you aren't an expert. If you are able to learn these techniques, interacting with and courting will come effortlessly.


Places to Meet

You will find there are ideal venues to meet girls and then there are also inappropriate ones. Be sure you are searching in the proper places in the first place. Check out this list of great settings for meeting and attracting females.

Fitness Classes such as Pilates, Cardio or Yoga
Singles Events
Dance Classes like Ballroom or Tango
Clubs such as Book Clubs or Athletic Clubs
Health clubs
Associations or Business Organizations
Community Functions
Local library
Dance Clubs, Bars or Clubs
Airport terminals and Airplanes
On the web
Book Shops
Live shows and Concert Events

Where To Meet Women

When and Where NOT to Pick up Women

Now, the following are poor locations and conditions to attract women. They should be common sense however, you might be astonished at the number of fellas who ignore these suggestions.

Inappropriate Dating Venues or Scenarios:

When you are with your current girlfriend

A locker which belongs to your student
A friends' sisters' bedroom
Near street corners
A carnival or renaissance fair
A memorial service, wake or funeral
During a sleepover your sister may be having
Family reunions or holidays

In rehab

At a mental institution
On your wedding day!


Attraction Techniques

Fixing Their Gaze
Don’t notice a lovely woman and then suddenly look timid and hesitant. Take a look at her directly, retain the gaze for enough time so she will know you meant it and after that you may look elsewhere. Whatever you do, try not to stare. Just let her know you are interested and yes, checking HER out!

Have Confidence
In order to be a pro who knows how to get girls easy, you merely need to simply do it! Take a dive and try not to be afraid. The more you attempt the more effective you're going to be. Ladies value a daring approach and an individual who will not be reluctant to speak to them and convey attraction.

Although confidence is excellent it is vital for you to additionally be modest. Lacking humility, means you are simply conceited. Be capable of laughing at yourself and also be real.

Gals adore men who are able to make her have a good laugh. Of course don't be a spectacle or clown. You should also avoid impersonations from the Three Stooges. Rather be playful and enjoy teases, silly jests and joking together. Include humorous stories to share, perhaps aspects of your youth or embarrassing moments. Create an unforgettable experience on her behalf. Keep in mind laughter produces a chemical that alleviates tension which is extremely therapeutic. She will probably be less likely to overlook the gentleman who made her feel great and joyful.

Don't Use Cheesy Lines
Lines guys use to pick up chicks are actually cliché’ these days. Girls greeted with corny or lame pick up lines often get irritated. So what if you saw it in the movies; this doesn’t mean it is appropriate in person. Try not to be so dull. If you intend to interact with a female, just talk to her. A straightforward, “Hi, how's it going?” is going to do just fine, seriously. Females won’t think you aren't unique, in fact they want for a guy who is authentic, rather than a superficial copy.

Take it Easy
Don’t be so swift to run up to her and propose. Slow down and have a moment. Start by making eye contact. Then try getting her attention and smile. If she responds back positively, you can make another move. Spend the entire evening playing cat and mouse for fun; look at it as prolonged foreplay. It definitely will increase the warmth when you ultimately approach her.

Learning how to get girls easy will enhance the success of anyone's relationship ventures. Bear in mind, dating is second to attracting her interest. This should be your first goal and the rest will fall into place with ease!

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    • dagny roth profile image

      dagny roth 4 years ago from Neverland

      Thanks so much Hailey!

    • HaileyAdams profile image

      Hailey 4 years ago

      Nice hub, you gave a very useful tips for guys, if you follow them, you'll have more chances to meet a nice girl. Looking forward to read more from you. Great job!

    • dagny roth profile image

      dagny roth 5 years ago from Neverland

      Thanks Levertis!

    • Levertis Steele profile image

      Levertis Steele 5 years ago from Southern Clime

      You touched some major points that guys need to learn about ladies.

      Great article!

    • Winona Becker profile image

      Winona Becker 5 years ago from Sheridan, Wyoming

      i think you are on the right track here. it always helps to have a good game plan no matter what you're doing!

    • dagny roth profile image

      dagny roth 5 years ago from Neverland

      Absolutely Winona! Well Said. Thanks for the comment!

    • Winona Becker profile image

      Winona Becker 5 years ago from Sheridan, Wyoming

      something you forgot to mention is that no relationship is going to work out if you're not serious. no woman wants to be a booty call, and if you're truly authentic you need to know if you're atualy looking for a relationship. always be respectful and realize women are people with needs and wants of their own!