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How to Get Your Boyfriend to Love You More

Updated on October 3, 2014
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Natasha Pelati has published three books of poetry and writes on real-life experiences with the help of psychology.

Love is a precious gift and for those of us who have love it is the most wonderful feeling!

Giving your all to someone that you love is fantastic and spectacular if they love you back.

How do you know if they love you the same?............ You just do.

By the look in their eyes, in the way that they make you feel and the way that you are treated, is a good sign of their love and devotion to you.

Always give Love as Light as a Feather

Loving someone means you are happy with them and yes we all have our problems and issues but never let the little problems turn into big ones.

Love should be carefree and if your boyfriend turns to look at another girl, let it go because he is just looking and walking with you afterall.

There is nothing wrong with looking at a nice girl as long as he is not making a fool out of you.

Should he want to watch t.v then let him because you can't force someone to do something that they don't wish to do.

By letting the little things go and not acting like you are in charge than your love can be a light hearted romance.

Free Will

We all have something magnificent called Free Will which gives each and every single one of us the opportunity to do what we like and make choices of our own. Whatever we choose to do, right or wrong is our decision to make.

Give your boyfriend his freedom. Freedom to hang out with his mates, watch the sport, talk to other people and the freedom to make his own choices. If he loves you and he is the man that you trust than he will always make the right decisions and would probably choose to spend his time with you anyway.

Show Some Interest

If he has a sport or a hobby that he loves and you don't really like it just show some interest by going with him to a game or listening to his conversation about work, hobbies or buddies and he should do the same.

By showing interest in the things that he likes to do will show that you care.

You do not have to go with to every game or know each player but as long as you are there once in a while then that's all that matters.

Make an Effort

Being comfortable with your partner is a great thing but taking care of yourself is important for you and your boyfriend. Always make an effort to look good even if you have been together for a long time because your comfy pj.'s might not be the sexiest looking outfit to get noticed in!

Get some sexy underwear, do your hair and make- up and take the time out to look good enough for him to notice that YOU are the beauty in his life.

Don't Be Jealous

That is a difficult thing to do sometimes but always remember that if you feel loved by your partner than nobody else matters and should there be a flirty girl (there is always one!) just don't let her get under your skin. Know that you are beautiful, you are the one that he is with and jealousy makes you nasty!

If he loves you then he will pay no attention to other women.

Looking is okay as long as it is not gawking! Leave him to look because every single man does!

Shouting at him for looking or talking to another girl will just make you look uptight and it will make him feel trapped.

Stop the Nagging!

There is nothing worse than listening to your partner nagging! If he hasn't picked up his clothes or taken his plate to the kitchen.......let it go! He will eventually do it and if he doesn't than he will later notice that his side of the house is a mess.

Give him his space and if he is not responding to you about something than just ask him in a nice way before you start to sound like a cackling old fool.

Guys cannot read your mind and if you need him to do something for you all you have to do is ask in a simple way.

Be his Best Friend

You started off as friends so why should it be any different now. Do the things that he likes to do, laugh, joke and communicate as friends and this will make your relationship light hearted and fun!

You should be able to tell him anything and you should always be able to have fun together even if you sometimes don't feel up to it, always keep your relationship light, friendly and fun. Be one of the guys but never let him forget that you are not!

Don't Expect him to Change

The man you met is the man that you fell in love with and if he loves sport or he dresses a certain way than that is who he is.....don't expect your boyfriend to change because that is NOT going to happen and if it does than it will be for a little whule before he goes back to his old self.

Therefore, if he is a guy that loves going uot with his friends or talks to girls all the time than that is the man that he is and if you don't like it, don't go further with him!

You Shouldn't Have to get him to Love you More!

The truth is that if you love someone and they love you back completely than they will love everything about you. If you feel that you need tricks on how to make him love you more than he is not really the guy for you!

Love is precious, love is kind and love is unconditional! You are who you are and he is who he is and that should be enough.

© 2013 Natasha Pelati


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    • Tashaonthetown profile imageAUTHOR

      Natasha Pelati 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      yes people who love each other accept all the flaws. Its good to go the extra mile for your partner as long as they do the same for you.

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      5 years ago

      I love this article,it has giving me more understanding on hw to handle my own flaws and that of my partner. I always him to go extra mile,of which relationship is not like that!

    • Tashaonthetown profile imageAUTHOR

      Natasha Pelati 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      I bet you don't have a boyfriend? Thise who have self respect know their worth. This article is about how to get your boyfriend to love you more, if you read it properly then you would know that you need to respect yourself and your partner needs to respect you. Don't comment on something you know nothing about.

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      5 years ago

      get some self respect, your boyfriend isn't god. terrible article.

    • Tashaonthetown profile imageAUTHOR

      Natasha Pelati 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      That is a very interesting story Riose but I believe in faith and prayer and fate too. I am very happy that things have worked out for you and your family and may they continue to be happy days!

      Unfortunately I cannot print your story unless you can remove the email link as I am unable to advertise this.

    • Tashaonthetown profile imageAUTHOR

      Natasha Pelati 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      Thank you for your comments and for reading!

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      Martie Coetser 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      Great tips - how to get your boyfriend to love you more. No man wants to be in a romantic relationship with his 'mother', or 'older sister', or 'teacher'. Just be his girl+friend, and everything will fall in place.

      Too many women need these tips. Thank you, Tashaonthetown :)

    • Tashaonthetown profile imageAUTHOR

      Natasha Pelati 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      Thank you! People, women especially always meet a guy and they fall in love with the person that they have been dating. Once you get to know the guy all the flaws start to show and you either love it or learn to live with it or you don't, but that person and their habbits wont change, maybe for a while they will do what you expect but not forever, because as the saying goes, "A leopard never changes its spots.!"

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      5 years ago from United States

      Yes, that's right, don't expect your boyfriend to change. Less expectation, less disappointment. And if he ever, in his own will, changes for the better for you, then it's great. :)

      I've noted it all, Tashaonthetown. Thanks. :)

      Up and useful.

    • Tashaonthetown profile imageAUTHOR

      Natasha Pelati 

      6 years ago from South Africa

      Both men and women sometimes nag! The truth is that if you are loved completely nagging is not a big deal and you either live with it or you don't.

      Thanks for reading and the reply.

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      6 years ago from Miller Lake

      Thanks for sharing the tips the one thing I know I myself have to work on is the nagging; but love is precious we must not take it for granted take care!


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