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How to Get a Girl to Like You By Complimenting Her

Updated on July 7, 2011

How to Get a Girl to Like You by Complimenting Her

Every guy wants to know the way to a woman's heart. Hopefully you have found a girl or are looking to find a girl who you can have a deep and loving relationship with. The aim of this article is to help guys who are genuinely interested in something long term, not just one night with a girl. I am going to let you in on a surefire way to get a girl to like you by meeting one of her deepest needs.

So many men think that the way to get a girl is by telling her how beautiful or hot she is. To women this can seem very shallow and makes her think that the guy is only trying to get physical with her. It does not take much brain power to come up with a compliment like that and unless you look like a male model, a girl will get very creeped out by a sexual comment made at an inappropriate time.

Girls are guaranteed to be more attracted to a guy when they are unsure if he is sexually attracted to them. This is because women cannot defend themselves physically and will feel threatened by a comment that makes them feel unsafe.

Here is the key.

Women, unlike men, take great pride in their individuality. With their clothing, jewelry, makeup, personality, etc. they are always trying to stand out from their friends. Men on the other hand value friends who are similar to them.

The way you can get into a woman's heart is by recognizing and complimenting something that she is proud of and makes her individual. Women are DESPERATE for praise and appreciation for the things that make them unique.

I am not talking about showering her with false praise and tons of compliments. She will see through that. Try to observe her and see where she puts effort into her life.

Maybe she is working full time and going to school at night. A great compliment to give her would be, "that is really admirable how much time and effort you are putting into your future, it must be hard sometimes".

Another example could be someone who always seems to have a good attitude. You could say something like, "you know, it's really amazing to me how you always make everyone around you feel so good about themselves".

Maybe you know a girl who is into photography and is always posting artsy pictures. Try to really study them and find something that isn't obvious and is a genuine compliment.

The key is to make it sound casual and to make sure that it is non-generic and special only to that girl. At the same time, I advocate maintaining some balance with the girl. Give her a very nice compliment and then keep some space until she gets in touch.

It will take some getting used to but you will find that praising those around you will make people in general like you a lot more, whether it's at work or with friends. Try it on a girl friend first if you want and see how it works. Noticing the best in others will definitely earn you friends and is one of the best ways to get a girl to like you.


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