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How to Make and Keep Your Aries Man Happy and Interested | Astrology Secrets

Updated on December 7, 2011

Astrology Secrets - Aries Men

You’ve got your Aries man but how do you keep him? The answer is to keep him happy, but how do you do that?

Aries: March 21st – April 20th

What Keeps Aries Men Happy?

Astrology tells us that Aries men are happy when they are active. They like to be involved in local sports. They also like time “with the boys”. They are the babies of the Zodiac and enjoy being treated like babies because of this. Usually they like active, career women.

Using this Knowledge to Keep Your Aries Man Happy

The obvious way to keep an Aries man happy is to support their energetic activities. They are often disorganised so will appreciate a partner who ensures their laundry is done and their sports’ kits ready when needed. You will need to understand his need for “time with the boys” – do things like arrange for them to come over to watch football, soccer or rugby with him. Put on a spread and go out. Treat him like a baby some of the time and you’ll have yourself a happy Aries man. Do things like run his bath and act as a bathroom attendant, let him lie back while you wash him and have a warn fluffy towel ready for him when the water goes cold.

When You Shouldn’t Use the Knowledge to Make Your Aries Man Happy

Don’t use any of these tactics if your Aries man is not appreciative. Don’t use any of these tactics if you are uncomfortable with them. Don’t use any of these tactics if your man doesn’t make you happy.


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      sunny 3 years ago

      im an aries woman and i've been seeing an aries man. We are far away from each other and not in a relationship and we talk every day. he came to visit me for winter break. and i know he loves me, but he has a side chick. What should I do? he keeps denying it, but I have proofs. Please help... also, I am from Europe and he is from USA, i don't think there is a big chance we can be together. :( my heart is broken. i need an advice

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      arlyn_12 3 years ago

      I'm Sagittarius woman and I'm with Aries man for 6years.. base on my experience he so loving even if sometyms selfish I can say that after six years were in love with each0ther.. ders no perfect person,, if u love someone, just accept who really dey are..

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      jaz 3 years ago

      I'm a Leo woman and been with a aries for 9 months although I known him for about 8 years.. But he is very stubborn, a cheater, he changes his mood real quick, he doesn't like to be confronted or put on the spot, sometimes heartless about my feelings and wants..thoughts too. He wants to be treated and don't return the favor unless of course he needs something maybe later, stuck in his ways, child like, and very arrogant. Now on a good note sex is amazing, he does like to have fun, go out spare of the moment, spend money, he has a playful nature I like SOMEtimes. But those are not things that will keep a relationship going. I'm tired of him really he about to be on his own .. Ooh did I mention they are so fucking selfish!!! Selfish, manipulative, slick, butt holes but for some reason you just like em.. Uggh

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      true picsean 4 years ago

      I am a picses and have been with my arian for a year now and he has more of the good traits thany any of the bad ones (caring, loving passionate lover) however he is very selfish and I have noticed if I let him play fifa without nagging im rewarded with his passion so if you treat him like a baby then you gotta keeper!

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      peretta 5 years ago

      I'm a Sagittarius and im with an aries he is really sweet and love to have fun but sometimes he acts funny..but he is very sexual if you know wat i mean:) and we been on and off but he always come back but i love him ^.^ if treating him like a baby means keeping him im in :) lol

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      neha 5 years ago

      Aries man lie every one. they have lots of attitude, my boy friend we have 4 yr relationship, when he is with me he seen another girl..and so many times i catch his lie.... he not interesting in me but he never show...he says i cant stay without you....and late night he making chating with another girls... aries men are please my opinion so please don’t love aries men …. they talks sweet and attract please don't love aries men .

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      VIDHI 5 years ago


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      div aki 5 years ago

      im a gemini person..i am in love wid an arian since past 4 yrzz and these 4 yrzz r the best yrzz of ma life...i hv dated b4 bt nothing is as grt o worth as thiz...ya i do agree we have our own ups n dwnzz but nvr left each odr o got bored.....i love him ad il love him 4eva.....hez a grt lover...atlst hez smart enuf 2 handl m...;) :P

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      aaaa 5 years ago

      Arians are selfish dogs

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      shawneemckee92 5 years ago

      Oddly, my husband is an Aries, but doesn't act like a typical one. He's loving, caring, and really cares for the relationship. I'm a Cancer female who isn't very "nurturing", but I do have the other traits of a Cancer (deep feelings, etc). We work fine, mostly, but then again there's some communication breakdown and misunderstandings, like in every relationship.

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      bettina 5 years ago

      aries men deserve to get hurt, there cruel cold hearted men. they think only on them selfs. plus there strange weired... stay away from them. they deserve sad life

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      buttercream365 5 years ago

      I am a cancer, still in love with an aries after 8 years. We dated for 7.5 years, then he ended the relationship because he said I wasn't showing him enough attention. He then started an online relationship with someone in China, but likes keeping me around. He is leaving for China to stay with her for one month. The friendship between us has grown stronger since breaking up and we are probably getting to know each other a little better. He confides in me, whether I want to hear it or not. Just be patient, ladies. If he loves you, he'll come back.. or at least consider it before he makes a final commitment to someone else. Aries men don't give their hearts away lightly, and are usually sentimental about their exes.

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      Virgo 5 years ago

      Dammm aries guysss are so weird but such good loverrs

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      Baran 5 years ago

      You should love your boy friend very much

      Also if he is not aries or libra

      Just trust him

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      Ariadne 6 years ago

      I am Capricorn N he is Aries all i can say is the It take a real women to keep him happy N that's easy for me to do, cause with me things are goin wild in bed He loves that, allway's ready for him.all passion, oil massage from head to toes.. trat him like a king give him his space,I am happy with my .. N he will never look another woman

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      funnygirl 6 years ago

      i am a gemini girl and ive been dating an aries guy. he's immature, seductive, loves to be in the center of attention, always "on". in my experience, he loves girls who are "hard to get". he likes strong women but doesn't like to be taken over. being submissive is a huge turn off to them. he has the tendency to flirt and cheat if you don't give him enough space to breathe. keep them guessing and try to not depend on them cause they easily break under pressure. they honestly go easily bored so it's a challenge to keep them interested... one thing i know for sure is that he doesn't do anything half way. when he wants me, he will do whatever to make it happen.

      but i believe signs doesn't matter in love. it's just a guide. be yourself. know that you're a female and your role as a gf/wife. relax and enjoy the relationship.

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      Sonia 6 years ago

      I am a libran, datin an arian. The problem i have with him is that he doesn't listen to me, nd that has always resulted to something ugly. We re planning to get married nd am just thinking of how life would be like with him,

      i really luv him though i broke his heart before but now that we re back together i really want to make it work.

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      6 years ago


      I am also a cancer woman and you are so right!! My Aries man also start saying things like you don't treat this relationship as first priority if you don't reply to me immediately! Absolutely like a baby, will yell down the house with determination as long as he gets whatever he wants.

      I an thinking of leaving the relationship. People keep saying that the passion is great et but as a cancer I don't see passion as my top criteria in a partner, I am looking for gentleness and an Aries certainly has none of that!!


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      SKY THATS ME... 6 years ago

      Im an Aries "WERE A HANDFUL"

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      Dixie 6 years ago

      I'm a cancer woman with an Aries man.. it is hard to leave him I found out.. I haven't heard from him in five days .. he doesn't like it when I don't answer him back right away .. we had a fight Friday night.. he was drunk n told me he was partying .. I have tried over thirty times to tell him I'm sorry .. he's amazing when he's sober .. but goes distant and shuts me out when he drinks.. I've loved him for twenty years.. ever since we were kids.. he has ptsd on top of that.. he was over seas and was in the service for twelve years.. I don't know if he's ever cheated on me or not .. I pray every day he stays faithful to me. The way I do him .. I don't know what to for when he shuts me out like this.. please help me..

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      zion 6 years ago

      I'm a virgo woman hopelessly inlove with an arian! At first we were cool but now things have taken on a new dimension, feel like his energy is too much for me! The bullying, rudeness, immaturarity is a problem for me! Lately fights are about my over analysing everything and being too practical bout everything as oppossed to his impulsiveness! He's very bossy and things always have to be his way, nothing I do or say is ever right! I'm very precise, organised and tidy; he is the most messy person I've ever come across doesn't even put his dishes back in the sink after meals and when ever I bring this up I'm accused of being an over critical perfectionist_ aries + virgo = disaster

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      karla 6 years ago

      if its meant to be it will happen don't rush fate!

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      on&On 6 years ago

      so i have had this off and on relationship with an aries man for three years. i am a pisces myself. The first time we were together for ten months and were engaged... but things got physical on both parts and we broke up. and he says i killed apart of him when i left and now he feels like he doesn't love me how he used too but that he loves me. i'm overly jealous i don't know why. im trying to stop that but it is true i don't feel as reassured as the first time. since the day we met it was a whirlwind of passion and now that this time were more comfortable and there s no chase i guess im just scared that he is gonna get bored of me.

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      Kay 6 years ago

      I'm an Aquarius and I've been in a relationship with my Aries man for about a month now. It's been great, he's very passionate, caring and a bit aggressive. We have great chemistry but they do like their space at times (which I don't mind because I need mine too) lol to keep them happy - be positive, have a good sense of humor, compliment him, follow his lead but still play hard to get.. They love the chase ;)

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      6 years ago

      Ok - wow so many characteristics, I am an Aries lady and have just met an aries man. I was starting to hate men because of mental and physical abuse. He is so what I would want in my life, perfect age, funny and yes I have already had sex with him, it was so wild. He has now left and I will only bump into him next year maybe. How do I get him to want to see me sooner or definitely when he returns?

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      bridget 6 years ago

      I'm a libra woman and he's aries man. I love his motivation, but he's very demanding at times and very bullheaded. He thinks I'm a push over, and I am. but I do have my limits. He makes me see life in a diff way and i do the same for him. i just hate our arguments. The passion between us is amazing, we work well together.

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      jamie 6 years ago

      i am a virgo and i am with a aries man. And yes he acts like a baby mine says he always right when in fact he wrong however he bossy,rude, selfhish, and inmuture,at times he dose not listen at all even if it going to help him. He tells me all the bads things about me or if imake amistake he holds it over my head and says to me why i am with you..? Okay yes he can be sweat cute and funny but there always a price to pay, now moreover he dose hurt me at times i feel like i am in hell just because if i don't perform like he wants or if i get a job he leaves only time he comes back is when i am in tears no joke he has loaded his truck up and leaves cuss me belittle me then come after having me up all night til next morning and acts like nothing happen really i need help if i make friends or do anything i am cheating it just got worse over the corase of a year he works out of state i think he is cheating on me cause he uses my ex husdand as exuse i do have to small kids with the ex no matter how i go about things this man never happy with

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      ShakemUpLibra 6 years ago

      I agree with the above Libra. I am a Libra (Virgo moon) and he is a Pieces/Aries cusp (Libra moon) and he was a total hot mess for damn near two years being passive-aggressive and stringing me along. He would never say whether he wanted us to be together or not. He was messing around with one other girl but even still, through all that after I cursed him out (which he hates) we said we would just be cool, I decided to just move on finally and then he broke down telling me how he realized we were meant to be together LOL It took about two months before I gave in and now we're officially together and no problems so far. He still a kid at heart and he still a little selfish and inconsiderate but it doesn't bother me too much and he can be extra sweet, devoted, and active. I think that Libra moon makes him a little less hot-headed than most April aries. I just give him as much space as I can, I let him call me unless I HAVE to call which isn't often, i let him make the first move cause he likes to be in control and feel like a man. That's alright with me lol

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      Andrea 6 years ago

      I am a libra with an aries. They can be the most controlling selfish bitches out there. Ive been with mine for years now and the best way to keep the interested is to show them NO interest. That will make them go crazy. He will chase u for the rest of his life.

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      Latinflavor 6 years ago

      Hi ladies,

      I am pisces and I have been with my aries for 15 years. I find the following characteristics on my aries man(Good and bad); he is punctual, has great work ethics, takes great pride in his appearance(not neceserely for me..), very energetic, loves to go out and about, loves shopping, can't stay angry for long and can be a kid at heart. Now some of the bad here; dramatic, childish, egotistic, selfish, stubborn, moody, shallow, and a cheater. I also have an aries mother that exhibits all these simptoms. Oh, they are also both alcoholics in denial..But with the good and bad, I still love them both very much and I picture myself growing old with this man.

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      pink 6 years ago

      for wendy: aries men is like that... im with an aries man too for 3 years and a half.. they are really like that, don't worry, he is not leaving you, he just needs time for himself. my aries is also like that but i just ignore him and after a couple of days, he would just send me an SMS... :)

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      naka 7 years ago

      Im a Capricorn and im dating an aries man. He is really selfish, stubborn and bossy. He never listens to me even if im right, he just wants to take the lead.

      Sometimes, Aries man can be so rude and violent according to my experiences, but he is also romantic, passionate and humorous.

      Yes i agree that to keep a aries man, we have to treat him like a baby because aries man never grows up. We have to be strong and solf at once. Aries man is really hard to understand because he changes his mood very fast.

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      wendy 7 years ago

      My Aries is so mad for two days an will only email over something very small but I can't tell if he's leaving me. I've apologized and still waiting. Im a Scorpio. Any thoughts please

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      fika 7 years ago

      im a pisces, ive dated and aries man for 3months right now.

      the easy way to make them happy is, in text, try to make up any story that is funny. so they can laugh or smiled at ur messages. in real life, is to be with him, and do the same thing. talk something funny and entertain them. haha, im very lucky to have him. he's the right one for me. i feel protected. but i nvr feel that he's controlling me. that's all. in money, try don't to reject their money. just take it, and appreciate it. its true (:

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      Brenda 7 years ago

      I'm a virgo female and he's an aries. Talk about conflict between us! I thought we were enemies for sure, but he changed his attitude and is chasing me now! He's funny and has a giant ego. I did all the things that attracted him without knowing it which caused him to be interested. He's different person, funny, witty and goes out of his way to help me. There is this magnetic appeal that he has. He tries to make passes, but I'm firm about no sex yet. This makes a challenge for him I didn't know. I looked on the web how to Attract an Aries male. I don't have much to learn here that I am not already doing. : )

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      Sarah 7 years ago

      im a virgo and have been dating an aries man. we row alot because if his sefish and protective ways but the passion and love is amazing. Its so hard to leav an aries man even if there is lows and aries men can make you feel bad at times. But then they make you feel on top of the world, they are confsuing

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      Laura-Emily 7 years ago

      i'm a leo, i guess people say we get on like ahouse of fire but when he wants something he needs it, im never allowed to be unsexualised around him he's too full on i think.

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      catherine 7 years ago

      aries men will tipicly go around from partner to partner till they find "the one". and usualy stay faithfull.but there are so many other aspects to a persons sign, like moon signs and accending signs. that play a huge role in his personality.

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      Vanessa 7 years ago

      They are spoiled,selfish and self-centered this is so true.but they are also charming,romantic and exiciting.I am a virgo and I am so intriggued by my new Aries man.I am going to have to work hard to keep up with him though.

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      Dana 8 years ago

      im also a libra and im in a relationship with an aries... i can say for sure that they are really bossy and like to control everyting...THEY ALSO LIKE TO CHEAT!

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      bettina 8 years ago

      there spoilt brats who try to be bossy and that don't work with me. they can be cruel boring, and im about to leave mine . im fed up of being bored , i know im a good hearted peson and when i met him he was so loving and know the opersite

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      Stella 8 years ago

      I know really...He's not a baby!

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      alyssa  8 years ago

      the best way to keep an aries man is always always let him be in control. Don't ever let him be bored, and treat him with lots of respect. my last 3 long term relationships were aries, and Ima libra

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      Sandy 8 years ago

      Treat him like a baby? How about tell him to grow up? LOL


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