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How to Keep the Romance Alive After Years into a Relationship

Updated on July 13, 2014

Secrets on how to keep the romance alive

We have witnessed a lot of failed marriages as well as those that looked very much like true love that ended up in ruins. On the brighter side, there are relationship and marriages that have gotten stronger despite the storms that they faced. We want to know what is their secret for a long-lasting relationship? We want to know how to keep the romance alive even though you have been together for decades.

So how, as the song goes, do you keep the music playing? How do you make it last?

Sometimes, a long time into a relationship can be boring especially if both parties are not exerting efforts to make the relationship fun and exciting. When you have kids, everything is ritualistic. It is all about the bills, the mortgage, and so many other things.


As the divorce rates go up every year, being in a long-term relationship is considered to be an enigma of sorts. We strive to make things work to save a marriage or a relationship especially when there are kids involved. Here are some ways on how to keep the romance alive despite being in a long-term relationship.


Friendship is the key

There are many partners that started their relationship as friends. Most of these relationships last a long time. The benefits of being friends before being lovers is that you know each other well and you can talk about just about anything without the awkwardness.

No cheating

Cheating is a common problem in many relationships. When trust is broken, it is very hard to regain it. It will mean effort on the end of the cheating partner to prove that he or she is worthy again.

Date nights

Date nights are important because this is where you can spend time alone as a couple. Just you. Without any kids, or in-laws, or friends with you. You can also go to the place where you used to go when you became friends or lovers.

Try something new

Spice up your relationship by doing something that you have done before. It can be something out of your bucket list. This can strengthen your bond and allow you to learn more from each other.

Have some "me" time

Whether that means spending some time alone or going out with your own circle of friends, it is important to be on your own from time to time. As the Chicago song goes, "even lovers need a holiday, far away from each other."

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Communication is very important in any relationship. Resolving an argument means talking to each other about what went wrong and how you can compromise. Understand your partner's habits and attitude because this is one key to a successful relationship.

If you want to know how to keep the romance alive in long-term relationships, remember that it takes two to tango. Each party must be willing to exert an effort to preserve the relationship.

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