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How to Know If You Found Your Soulmate
These are some of the questions you need to consider in your struggle to find out if you have found your soulmate; Do you feel like you have known him/her before? Does he/she text or calls you each time you’re thinking of him/her? In his/her conversation with you, do you notice that you have some things in common? Do you have common traits and common goals? Do you understand the person’s moods? Does the person cares about you? Can you marry him/her outside of your religion and outside your race? Do you share the same dreams? Do you feels each other’s pains from far distance? Does he/she makes you happy? If your answer to most of these questions is yes, then it's most likely that you have found your soul mate.
Top 10 Signs That You Have Found Your Soulmate
1. You can feel his/her presence even when not around:
When you think about him/her you’ll feel like that person is with you. You start to wonder why feeling like the person is with you when he/she is not. What I mean is that you start to ask yourself, what does it mean if you’re feeling like you’re with someone when the person is not around? It’s just that you have developed a strong emotional link with one another where one of you feels pains and the other person can sense it or knows before informing the other. You can see his/her face when you close your eyes, and you can still feel his/her arms around you holding you tight long after the person had gone.
Basically feeling someone presence around you even though not around usually happens when you’re thinking about him/her. But there are rare occasions where you might not even think about him/her but you still feels his/her presence with you. Another thing is that the person calls or text you within a few seconds of thinking of him/her.
2. Under no circumstances will your soulmate threaten to hurt you:
The person you can stay with for the rest of your life will never say hurtful things like I’ll kill you or ask you to get out of his/her sight. Neither will he/she threaten to divorce you nor threaten to hurt you. His/her behavior will never scare you. When you’re worried that his/her behavior is controlling and scary, that tells you that he/she is not your soulmate. No matter how much you love him/her, it doesn’t worth it staying with such person. Your “one and only” will try everything either possible or impossible to protect you and will never use violence to resolve your differences no matter how hot the argument might be between the two of you.
3. May say hurtful things to you but within seconds will make effort to apologize:
We often say things we don't really mean when we are angry and those things can ruin a relationship. Apologizing and resolving your differences as soon as possible will make the relationship grow healthy. When there is conflict between the two of you, the other person will not go to sleep without sincerely apologizing for upsetting you.
4. Your heart starts beating fast when he looks at you:
You won’t know what makes your heart start beating very fast the moment he looks at you. And that kind of heart beat would be something you have never felt before in your life. In fact, your body will be over reacting to that person for some reason. Such feelings is definitely an attraction, and your body is like trying to get to know him/her. The mere sight of your soulmate cause your pulse to beat faster, and if you want to receive a phone call or read his/her text, your heart beat really fast. Smile at him/her the next time you see him/her. If you have the courage, you can introduce yourself to him/her and see exactly where it goes.
5. When you have common life goals:
One of the most important things in relationship is common interests. It will make it easy to do things together and have things to talk about without getting bored. If you have common traits and common goals, know that the other fellow is your soulmate. Without these, I really cannot see a relationship coming and growing together over a lifetime.
6. He/she shows you a lot of care and respect:
The person will not hide anything from you rather he/she would tell you things about himself/herself. And in his/her conversations with you, you’ll notice that the two of you have a lot in common, like saying out what you already have in mind. His/her words would be more genuine when he talks to you. His compliments to you would be more sincere than those he uses for someone else. He would also be more well-mannered and focused towards you. Keeps making cute remarks about you and your personal life. Respects your wishes a lot and doesn’t make any crucial decisions concerning his own life without hearing your views and having a conversation with you.
7. You sees him/her in your future:
Each time you’re thinking, you’ll always see him/her in your future plans and goals. When you think about marriage, the person will always be part of your plan because he takes up most of your thinking. You really can see yourself growing old together for the rest of your life and when you can see all your hopes and dreams when you look into his/her eyes.
8. You feel deeply in love with the person:
When you can wake up each morning not caring what that day has to bring as long as you have that person in your life. All the pain and hardship you have ever gone through emotionally/physically doesn't have any place in your heart or mind any longer.
9. He/she can do anything for you just to see you happy:
He/she is always willingly to take risk no matter what the outcome might be. He/ she will give you anything found in the world just to make sure that the other person is happy, loved, and safe. When someone understands how to unconditionally care for a person for every moment whether it is bad or good, whether the sun is shining or the storm is screaming. That wonderful fellow is always trying to encourage you and help you in any way possible even if he/she has to take the highest risk ever. He/she plans and wants you to become a better person. When he or she fulfill every need and without him/her you are incomplete. The person will be willing to change his/her religion for marriage. And ready to marry you outside of your race. Someone you’re meant to be together with will always look for ways to make you a better person instead of ruining your good traits.
10. Thinking of him/her takes your sorrow away:
If you have found your soul mate, then every second, every minute, every hour, every day and every month of every year that person will be on your mind. No matter what your condition might be, the moment that dearest person of yours leave you, you start missing him/her. Even if you have seen each other for a whole day. When that someone special to you is with you, you’ll feel very comfortable and nothing again can bring you down or take you away from him/her. He/she is the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with, and the fellow is the only thing you can think about. Your soulmate is the person you think about first thing in the morning and the last thing at night. And you’ll never get bored talking for hours with him/her and everything will just be like a new experience.
In conclusion, your soulmate is someone who you talk with for hours and never get bored of each other or run out of beautiful things to say, someone who makes you laugh when all you want to do is cry, the one who makes you smile when you are angry, someone who you run to when something went wrong.
Is it possible to have more than one soulmate?
© 2015 Oyewole Folarin