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How to Pick Up Women and Get Dates

Updated on September 15, 2016

Close the Deal and Get Her to Want You

Close the Deal and Get Her to Want You
Close the Deal and Get Her to Want You

One of the most difficult things for many guys to do is to pick up women. The rules are different for each girl when they first meet a guy, and what techniques may work on one girl might not work on another. This is one of the reasons it can be such a challenge for many guys to learn how to attract the women that they want. When you purchase a book that promises you that you will be able to approach hot women and get them to fall in love with you, chances are those techniques might work on a small percentage of girls.

The books that tell you that you need to simply act like a jerk and the girls will throw themselves at you, are nothing more than fairy tales designed to pump you up with false hope. This book that I wrote about how to pick up women is coming from the perspective of a girl who has seen her share of guys trying to make their moves. Now let me preface this before we go any further because I want to be sure you know where I’m coming from.

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Now I am going to be making references to things that have happened to me or my girlfriends, and I will make reference to techniques guys use to try and attract hot women. I am in no way saying that I am a hot woman. I am not that superficial, and I really don’t think that I am what guys consider hot. I am a skinny brunette with small boobs, and I was that bookworm that you all ignored in high school. Since then I have definitely blossomed, but I do not consider myself hot.

How to Grab a Beautiful Women’s Attention

How to Grab a Beautiful Women’s Attention
How to Grab a Beautiful Women’s Attention

I wanted to make it clear in the introduction that I am showing you techniques guys have tried on me that failed miserably. I only use the word hot or attractive, because chances are they probably felt I was one of those two while they stumbled up to me in their drunken stupor. When guys begin to have no luck with the ladies, they will try just about any technique someone has promised them that will help them to score.

How to Approach the Women You Want

How to Approach the Women You Want
How to Approach the Women You Want

I remember one night that a guy actually came up to me and told me that he just read a book about getting girls. He said he was just going to cut to the chase and tell me we should head over to his place before he tried his techniques on another girl. When I told him I wasn’t interested, he called me a bitch and said that I was being stuck up. When I tried to ignore him, he told one of my friends next to us that there must be something wrong with me because all chicks like jerks.

So chances are that book he purchased told him to change his personality and act like an ass, and the girls would take off their clothes and bend over right there on the spot. Had he come over and said hello and just been himself, he would have stood a better chance. Guys have been reading stuff on the internet and buying all these books and courses on how to get the girl, and the bottom line is that they worked for the author, MAYBE! Chances are it is just a bunch of fiction, and the guys that actually do see results with it must have other appealing qualities that simply made the deal too good to resist.

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Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys

Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys
Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys

I have seen some really cute guys simply blow it with stupid techniques they either read in a book or learned from their friends. I have also seen some nerds and geeks walk up and simply blow me and my friends away. When I use the word nerd or geek, I am speaking from experience here. I consider myself a geek to this day, and I think if you are a nerd or a geek, you will gain so much insight from this book. I remember me and friends were out dancing one night. None of the hot guys were on the dance floor.

They were all waiting by the bar to scoop up the girls as they came in for a drink. Onto the dance floor walked the biggest nerd I have ever seen, this guy was straight out of The Big Bang Theory. He began dancing to his own music in his head I think, and literally was in his own world. He looked over at my friend and told her that she was extremely hot, but her dancing sucked. If she wanted to learn how to dance as hot as she looked, he would give her some tips. Now I have to tell you his dance moves were terrible, but this guy had a confidence about him that had us all intrigued. My girlfriend took him up on his offer, and they had the best time dancing that night.

We were all literally drawn to this guy from the minute he hit the dance floor. Now all those hot guys at the bar thought we were nuts for focusing on him, and I remember being called a lesbian a few times by a couple of them. We laughed it off and had one of the best times in a long while.

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Ways to Improve Your Self Confidence
Ways to Improve Your Self Confidence

That guy was proof you don’t have to be attractive, you don’t need to practice being a jerk, and you can toss out all those books on trying to brainwash an attractive woman to falling in love with you. That guy had exactly what all of us wanted that night, we wanted a guy who was comfortable in his skin, and who was not afraid to make his move when he wanted to. He didn’t give a rats ass if we rejected him because he simply did not care. He knew he was good enough for someone in that club, and he wound up becoming very close with one of my dear friends.

So enough with my little stories for now, and onto the exciting journey of how to pick up women. I can show you from experience what intrigues us and what excites us, and what turns us off. Again I am talking from the female point of view, and I will not be pumping you up with techniques that require you to act like a jerk, or how to act like a wounded bird, or how to try and be someone you are not.

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