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How to Successfully Flirt With Younger Women
Kristen Stewart would be jealous of this angel
How possible is dating a younger woman?
Hardly would you encounter a man that would reject relating to a younger and charming lady. In fact, if i must be straight, there is NO man that doesn't feel this sensation and joy run through his spine when he has a close contact with a younger damsel. Especially when she puts up an interest in you.......Its like flying on cloud 9. You would be like, "Out of these other guys out there, she picked me!"
When we were in the college, there were tendencies that we would be dating someone with just few months or days age difference. Could be that the guy is older or the lady is. Chances are that the couple later get so involved and thus marry. But some other guys might not get along so long and they don't get married young enough.
This write up is basically focused on men that are yet to get married and NOT married men please. I don't encourage extra marital affairs!
Please if you are married, stay glued to your beautiful wife and don't get caught.
If you are yet to tie the knot, chances are that you are in search of a young and good looking lady to hook up with. You are probably 35 years old and you aren't married yet but looking forward to getting a 23 years or 25 years old lady. It is natural that the guy might think it could be a constraint for him to get the woman especially if he isn't rich.
Well you need not bother anymore because i have some fool-proof ideas that will work for any guy who wants to successfully flirt with and date a young woman.
Importantly, dating a young and beautiful lady is very possible. I will show you how. I will show you the tactics.
Don't you crave for this kind of damsel?
Most men think that flirting successfully with a woman will mean buying her gifts, paying extreme attention to her, over-flattering her and so on. But i must tell you those are not even half near ideals to flirt successfully with younger women.
Though it could work for some people but only for few. You might be wondering why these don't move a lady into giving in to you. The fact is that, these ladies already receives many gifts, flattering and so much that yours might not even count. So don't even bother yourself about this. They are very used to it.
So the questions are,
"What could really move a young and beautiful lady?"
"What's gonna make me able to win the heart of this damsel?"
"What would i do to be a most preferred?"
"What would make her ignore her male peers and get stuck to me?"
"Do i have to make heaven fall to win her?"
Be aware that you don't even need to break the bank to win her! It's easier that that.
Hey, you don't have to push yourself to the extreme to locate where the treasure is, the tricks and tips below would do the help.
Steps to embrace if you want to win this lady
Basically you need to firstly know where you can hook up with ladies of the age you want.
If you want a very reserved and not-too-social lady, then you should consider visiting a varsity library or so.
And you want a young lady that is social and very fun loving, then hop to the clubs, beaches and other place that is frequently visited by young folks. Cinema isn't either a bad either. Shopping malls is also in the league too.
Isn't she really charming?
Step 1: Your approach is your gate opener
When you approach her, don't treat her like she is a little girl. Respect her and treat her like she is matured and fully grown. Bear in mind that just as an old woman would crave to be younger, a young woman also adore being older. Isn't this a mathematical irony?
So, approach her like you would have approached other much older women. Make her hear what she doesn't frequently hear from other younger men.
Be confident and say the right thing anyway.
For example, you spot a young lady of interest, go to her and say "Your shirt looks like the one worn by Angelina Jolie in the film SALT."
Am sure you don't want to only say something like "You are beautiful." She hears that everyday. That won't be enough to spark her interest, would it?
Step 2: Enter the gate she opened dramatically
Now that you have opened up a conversation with her, you must not let the flow slip away. Be quick to crack some funny and short jokes. You can briefly narrate a funny scene in another of Angelina Jolie's film and make her giggle. Now she is feeling familiar. If possible tell one or two more jokes but don't try to become an instant stand up comedian.
Now divert the conversation a little bit. I bet you can spark her interest if you initiate a discussion based on the current celebrity news. Start a latest news you heard about Taylor Swift, about Kristen Stewart, or even Justin Bieber.
Of course, you need to be up-to-date on this news as well in preparation of your anticipated chat with damsel.
Your next question should be something like, "Kristen Stewart is one of my favorites, but i imagine her looks if she did a lowcut hairstyle."
With this tactic you are buying more of her attention and time. You are dramatically magnetizing her to consider you to be a different and much interesting guy to be around with.
Someone that can talk about something she is not really used to hearing on a first meet with a guy. And most importantly something she is derives pleasure in talking about.
This is when she would start opening up.
Step 3: Close the gates after you are both in
Honestly, all your deeds would be recorded as fluffy, if after all your works you don't have her contact (preferably her number). This is the basis of you starting up a conversation in the first place, isn't it?
At a point while relating with her, she would of course have a hint of what you might be looking for. A friendship. And that is it! At least for a beginning.
She obviously would know but that your manner of approach is unlike the conventional and immatured approaches she is used to. Now she is meeting a brand new guy who she feels is matured, jovial and friendly to be around with.
At this delicate moment you shouldn't throw caution to the winds by being jumpy and impatient in your manner of getting her number. Remember the fast approach is also what she is used to and it becomes an instant turn-off if you adopt the same style.
She probably knows you would request for phone number. What she just anticipates is for you to apply that same uncommon maturity in collecting her number.
If you are too enthusiatic and rushy about the moment you might never get it. She might even be shy to rushily give out her number even if she approves of you. That's a lady for you.
But here is a trick.
Tell her there was a Taylor Swift concert you went for last month and you look forward to another some other time. But there is one Miley Cyrus concert coming up in October and you would love to see her attend the concert also.
Ask, "Wouldn't it be nice i keep in touch with you before the concert?"
There is no way she would say No.
Watch this hilarious video. Baby flirting :)
Some celebrities/personalities have done it
- American actor Michael Douglas, married Catherine Zeta-Jones. Age gap is 25 years
- Billionaire Donald Trump married Melania Knauss. Age difference 24 years
- Sean John Combs, also known by his stage names Puff Daddy, Diddy, and P. Diddy dates Casie Ventura. Age gap is 17 years
Finally, a word
All this said, please, please and please do not misunderstand my concept of "younger women."
I do not encourage you dealing with teenagers or with any age group that we may denote to be child abuse.
I do not support your unnecessary obsession for very very young girls.
In as much as i know that they can be very good looking and tempting, please keep your prying eyes off them!
By younger women, i mean someone you can go out with comfortably. Get it.