ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

How to calm down your angry wife? Anger management control ideas and tips. Handle anger

Updated on September 5, 2015

Running a family is not an easy business. It needs lots of patience. You have to understand, two different personalities, two different human beings are living together. No way, they will think in the same way. Their likes and dislikes will never be alike. There will be annoying situations. But the success of marriage lies on how we tune our self to over come these situations. In this short article, I will share with you some tips (for men) how to calm down your angry wife, anger management tips.

Your wife is angry? Does she shout at you. Don't worry, it is very normal. Ask your dad how many times your mom shouted at him. We all shout. It is human nature. If she doesn't shout. It is a dangerous situation because, then she is suppressing her feelings, which will come out in different forms. Here are some tips for temper management.

1. Keep your mouth shut and smile: Are you emotionally strong enough to do this? When your wife start shouting at you for something which you never did/ or which you forgot ......instead of shouting back or arguing back, are you courageous enough to smile at her. Sounds difficult, but possible. You may think it is quite stupid to do so, but if you can do that you will make her feel that she is so stupid to shout and her own mind will force her to calm down. More over, if she can make you angry, this means she has the control over your emotions. So control your nerves and smile at her when she shouts...

2. Own up: Every body makes mistakes. There is nobody in this world who has never done a mistake. To err is human but to admit is superhuman. Also she will feel great, when you admit your mistake. But don't do it in a condescending way."

3. Listen to her: She may be shouting at you because her boss did not listen to her or her friends did not have time to listen to her. Many people in this world are depressed because there is nobody to listen to them. Consider this as Charity and listen to her when she shouts.

4. Acknowledge her: This shows that you respect her. But this doesnot mean you agree with her. Her anger if triggered by others may be because she believes something is 1. unfair 2. out of her control

5. Go out: If she is mad at you, better you go out for a walk and come back, by the time she will be cooled down. But if she is mad at someone else, you both go out for a walk. It is relaxing, at least it helps her to clam down. Usually women feel so much relaxing if you tell her that you too feel the other person who made her angry was wrong (if she is wrong, this is the not the right time to open her eyes). Or in other words, if she feels there is somebody to support her, she will feel so much conform and her hormones will be back to normal state.

6. If you think she get angry very easily, may be it is a good idea to present her some of the books listed below or suggest some anger management courses.


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • profile image

      Pemba Lama 

      2 years ago

      When i read this,and i keep in into my mind and its helpful for me very good comunication for my wife and others person.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)