- Gender and Relationships
How to get over your ex-crush *Friend zone*
"Friend" a simple word that can be use to either hurt or compliment others. Let's talk about the part were the word friend hurts...... A lot.
I've been there before,you know..... pretending like "everything is cool at least were friends" but nobody knows what is happening behind the doors of your room: playing on your phone is a song.. a sad song to keep your emotions into sad mode, your laying side ways trying to get him/her out of your head.
"Forget him/her it's her loss not mine" said your brain "This will only cause you to have a dramatic depression that will lead you too scuicide blah blah...
while your heart says keep saying " no keep trying maybe you can still win his/her heart blah blah....
your heart- Wait! were getting vcery dramatic here i maybe making things worst for you hahaha :D let's just get to the point ok? good.
Willingness: Take a deep breath promise your self " No extra feeling " treat them like normal friends" .
Stop: stop feeling sorry for yourself. stop making simple thing complicated. stop being so dramatic. stop hiding from your feeling face them with courage and strength.
Be reasonable: Everything happens for a reason, Face it "your never going to be together, So what" maybe there is a more awesome person waiting for you in the future don't be like " ugh! this is the end of my love life" umm don't you think it's a little too much to think that way.
Make a fresh start; There is nothing wrong with going back from whence you came, there is no shame on it either.
Be yourself: Do not feel awkward ... trust me your gonna blow your " getting over process .
Remember failing is a part of living you have to get use to it , wether you like it or not