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- Romantic Intimacy
Is it the One?
Bigger than I thought
Who is Beauty, who is Beast?
I think a good way to restore lost trust is to try and stop loving them. Push the drama button, let loose the demons, be as nasty as you ever wanted to be in hopes they will be nastier. Whatever it is, girl, that you have to do, do it. You need to get hold of a good reason to hate them.
Then hate them - 10 seconds. Ah, you don't even hate them anymore. Ha, no more heartache for them!
If this somewhat works and you can go to sleep without a whispered "Good Night Them." Or "Aw. I still love Them" you can trust that it is not faithful love. Either you or them has no faith in this love.
Fortune is calling
If, on the other hand, there is one that makes it back thorn by thorn into your heart, or better yet, the one who had refused to take a hike even though you had opened the door and aimed the shotgun at One, I think you're done.
I think you found the One that deserves a shot of faith and trust. Well dosed. Careful. Lots of boundaries. Sail pace. Dressed in a white flag.
If there is one who is deserving, chances are there are more. Now where does all the beauty come from? It must have left a mark.
Also, joining forces makes us stronger.
Spread the love, sister.