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How to know if she likes you or not

Updated on September 24, 2013

Some men are clueless when it comes to this task. I bet you are wondering if the girl you like is just teasing you or in fact does have a strong interest in you. There are a couple of things you need to be alert for if you are trying to detect her overall feel on you. It's always best to look over her movements, the way she carries herself when she's around you, as well as the eyes. Actually, I'll tell you a little secret. The eyes give it all away, but if she knows this - she is more apt to look away. Here are just a few ways to know if she likes you or not.

Body Language

Watch her body movement closely. What does she do when she is talking to you? If she is slouched back, relaxed - that is a good sign she isn't into you or isn't listening to your conversation. Most women who have a crush on a man will seem more anxious to listen to your conversation and will appear interested. Body language would suggest eyes on you, leaning forward toward you. That is a good sign your cutie likes you.

The eyes

The eyes are the most important clue. Have you ever seen a girl watching you, and when you happen to look at her - she looks away. Chances are that your crush does have a genuine interest but does not want you to know this because she is either embarrased or shy. Why not go over and have a conversation with her? 

Already Friends?

If you are already good friends with her, you should ask her a few things. She is your friend and you do not want to hurt the relationship, so just make minor hints like to suggest going on a casual date. Never ever force the subject. If she does like you, she will also initiate something mutual as that is just human nature. You both may be the best of friends, but she might not feel you are great boyfriend material.

Too Shy?

For men who are too shy to initiate anything with the girl you love, give it a shot by writing her a little love letter. She may reject you but what is the point if you don’t try. You might even be missing out on your future wife or a future date with the girl. I mean at least give yourself a chance before you give up or no one else will.


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    • Mystique1957 profile image


      8 years ago from Caracas-Venezuela

      There are some nice clues in there to help. Right to the point and quite helpful! Thanks for sharing! Thumbs up!

      Warmest regards and infinite heavenly blessings,



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