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- What is Love?
How to know that you truly love someone
Unlock loves true balancing Act
Is it really that simple?
To me loving someone is very simple, but knowing that they love you back isn't quite as easy to determine for most folks.
Sharing and caring work hand and hand in the love category to me, and if the person your supposedly in love with isn't rendering such signs of affection back on a consistent basis, then that might be time to think about what it is they're actually involved with you for.
Love can be sharp like a dagger and as precious as a baby, and can do more harm then good if only one partner is to over extend themselves in the love department.
The worst non physical thing to occur between two people, is to not receive some level of love signals back in return, for a simple gesture of kindness delivered from one person to the other.
Now, I do know that everyone has a differing capacity for love, and so it is also something that can be taught, can be learned by children during their growth stages from birth, and most especially from their mother and father through real signs of affectionate sensations of talk, touch, and attention giving, and all the way through their entire adolescence to adult life.
Past Chilhood Experience & Parenting affects love life
Young adulthood also plays a huge role in this arena, when it comes to a youthful mind learning to determine their own taste in a future mate.
If the parent pressures them too much about having a love relationship (the birds & the bees), how they should conduct themselves while attempting to do so, and the likes, it may have the tendency to cause resentment, and potentially back fire on the parent or parents.
This may actually make that young person potentially lose touch with their ability to love fully, causing attachment issues, emotional troubles, and the possibility of not learning how to cope with a true life partner in their unforeseen future.
So many parents whom are far more balanced emotionally, socially, and relationship wise will pretty much allow their children some breathing room, because 9 times out of 10 they might just know the consequences of over burdening them, and if not well its up to the child to break the viscous cycles of lost love.
Attachment issues may also occur from many differing attention imbalance issues, dealing with over attentiveness or under attentiveness in parenting.
Is this how it really goes
Now on the other hand, parents that allow their children to become responsible for their own actions by giving them some slack, by not over burdening them with their harsh ways of discipline, tend to produce a far more well balance adult in the end, because they aren't going to have as many potential hang ups, and unrealistic fears of relationship failure. Actually this is the Hollywood answer to it all, but to truly find out an accurate answer it might just take a huge survey of epic proportions.
Common Sense Says-
Think about it all this way, once that same person decides to quit giving, or for some reason may have chosen not to receive any further, that generally is signs that the person is having considerate issues dealing with their emotions, and its manifesting itself into all physical forms, and especially the things they hold dear to them, much more then the real love that should be shown and expressed to their actual life partner or love relation.
Love is something that stems from the birth canal, and without taking a closer look at a persons entire life experience as a whole, it would be truly hard to pinpoint all that needs to be addressed when it comes to truly knowing who loves you or not, and even if you love them.
By merely taking a person out on dates, buying them fancy gifts, and doing many materialistic things is just a superficial way to show someone what I consider to be false love, because these are the same things that actually make & break relationships about 75% of the time.
So those people whom are in it to win it sort of speak, truly need a self assessment in the love department if they think that all it takes to show and render love is to give or take things from their partners.
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