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How to make a man fall in love with a girl like you
You're a girl and you like a man and you want that man to fall in love with you. The problem is you have no idea what to do and where to start.
You have claimed to your friends that you're head over heels in love with a certain man but your biggest problem is you have no clue on how to express it. Of course, you've done the first step and second step.
Step 1 : Admitting the fact that you're in love
Step 2. Expressing or telling your friends that you are actually in love. But you can't figure out on how to navigate step number 3.
Step 3. Express your feelings to the man you fall over heels in love with.
You can't express step 3 of course. Because to express or tell your feelings to the man you like is really hard than Algebra or any Mathematical problems. Yes, you prefer to solve the problems in school, in your office or anywhere but solving a heat problem? That's really not your thing.
You need a battalion of army to help configure the status of the situation. However, here's the problem, you don't have an army or thousands of soldier to help you. In that case, you have to fight that feeling with just the help of your friends.
Have your friends to help you
If you can't say it or express it on your own, ask your friends to help you do the talking. You see, when you're in love with someone, you want to keep it and just ignore the feeling but that's really a coward way of dealing on what you feel. If you can't do it alone, then, friends are very helpful in this matter. Especially if it's the matter of the heart. That's what friends are for, isn't it? So what are you waiting for? If you're just sitting in your balcony waiting for him to wake up from his sleep, nothing will happen. He won't make a move unless a man knows that someone like you like him too much. Man can be clueless. They want a straight answer or something that just thrown upon their lap.
Just sort of warning: If you ask a friend to help you, just be sure that you really trust this friend of yours. Make it sure that your friend isn't a kind of friend who has a stealing-another-boyfriend-history.
Get him slowly and sweetly
If you have no courage to let your friends know that you need help to express your feelings toward this guy, then, you have to plan another move.
Step 4: Take it one day at a time.
- Texting him and sending him sweet messages. Just friendly messages. Funnier is cute and crazier text is absolutely acceptable.
- Greet him when you see him. Don't ignore him.
- Try to invite him to some place that he wouldn't think that it's a date. Festival, a parade or any wholesome events that involves many people.
- If you're courageous enough to take him out on a date, yes.
And everything else is up to you. Lastly, don't forget to pray.
If nothing works, it means one thing, move on and just enjoy your life.