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How to tell if your Girlfriend or Wife is cheating on you? 12 Signs that she is having an Affair
How to know if she is cheating on you?
Your intuition could be your best friend if your significant other is cheating on you behind your back. There may be many reasons why a woman may cheat on her partner. Mostly a woman may cheat on her partner when her emotional needs are not met by him. However, that is no excuse to cheat. However, it may not be a difficult task to find out if she is cheating if you keep an eye on her behavior. If her behavior has drastically changed, then it could be a sign that she may be into a new relationship with someone else.
Given below are some tell-tale signs you can look out for to know if your Girlfriend or Wife is having an affair.
12 Signs of Infidelity in Women
Infidelity can ruin relationships. If you suspect that your girl is cheating on you behind your back, keep an eye on her behavior. If she is into a new relationship she may display some of the below given signs of infidelity.
1) Drastic changes in Appearance: Has she suddenly become more conscious about her looks? Has she invested on a new wardrobe and beauty treatments? Has she suddenly developed an interest for working out and eating healthy to look slim and sexy? If she was not like that earlier or if that’s how it was when you started dating, then the chances are that she is trying to impress someone else.
2) Not interested in Intimacy: If she has started looking for excuses to avoid intimacy with you or avoiding public display of affection with you, it could be the sign of an affair.
3) You are no longer her first priority: Is she ignoring you all of a sudden? Your wife now has more important things to do that meet up with you or talk with you. She either forgets or cancels her dates with you saying one excuse or the other. She would rather spend time with her girl’s gang than be with you. You no longer seem to be the center of her universe anymore. She no longer refers to you as a couple or shows any interest in doing things which you enjoyed doing together. You may find her mobile phone most of the time switched off or engaged mode. Even if you manage to get hold of her, she may hang up the phone fast giving some excuse. All these could be signs that she may now have a new love interest.
4) She has turned secretive: Has she stopped informing you what is going on with her life altogether? You are no longer aware of what she is doing anymore when earlier she used to give a detailed account of everything about her. Even when you ask her, she either avoids the topic or gives vague replies. She could be doing that because of her fear of getting exposed.
5) She has a new mysterious friend: Does she suddenly have a new mysterious friend whom you know nothing about? She does not reveal much about her new friend even when you ask her. She also does not seem to be interested in you meeting her new friend. Sometimes, this could be the opposite also. She may be full of admiration for a Guy and may talk about him a lot.
6) Suddenly you have become Mr. Perfect: Has she stopped her nagging habit (or she has started it) all of a sudden? She does not seem to be interested in changing you anymore. She has turned indifferent as to what you are doing or how you are doing. If that is not her usual habit, it could be a sign of cheating.
7) She is not interested in meeting your family or friends: She is not keen to be in the company of your friends and family anymore.
8) Simple Questions go unanswered: Even simple questions from you go unanswered. She may get into the defensive mode or question you back most of the times.
9) She has suddenly turned Miss Nice: She has suddenly turned extra nice towards you. She has suddenly started buying gifts or doing things for you. Men and woman may do such unusual things when they are guilty of something.
10) Her friends act strange: If she is cheating on you, most probably her friends would know it and may act weird around you.
11) She lies: She may tell you that she is going somewhere and you may later find out she wasn't even there.
12) Sudden increase in expenditure: Her expenses on car fuel, cosmetics, credit cards, cell phones etc have gone up.
The above given signs could be an indication that your woman may be cheating on you. However, it is best not to jump into conclusions straight away and gather more information before confronting her. Remember that if your accusations turn to be false, you may lose her. So make sure to gather proof first.
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