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16 Signs a Girl Really Likes You More Than Just a Friend

Updated on June 28, 2017
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Anamika S Jain has been a social media consultant for six years. She has written more than 200 articles on relationships and dating.

How to Know if a Girl Likes You

If you are head over heels love with a girl, you would definitely want to know if she likes you or not. Most guys find women a mystery, however knowing the girl's interest level is very important in deciding to take a relationship forward or not. If the man knows that the woman is interested in him, it would also give him the confidence to ask her out, and more!

Knowing her interest level may not be very difficult if you watch her behavioral pattern and body language when you are with her. If you find that she is not interested in you, it is time to move forward or cut your losses and move on to the next one.

How to find out if a girl likes you? Check out the signs below!
How to find out if a girl likes you? Check out the signs below!

Signs a Girl is Interested in You

Not all women are the same. Still, she may give away signals that she likes you or dislike you through her looks, behavior, or body language. It is not wrong to say that words and mannerisms of a person can convey a lot about that person.

How to tell if a girl likes you? Given below are 16 signs to know that she is interested.

  1. She likes spending time with you. If a girl likes you, she will not refuse an opportunity to see you or talk to you. She'll find an excuse to do so When you talk, she'll listen with interest and will try to gather more information about you. If she participates in the conversation, gives long answers, and asks you questions in response, these are all positive signs. Notice if she gazes at you, smile often, or leans close when speaking to you. You may even notice that her eyes light up when she notices you're around. On the other hand, if she does not like you, she may not participate in the conversation or may give clipped responses to your inquiries. Her looking around while you talk to her shows a lack of interest in you, and indicates that she probably wants someone different to talk to.
  2. She gives you her number. If she likes you, she trusts you enough to have her number, email, or chat name so that that the two of you can be in touch. She may even allow you to drop you off at her doorstep or invite you in for a coffee. When there are other eligible guys around you, and she gives her number only to you, it is a positive sign that she certainly likes you. Take it as a signal from her and ask her for a date after you have spoken to her over phone one or two times and have gotten to know her better. When you talk to her on the phone, she may start talking immediately without waiting for you to start the conversation. If she is looking for an excuse to hang up, then she might not be interested in you. She may even find excuses to talk to you often and may call you without waiting for you to call her if she likes you. She may find excuses to chat with you for hours and will even discuss her experiences or inner dreams.
  3. She introduces you to her friends and family. If a girl likes you, she would not have a problem with others seeing you two together. She may even introduce you to her friends or family, or even brag about you to them. She'll be honest, and instead of passing flattering compliments, she may nicely share with you things or habits she thinks would help make you become a better person.
  4. She touches you often. Does she touch you often while you are talking or walking together or does not move away when you accidentally brush up against her or intentionally touch her she may like you. However, if she isn't touching you it may not mean that she doesn't like you. May be she is too nervous of you to touch you yet. If a girl holds eye contact with you then this is a good sign that she is interested in you. Some girls may even blush when you look at them if they like you.
  5. She mimics your actions. If there is interest, then you may be able to detect signs of mimicking. In fact, this is a subconscious thing and an indication that she is interested. Some examples include the two of you taking a drink together or leaning back against the chair at the same time.
  6. She gets jealous when she sees you with other girls. If you are friends with the girl and notice signs of jealousy when you talk to other girls, this is a sign that she really likes you. You can try taking your relationship to the next level. She may even try to distract or interrupt you when she sees you with other girls.
  7. She laughs at your jokes. If a girl likes you, she may even laugh or giggle at your normally boring or stupid jokes. If her smile is a fake or polite one, or if she frowns and looks away, then she is not interested in you.
  8. She may flirt with you openly. If a girl likes you, she may even openly flirt with you in order to get the message across that she is interested in you. There may be seasoned flirts, but if flirting is out of character for the girl, then she probably likes you. Beware, though: do not flirt with other girls when she is around you — she may jump to conclusions and assume that you are not interested in her.
  9. She brags about you. If a girl likes you, it is quite natural for her to talk about you to her close friends. Sometimes you may notice her friends teasing her when they spot you, or notice other friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling. This may mean that she was telling her friends about you. When you are near her, you may notice that she stops talking all of a sudden which can mean that you were the subject of the recently ended conversation.
  10. You may meet her accidentally very often. When a girl likes you, she may try to frequent places you go to often, or find a reason to be where you are so that she can see you. She may even find stupid reasons to talk to you or try to be around you as much as she can.
  11. She is conscious of her looks when you are around. If a girl likes you, she tries to be at her best when you are around. She may be well-groomed and looking even more beautiful than she is normally. You may notice her touching her hair, neck, lips, or clothing when she is in front of you.
  12. She plays hard to get. If a woman likes you, she may play games with you as she knows that a man would not appreciate anything that comes to him easily. She may ignore the guy so that he'll chase her, since men like challenges. In fact, the majority of women like to be a challenge as well and feel that any male who cannot work hard to get them are not worthy of her.
  13. She is comfortable with you. If a girl feels comfortable and secure in your company, then in all probability, she likes you. If she is feeling threatened or trying to avoid meeting you or spending time with you, she may not like you. If she feels comfortable and secure, she is herself around you and without pretenses. So she'll be comfortable talking to you about almost anything. She may even ask you out on a date before you do.
  14. She goes out of her way to help you. If a woman likes you, she may go out of the way to be helpful when you have a problem or if you need help. She'll always have a word of encouragement or support when you are feeling down. Also, if she comes to know that you are sick, she might call you immediately or even visit you because she is concerned about you.
  15. She remembers your special days. If a girl likes you, she'll make sure that she remembers your birthday or may even get you a gift. If she comes to know about an achievement you made, she might immediately call you and congratulate you. She may even ask you about a party as an excuse to see you. She might even buy you small gifts for no reason at all.
  16. She talks about a future together. If a girl likes you, she may mention you when talking about the future. She may even share her long term dreams or aspirations with you.

All girls consciously or subconsciously send out at least some of the above signals. Look to the mannerisms and body language to determine the interest level. I sincerely hope that this article is an eye opener to guys who want to know if the girls are interested in them. If the girl you are interested shows signs that she likes you, then you may take the next step and ask her out for a date. Still not sure you can charm the girl? You may try Pheromone Colognes to attract her.

Have I left out something? Please feel free to add them through comments.

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    Ryan Fuller 3 weeks ago from Louisiana, USA

    Interesting point of views. I will have to take these into consideration next time I am around girls.

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    Finn Liam Cooper 3 weeks ago from Los Angeles

    well a nicely constructed and organized article. A little bit past this liking stage now....but still interesting and wish I would have learned some of these techniques when I was younger.

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    Kyle K 3 months ago

    So I like a girl named Emma and she talks to me a lot along with looking at me, possibly flirting with me, AND she broke up with her boyfriend and SHE was the one who said that they should be friends. I think she likes me. What should I do?!!? HELP PLEASE!

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    Gabriel Garcia 3 years ago from McAllen, Texas

    I need to know if this girl likes me. First, on her Instagram she said that I was in her heart. Then I asked my friend to ask her if she was talking about me because there is a bunch of people that has the same name as me in my school. My friend said that she was talking about me. I was talking to my friend after school and my friend said that she was looking at me. Then I was eating at my lunch table and when I saw her walking by she quickly turned her head as if she was looking at me. Then when I was in the lunch line all of her friends turned and looked at me as if she was telling her friends about me. Then she was in front of me in the lunch line and every time I look away she looks up at me. These are all of the clues that I'm seeing that maybe she likes me. I need to know for sure.

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    Mel Carriere 4 years ago from San Diego California

    This is good stuff for us men to know. Too often many of us non shark type men miss out on opportunities because we don't read the signals appropriately. Thanks for sharing this secret female knowledge with us ignorant brutes.

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    Radical Trololol 4 years ago

    Well, I'm in 6th grade and this girl that sits in front of me surrounded me with her friends asking me if I liked her, I said no trying to act cool. Anyway she never wears shoes in class and neither do I and she always stretches out her feet to put them under my desk where I do. So in English one day, we kind of rubbed feet by "mistake" and we looked at each other for a brief few seconds and thenwe both looked down at our desks. I really like her and her name is Zoe by the way. Plzhelp!!

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    Nooshin Rad 4 years ago

    honey she wont NEVER tell u:Hey,do u wanna ask me out?!!!!!!

    just do it and go 4 it...

    good luck though

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    ashton99 4 years ago

    Ok this was great advice but I'm still unsure on wether or not this girl likes me, all of her friends say she does but she never actually has acnowledged that she does like me. I have no clue on what to do.

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    Nooshin Rad 4 years ago

    bornaries: go tell her in person maybe she is waiting 4 u

    and if she didn't at last u'v got ur answer:X

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    oehawks42 4 years ago

    Im a shy guy and haven't had a good love life but this girl I like likes another guy. I have told her how I feel towards her and treat her nice just last week I spent my Friday and Saturday at her dances (which last forever) but I got her a flower but I later found out that the text I sent her telling how I felt, she had told a lot of her friends so now the know and im not sure if that is a good sign or not

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    Bluntman-Chronic 5 years ago

    Ok i've liked this girl for a long time now. She knows it too. She fits 12 out of 16. She has a bf, which is completely crazy cause she talks to me everyday and hangs out with me a wholeeeeee bunch. When she talks about him she'll say friend. I really don't know what to do. I mean she has a bf so i wanna move on. But her signs stop me. Any suggestions?

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    bornaries 5 years ago

    good writeup all most all the things that a girl does when she really falls in love with you. When something like this happened to me the girl once sat beside me and hinted that I was her "partner". That time I was not into her but the word "partner" was so deep that I started thinking. It was too early and she had already decided me as a life partner.

    Girls are really very sweet and lovely and are capable of giving tremendous amount of LOVE to the person they fall for.

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    hurstbradl07 5 years ago

    hey this is really helpful, but just need some advice, i like this girl a lot but not sure weather she likes me, she plays with her hair and she finds some time to talk to me, ive told her that i like her and she dident really react appart from when we were alone and talking about it kust before she had to go she asked for a big hug, i normally give her hugs but this one was for about 15 seconds that felt like a year, i don't know what to do, she is going through a hard time and tells me everything, we were on the phone tonite and she was on about this other boy that likes her, but said he was annoying and always going on about this other person that he likes, and she said you don't do that do you, so i was like know, would you say that was hinting? also when i text her she doesn't really reply, so would u say she was playing hard to get, plzzzzz reply back asap .... NEED THE HELP SOON

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    Hj 5 years ago

    Thanks she is still a mystery :(

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    Rj needs help 5 years ago

    The girl likes me! Thank you so much

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    Rj needs help 5 years ago

    A girl i like hangs around me a lot. People say we like each other. We always deny. She says she likes a high schooler but stares at me sometimes in class. Does she like. I would like a comment back by may 30.

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    Sajid 5 years ago

    i like it very much......i think it might work thank u very much whoever wrote the tips :D

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    Sarah 5 years ago

    When a girl likes a guy she doesn't do all of that stuff she usually:

    -smiles

    -is cofterball around you

    -is jellous if you have another girlfriend

    -has a friend of hers tell you that she like you without her"knowing"

    these are just a few sighns that a girl like you

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    ananymous 5 years ago

    what if she is only 15 years old.

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    Tyleradams 5 years ago

    Thinks to this page.I know that this girl likes me she told me"i like u a lot"herself i was really happy,i told her how i felt about her.she was happy too. :D

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    swaggmaster5000 5 years ago

    if this is true then lts of girls ike me i mean a lot

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    Scribbelius III 5 years ago

    Oh my god! The most embarrassing thing happened to me on Thursday! Since I'm a PC game designer (Indy games) I drew some concept art in art. However the boy next to me ripped it out of my hands and went to show his friends and I was the laughingstock of the class! Even girls! So when I retreated back my desk, my face red the girl, eyed me and walked over. She said she threw the drawing out, then hugged me. Ok please explain this!!!!

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    Scribbelius III 5 years ago

    Wow... No one is helping me.... But Any way I know I just have to ask her out... But I can't!!! Is there a way to ask her out???? Without acting like a bloody fool??? I mean I'm not ugly... But I'm not a popular kid. By the way popularity has no effect on me. I'm one of the people in the annoying section #Troll face

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    Desperado 5 years ago

    Ok, I know she likes me.. she stressed on that twice, but how deep is that "Like?" my other colleges tell me of her caring for me more than others... She happens to start liking media related duties (When we were in high school i was the president of a media club) its either she is one heck of a good friend or i am not seeing her signs...

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    raman 5 years ago

    i have said her i love u and she replied me 2 is she loves me really because she do not talks with and has said i hate u how to know that she loves me

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    JOE 5 years ago

    Someone likes me for sure but she doesn't want me to know but I do, and if she finds out she won't like me any more

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    Unknown 5 years ago

    There is this one girl i kind of like but when i ask her if she likes me she will alwanys deny it but everybody tells me she likes me what do you think

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    jake 5 years ago

    So for the past few weeks. I've noticed that a girl that I kinda like looking at me briefly. And then on day while I was talking to her she said that she liked me, but it was all quire and she looked kind of depressed while she was saying it. At first I thought she was joking., but then when I realized. It was true I didn't know what to say. And then it was really awkward and I felt like saying something but I was to scared and in shock. The next day I checked Facebook and saw she wrote to one of her friends that she was strangely satisfied with the answer...notreally... not at at all and when I saw that I got really depressed because I wanted to say something but I coudnt. So I think now she she wants me to say something more but I don't know what to say to her about I like her too. Which she doesn't k ow yet. And how do I tell her. She's quite and when I ever see her looking at me she just looks away quickly.

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    anomyous 5 years ago

    I like dis girl at school. At lunch I sit right next to her.I was whispering something in my friend's ear about her. She heard me and saids it say it to my face. I was about to ask her out but I got nervous

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    mikeandike 5 years ago

    ok so she has been really strange around me and i know another girl who has a crush on me but like her friend. what the heck should i do? im twelve but im 150 lbs so idon't know what the deal is. give some advice to me so i can get this all straight!!!!!!!

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    john 5 years ago

    theres this girl that i like in scholol, and i think she likes me. she always talks to me. sometimes she'll ask me to hug her =). Including that yesterday she asked me to hold her hand while we were wlking down the hall. however she told me about the guy she likes(practically every girl likes him though) This makes me mad considering I always go out of my way to help her with homework and other things. and i usually talk to her. do you think she likes me?

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    Don 5 years ago

    I have a crush on this girl at school but I only talk to her through texting and at school I only say hi or just smile at her. I ask her if we could meet tmr and she said sure when and what time? And I said lunch maybe? and she said sure:) you want to sit with me and my friends? can you Please tell me what this means? Please :) does she likes me?

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    Quick32 5 years ago

    There is this girl at my school the first time i saw her we looked at each other for a few seconds. Then the next day i was in the computer lab and she was standing at the door and we made eye contact for a moment then late on that day we saw each other again and stared at each other and that kept on happing for a while then recently i went up to her and i said hi and then she looked at me and looked away then i said can i talk to you and she said no sorry i have to go to class then smiled and went into her class. What should i do?

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    Green64 5 years ago

    Locross? Are you from America?

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    blah3 5 years ago

    i like her .. but can't say any words to her .. haha

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    Scribbelius III 5 years ago

    Yes!!!!!!!!! Level up! Win! She just Broke up with her boyfriend! Hmm..... I wonder why... Could it possibly be moi?? :D

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    Scribblelius III 5 years ago

    Well, help me what you should do is start hanging around her more, and in a conversation say something like; "wouldn't it be weird if we went out? And see her reaction. Next, you might want to do an experiment. "accidentally" tap her with your foot or touch her hand. the final step would be to ask her out :D I know...I know you don't have the courage, but you must try! BTW I don't want 5 dollars, just read my posts and help me!!!!

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    Help-Me! 5 years ago

    Theres this girl in my class That I really like her but i never show her. she sits next to me at the moment and i want to show that I kinda like her. we have know each other for years and we are half-friends i want to start off slow so if someone can give me some tips i will give them $5! Please help P.S. I'm only 12 HELP!!!

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    Scribbelius III 5 years ago

    Oh by the way, my name isn't Scribbelius III, it's my pen name. Also, we sit together in science class so I did an exPeriment. I brushed my foot against hers, and she didn't move, just blushed a little. MOST OBNOXIOUSLY, she is already going out with a boy (who I can tell she doesn't like) and this boy is very in love with her (Grrrr... So am I) he's one of those lacrosse kids. Also known as jocks. She also likes lax too.

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    Scribbelius III 5 years ago

    Errrr.... Well there is this girl in my class named Kate I like and I often find her staring at me. In science class, we did an experiment in which we conducted electricity through our bodies (holding hands.) at first we were touching fingers, but then, she looked at me, grabbed my hand, and said, "I can't feel the shock that well... Maybe this will help..." My face was probably on fire! PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME IF SHE LIKES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    caleb 5 years ago

    i really like this girl in my school and i am not sure if she likes me. she used to talk to me a lot but i am REALLY shy around girls so i didn't really talk to her as much and she stopped talking to me . i think it is because she thinks that i don't like her but i really do. also in class one time one of her friends said she liked me but i think she was just saying it to tease jackie (the girl i like) i am in 8th grade

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    Nick 5 years ago

    No girl does that to me so I guess every girl hates me well the hot ones there is one really ugly girl who likes me but not my type no hot girl that I like likes me or the one I like gets a boyfriend the next day does that happen to anyone else

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    This is for "Stupid" 5 years ago

    Dear Stupid,

    I highly doubt ur stupid... lol. But anyway she might just be trying to make u jealous. And if ur not sure if she has a bf or not just pretend that someone told u that she was with someone. Ex. " oh ya I heard u were with so and so." or something else like that. If she says no give her some signs that u like her, or if ur comfortable enough, tell her that u like her. U still have a chance. Or ask her friends who she likes cuz I told a ton of people who I liked and they r both in 8 th grade and I'm in 7th (one is hotter than the sun and the other is sooooooo nice and has a great personality and has the most beautiful eyes... Cant get over 'em) so I got carried away but ya she's prov just trying to make u jealous and u should go for it. Sorry if this didn't help but I tried so... Ya.... Bye bye

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    John 5 years ago

    Hey for the 8th grader.. you should know this. im a sophmore and none of this is true for guys our age. You see if she likes you a lot she will do things like get all up on you! I know it sounds odd but it is true! Most teen girls are like this. Also i found out that she likes me after nights of talking for more than 2 hours at a time!

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    Ken the Gamer 5 years ago

    Ah god damn...

    Only 1 is listed O.e

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    AceRaph13 5 years ago

    so there's this girl at my school who i REALLY like. i'm in 8th grade right now and i have known her since third grade. i think she likes me because she does five of the things listed above. plus i catch her looking at me a lot in class, break, or even when we are participating in the school mass. anyway recently i was invited to her b-day party on the 4th of april and when i went there i found out that only 30 of the 6o kids in the eighth grade were invited XD. and so at the end of the party when my friends mom was picking him and me up, i told her 'thanks for the invite i had a great time' she said 'thanks for coming' and when i started to leave she called out my name. i stopped to turn around and she was walking toward me, and then she embraced me in a hug and said 'bye' and then she went into her house but as she was turning around i could see a faint blush on her cheeks and her actions only raised my suspicions of her liking me since she doesn't really hug any guys except her dad or brother. So, i'm pretty sure she likes me just need to know if anyone else thinks she does and i also need to know how to tell her i want to be her boyfriend since she knows i already like her thanks to my little brother and his big mouth.

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    Drake 5 years ago

    So I have this girl at my school, we've been friends for awhile. OK, backstory time, I got transferred to a new school when I was young because my mom got re-married. She was one of my first friends and we've been nearly inseperable after that. We talk everyday, I bought her a birthday present, she plays with my hair (which is considerably long by the way). I like her a lot, maybe even love her... we've known each other for 5 years. I just need an opinion on this. Any help will be appreciated greatly.

    Sincerely, Drake

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    bob 5 years ago

    theres this girl i know, she used to do most of the things up there a lot, but now she doesn't...does that mean she doesn't like me? :/

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    questionkid98 5 years ago

    there is a girl in my class who is kind of shy around me and does three of those things up at the top a lot so does this mean that she likes me?

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    anonGirl 5 years ago

    Hey, i am a girl and reading this i realised i do show some of these signs when i like someone, but i also noticed i act like that and most comfortably around guys who i DO NOT FANCY them, because when i do not fancy a guy, but like him and get along with him, i am most confident and myself, and im not afraid to be silly with him or hold his hand playfully or anything. I've realised this might be sending out the wrong message to so many of my close male friends.. but its just, guys who i do feel attracted to, i get all shy and i do not say much with. FOR INSTANCE, this one guy, who i will name 'Josh' really got on with me - when we didn't really know each other, but we were in the same classes, i could be myself and we 'clicked'...Then, a a party, i was his first kiss. But after we kissed, we both didn't talk for the rest of the night. At school, we barely spoke, and then at another party, we had both drunk and so again, were completely comfortable with each other... At school, people started commenting on how well we had got on, and how we would be a perfect 'match' and that they were going to try and set us up , by his friend and mine who are currently in a relationship,. They said that he fancied me, and i think they soon realised i fancied him, although i really tried to hide it, and make jokes about it. Then, at Josh's party, he asked me to go outside a few times with him, and i did, but then i saw his ex and thought it was awkward so left. Nothing happened that party, and at school again we barely spoke - but in class, its strange, because i noticed we both catch eachtother looking at each other... the problem is, i am just too shy to talk to him, and he is a VERY shy person too although he has no need to be - he has an amazing personality, is friends with so many people, he's friendly, and undoubtedly one of the most attractive boys in our school.. the fact that his friends say he might like me makes me feel... so happy, yet so unsure - how could someone as amzing as him like me? and why do we find it so hard to talk to each other? - we never used to, but now we both realise we fancy each other, we cannot talk because it is awkward. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO. AHHHHHHH. And now, because we barely talk, im wondering if he even does like me? Yesterday at this park, his friends and my friends were both like subtly making suggestions about us talking more, and i heard his mate calling him over and i think i heard my name mentioned in their convo. AND THEN, when we were all saying goodbye to each other, everyone was hugging everyone goodbye - AND THE ONLY PERSON WHO I DID NOT HUG WAS HIM. BECAUSE I LIKE HIM. Which makes no sense?!?!!!!?!?! but urrrrrghh... im just so shy.. and i think if we did go out both of our low self esteem would make it hardly work out.. we talked on fb a bit, but now he's in south africa for the whole 2week half term so we wont speak or fb each other. Anyway, i wouldn't know what to say... but i could ask him how south africa is? and i sometimes realise we both copy eachothers actions unselfconsciously. AND, its strange, because in class we will be talking in a group, but although we're not talking to each other specifically, it almost feels as if we are...and we have the same sense of humour. OMG I LIKE HIM SOOOO MUCH, AND I KNOW WE WOULD BE PERFECT FOR EACH other, but i just know nothing will ever happen due to our shyness.... arrgh. i don't know what to do. i don't know why i've written all this, it doesn't even have a point and makes hardly any sense. i just need some.. advice.. maybe from a boys point of view...? and im scared that because i like him so much i've just imagined the fact we have so much in common, have the same humour and 'unconsciousnessly talk to each other through other people...urgh. HELP ME. anyone. just give me advice. on anything. oh and my friend who must know i fancy him - i haven't told her, but she knows me so well i just know she knows - well anyway, shes been telling me him and i are perfect for each other and stuff, and then she goes and tell me how he was in her dream and hw she used to fancy him, but is going out with josh's best mate so for obvious reaosns couldn't make any moveents..but i've noticed her and josh get on so well, and they're completely comfortable with each other - and shes asked him about his feeling fors me, and she said he was just very casually like 'yes, i do like her' but that's all she told me, and although i love her part of me is angry, and i have to admit slightly jealous of her, for just being so funny and pretty and comfortable around the guy i really like. I feel like she's making him fancy her... but doing it slyly, by telling us separatly that we like each other, and making it awkward for us in large groups. Is this what a real friend does? i find it hard opeing up and telling people my real emotions - even to my friends - but should i just ask her to stop leading him on, when all their doing is having friendly banter? which is fine, its just me noticing the fact that they both used to fancy each other and stuff. URRRGH. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ahahaa, and i find how much i like this guy strangely intense.. but omg i don't want people to think im some weird jealous clingy girl, im just trying to put everything feel into this, which i know would be impossible.. but im trying aha. even though it does make me sound kind of strange. oh god.. OH, and just some extra piece of information which i read about - he is a picease, and and i am a scorpion.. our horoscopes aha.. and i read about their compatibility, and apparently they 'feel eachothers pressence in the room, without having to say a word or even look at eachother' which i definatly feel is the case. It also says we are the best matched star signs. Is this me just being weird and clinging on to any false hope that i can find to suggest that we are perfect for each other ? urgh, i really need to get a grip on reality..

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    Bijay kumar roy 5 years ago

    now i under stood that aliena id not loving me ,antony or mahesh but afsal.this buffolo because i cannot live happyly with her now afsal is here and she is gone

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    Rahul 5 years ago

    there was a doubt in my mind whether one of my buddies likes me , but after reading this article I came to the confirmation that she likes me...

    A million Thanks ............. Hats off

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    charleslupton 5 years ago

    @brendonthai

    i thought you don't like sam because' you are not getting married you are going 2 adopt a kid.btw sam still likes you.

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    Stupid 5 years ago

    Any girls reading pls help. So I was dating this girl Sabrina like six months ago but she broke up with me cuz we didn't c wleachother enough but now I see her all the time cuz her little brother plays in the same baseball league as I do. So I saw my opportunity to talk to her and did and then i started to text. I texted her for 2 days and then for the past week she hasn't texted me at all? I've heard she has a bf but idk y she all of a sudden stopped texting me? What do you think happened? Btw she is about 6 inches taller then me but is super nice has a great personality and is beautiful.

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    Randomness 5 years ago

    Listen I just met this girl the other day, and I like her, a lot. It's weird cause usually it takes a while for me to be interested in anyone but she's drop dead gorgeous with a great personality.

    I helped her with her drunken friends the other day to which her friends said i wasn't good looking- fair enough I know I ain't exactly *insert goodlooking male celeb here* but I try and make up for it by being nice and outgoing and fun. She said that I was so nice for helping her and that she'd add me on FaceBook. She did. I asked her for her number cause my friend is dating hers and he asked me and her to tag along but she said she had no credit. Was she just blowing me off or does it sound like a legit excuse?

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    brendonthai 5 years ago

    i'm in 5th grade and there's a girl named samantha in my class and i really like her.she asked me out but i said no because i was too shy and scared.i think she still likes me because i can tell she gets jealous when i am around girls.i started hanging two girls but i still have feelings for her.she is mean to me but i think she is just joking about everything.i want ti ask her out but what if she changed her mind?

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    Bailey Hall 5 years ago

    There is this girl that I have a crush on and well this friday (tomarrow) my entire class is going to the great escape to see the premier of The Hunger Games with 100 other kids and i want her to sit next to me so that if there is a part that scares her she will turn and grab me so she will feel safe well her is my question how do i get her to do that without her finding out that i havea crush on her if you who she is and you know how to do this here is a clue about her she sits kyle's table next to abby at Community Monessori Her initails are revrsed HB her last name is my first name. any pointers?

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    Manoj 5 years ago

    in my life i love a girl lot,

    she's everything for me,

    she also love n care me,

    i always trying to go close with her, wanna talk to her, finding excucess, taking risks but i hndle these problems becoz some moments of love spending with her,

    n she also love me care abt me but she not taking interest while she talk to me,

    don't notice me in class,

    saying lots of lie's n excuses for not talking to me,

    always busy with friends,

    don't give me a minute to talk to her,

    always with friends n talk to there friends,

    if i say for talk n wanna to some time spending with her, she gives me excuses that her father comes to pick her n she goes to home, n i m going my home that time but i m always find that she say me lie, she goes home aftes 1 or 2 hours,

    what can i do,

    i think she only going to time paas with me,

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    chris 5 years ago

    There's this girl I like but I'm realy confused first she was laughing at all my jokes and always smiling at me but now she barley even looks at me except for the odd glance she barley talks to me and out of anyone her friends seem more intreated In me I've tried breaking the ice by giving her complements like I like your earings , your hair looks pretty today and you look pretty as always please help so confused ahhhhh!!!!!

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    Reece 5 years ago

    Theres this girl i have liked for a while. Shes my best friend and were very close ( shes even told me all of her secrets) we went on a trip to france and for the whole 30 hour bus journey she sat next to me and ever since then she has shown many of the signs above like linking arms and holding hands when we were on a roler coaster. Does this mean she is interested.

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    Unknown 5 years ago

    Ok, well this girl i like i think is partly inoring me and partly wanting to talk to me im really confused but she does drop hints though she laughs at some of my jokes that a lot of the time arnt really funny and she is nicer around me but i just choke on the subject of likeing her and talk about something else. I do already know a lot about her and she confuses me her friends however are never any help so i just casualy talk with her after we get off of the bus please help!

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    Tom 5 years ago

    I'm really confused, I like this girl but she is never around to talk to and when she is she has her friends with her and i can never speak to her. I never see her. Every now and again I talk to her though, wot do I do?

    Help Anamika S!

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    zack 5 years ago

    theres a girl in my 7th grade class named sara.....shes always wanting to talk to me and whatnot,wanting to know how im doin! THX!

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    Hi_Peoplez 5 years ago

    Man can someone explain to me asap please!!! Ok so this girl in my class started flirting with me and she gave me her number. She always textes me and hugs me. She says im cute and nice and has talked about me and her in the future. (Marriage). But sometimes i hear her talk about a guy idk if its me. She kinda digs black guys but im not sure is she like me! I heard her say something about a boyfriend and kiss earlier and im scared that my shyness got the best out of me and that i lost her to someone else! She asked me if i still liked my ex and i said no and she smiled. From what i said does she like me?? I never asked her to be my gf because im scared to get rejected or that shes dating someone! Please help!!!

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    someone 5 years ago

    if this happened to me a year ago and she has a boyfriend now, can she still possibly like me

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    Artificial 5 years ago

    Some of these are true, but what i don't know is how to act on these signs - and also whether these signs are actually signs of her liking me or just generally :S Ima so confuseded X'(

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    un 5 years ago

    i am not sure if a girl likes me but there is a girl who is my classmate who keeps talking about the way i do things, keeps touching me with her pencil or anything she is holding on her hand, she even dumped other boys especially when i am around and she tries going near to me when she seats at near me.Are those signs that she really likes me?

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    Ridoku sennin 5 years ago

    I have this girl who likes me and she says do you luv me and i say why are you asking me that question and she laughs so i'm kinda confused.

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    bbm 5 years ago

    i go out with this girl i really like her but don't think she likes me we barely talk but we go out maybe shes shy maybe i am iwent out with a girl before her we had great conversations easy to talk to but her i have a hard time with

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    Bananas247 5 years ago

    Her name is emma. At an iceskating party she was always by my side and occasionally holding my hand. I am pretty sure she really likes me. The problem... She is not popular and all my friends hate her. Also her best friends are insanely annoying. I am stressed and clueless.

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    rynlaw 5 years ago

    I'm a bit confuse to my friend we are really close and yet now we become really close right after she broke up with his bf and all that you mentioned in above all fits so is that mean that she really likes me? what should i do?

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    ren 5 years ago

    wew that was nice to know.

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    Joseph Pattan 5 years ago

    So i like this girl. We are BFF's. We are really close we txt everyday allday. She keeps saying we will be BFF's forever but, I want to be more than just BFF's. She made me Brownies, and a big card with a lot of stuff about me on it, and she bought me candy. SOooo what do u think of the situation? Does she like me as a friend or more?

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    Big daddy 5 years ago

    So I'm in 8th grade but back in 6th grade I got sooooo nervous and choked when I asked this girl out but soon her friend started talking to me I asked her if she liked me after sone time she said no :( but later in 7 th grade I kinda liked her and we don't talk much now but, I asked her out like 7 times she said idk every time. Even her friends said we should date and all. Since then I've liked many girls out of my conference but, I'm small and not the best guy ever with a funny and bad reputation, point is I have a terrible time on keeping girls to talk to me and be friends in this case. Any advice?

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    Vlad 5 years ago

    I met this girl couple of months ago. I liked hear and i think she liked me. We flirted maybe 2 weeks after that. I was a wuss so we rarely talked for several weeks. She must have thought i am not interested. I started talking to her and everything seemed great. I told her i liked her and she didn't really respond, but she did not freak out or avoid me. She gives away some signs that she likes me, but she is kinda mysterious. We texted each other today and she acted like she doesn't remember that i told her i liked her and she had forgotten about some other things. Is she playing hard to get, because i really have a feeling that she is a type of girl that would give guys hard time getting her. Her friends always jiggle when i talk to her and they even wrote some stuff about me and her on her Facebook wall. Is that a good or bad sign? And yes, she says that she doesn't want to hang out with me alone because she doesn't really know me. The problem is, i don't really hang out with anyone because i am "new kid" at school(i came from Europe this year) and i don't really know any of her friends. And can someone please clarify, because i am inexperienced with girls- i have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl or anything like that. I am 16 and only place i see her and talk to her is school. I am a little bit confused here, please help!

    Cheers!

    Vlad

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    JordanX 5 years ago

    Hey hi!!Here is dis gal i like a lot..we have a family frndshp..but she has just had a break up wid her bf of almost 1.5 yrs..So last nite she stayd over at my house coz her parents were nt home...she cried abt her break up n i consoled her..N we kissed!!Now she isn't answering my sms or calls...she just msgd me once dat she did a big mistake by kissing me n hates her life n herself!!But I Love Her more than anything!! What should I do?? Pls do help me....

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    mikeandike 5 years ago from Minnesota

    Ok. So I have a plan for revenge on smart alek. This plan will work because I have all my friends in on it! this is going to work! No progress on the girl yet:(

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    mikeandike 5 years ago from Minnesota

    There's this girl in school that gets me going.But I kinda have a competion with a smart alek. I'm 12 in grade 6. What sould I do? Her bf isn't the best guy in the world. I've had some flirting from her, but it's hard to tell if she likes me. I'm a little overweight,but still. I think she likes me. To make matters worse. ALL of my friends have had gf's! HELLLPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!

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    Shahwar 5 years ago

    Maybe, my frnd's boyfriend: zain will come to Know, that kashuf like him!

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    Rey 5 years ago

    There is this girl who is acting wired around me like she wants to be there but can't. She will sit near me and is happy when we get paired up on assignments. She is showing that she likes me but the problem is that she talks to a lot of boys and is " going out" with one of my friends. I don't want any bull crap about body language I just want to know what I should do

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    jazzzy 5 years ago

    Well, there is a a girl,and I seem to be stuck between the friend zone and a relationship. She does things that shows she likes me, based off the list. But she also does things that shows that she doesn't like me. She's an extremely hard girl to read, and I don't know if she likes me or not. I was told to just make to move for a kiss,but I don't know if I should because if she doesn't want a relastionship, then I kinda screwed up. I don't know what to do.

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    Micky 5 years ago

    I am the shy type and fancy her madly, but she is out of my league and pretty much every boy fancies her!! She gets along well with every boy, including me. She sits next to me in Maths and we get along and flirt well, despite recently splitting up with her boyfriend. We used to text each other like mad!! Surely she doesn't fancy me, does she????

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    idiot111 5 years ago

    Me and my ex fell inlove with each other but i fucked up hard and i don't even know wat to do...but some advice for some of u people out there don't mess up and cheat on a girl its not worth it cause when it comes to it u lose EVERYTHING! u had with her she'll slowly drift away as if it were all a dream, im still currently trying to get my beautiful of a person back and its harder than it could ever be just don't do the same thing that ive done its not worth anything.. treat the girl with the respect she deserves, call her beautiful no matter wat, make her laugh and smile kiss her and comfort her when shes sad, hug her, cuddle with her while watching movies, just make sure u don't lose her.

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    ok 5 years ago

    this is not true you guys know nothing about us girls. just because we look at a boy or laugh at his jokes it does not mean that we like him.

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    KingKripter 5 years ago

    Hi evaerybody i finally managed to get a hug from Mariah but sshe also likes to play thiss game andd i cant tell if she loves me or not soooo please reply by monday that's when i see her again thanks oh and good website;)

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    DBest530 5 years ago

    GreatArticle

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    That Other Guy 5 years ago

    LOL I hate my life..... I loved this girl and really didn't kno wat to do she did all the above, and there were even times when we would stay up just taling fo an hour or two laughing. She would tell me that she would hav dated me. But one day I moved to another class cause I was supposelly "too smart" and they put me in the accelerated class. after that for some reason I stopped texting her to see i she would text me back, I stopped talking to her to see if she would break the Ice. She would smile at first but then slowly it started faithing away. She got knew friends and started acting "to cool" for me. Then one day I had the guts to enface her and tell her watt I did, but one of her friends inturrupted me and she followed allong. The orst thing is she started to ignore me right in my birthday, and later on I would learned that she jooked up with some one knew. I was heart brocken and if I were to read this earlier none of this would have happened..... :(

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    Kyle Saysavanh 5 years ago

    well if u want to ask her out then do it but be prepared if u get rejected

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    addie7564 5 years ago

    hi everyone, right theres this girl i like and she like to make me laugh until i cry lol see and her friend are going to the cinima with me and she the 1 who asked me to go. i really like her. should i ask her out?, plzzz some1 reply

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    vedanth 5 years ago

    Guys guys....all dis way before there is a real important thing knowing her type...dis is realy realy important.....kno her character and implement the wright tricks....and der lies the success.......

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    Allen 5 years ago

    The girl I like shows most of these signs, but she claims not to like me. She won't give me her phone number. sometimes she tells me that she would have sex with me. She also does that flirty wave to me. I like Her a lot but I cant really tell if she has feelings for me.

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    Silva 5 years ago

    Number 12 is the biggest crap ever. If women ever think that, they need to wake up to reality, and get a life. Life is not a game, but about living it, and not wasting time with whatever games. If one really love someone, do all you can to make that person happy, ignoring is the worst step. In fact many would ignore a woman like that. how can you try hard on someone that seems to ignore you ? never.

    That is all, Thank you.

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    Kyle 5 years ago

    look everyone if you want to ask her out, then do it! if you don't, then don't! some of you neeeeeed to grow a pair and just do what YOU want to do, not what people on a computor screen think you should do. I hope this helped :)

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    Kyle Saysavanh 5 years ago

    hey i like a girl and i tryed to ask her out and she said no but thx for asking but after a month my friends starting to tell me shes going to ask me out????? i so confused i tryed to ask her and she said no then shes going to ask me is that normal????

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    pranker94 5 years ago

    I asked a girl out and she said ill think about it and then 2 months later she never answear and after that we just became good friends and i think she likes me and i don't know if i should ask her out or what to do?

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    ????? 5 years ago

    look andrew that girl likes you just ask her out . also im dating that girl i was talking about

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    wishihave rilfriend 5 years ago

    this r good tips

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    Yogi 5 years ago

    Thanks n great....bt a question....my love says that she hate me...and if i ask reason she refuses to tell it....bt from her eyes pointed she is really in luv. wid me...what's the reason?

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    ???????? 5 years ago

    thank u for this article now i know;)

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    Ethan 5 years ago

    I've liked this girl for 4 years at least and I still don't know if she likes me back