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7 Extraordinary Ways to Win & Date Hot Women

Updated on May 7, 2015
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Seriously speaking every man wants to have the best girl they can date or even marry. When I say best girl here, I don't mean the hottest Hollywood babes alone. Every man has their own taste of best women and we I respect that. A woman seen to be the best by another man may be seen by the other as the worst.

Every relationship that succeeded or fail started when one of the two parties involved be it male or female captured the attention of the other. Guys want to get noticed by women and so are women. The toughest and even the shy guys desire to be noticed even if they show it. It still remains a mystery to many men when it comes to the art of getting the attention of a woman even with knowledge of reading body language being popular in this millennium.

Sometimes it can be kind of amazing when you think about how much time guys spend trying to figure out how to get women, and yet, most guys end up hoping that they somehow meet the right one and don’t have to spend the rest of their life trying to figure out what to do on the weekend. Can there really be an easier way or is this just what you have to go through?

Combining my knowledge on psychology and personal experience, I will give you seven tips that you can use to grab the attention of the one you think is best for you.

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1. Have Have Fine Sense of Humor

Women are sensitive to emotions. This you must know better. Sense of humor tops most woman's desirable characteristic in men.When you are a little bit funny with a woman, you will see her notice this and immediately, she will begin to kind of go back and forth with you. Most guys try to be too clean with their image around a woman and it makes them seem about as irresistible as a plain vanilla ice cream cone. When you are a little funny with a woman, then you come across as being a little more REAL, plus you seem to be a challenge to a woman and you have her eyes on you already.

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2. Have Confidence

Women don’t tend to have much attention on guys who have lot of insecurities. OK, if you are not confident around women you still get noticed but remember she is not yours yet. Can I say she is on open market? Not to offend your good ladies out there. I am just using marketing terms to create a better picture. She is also looking elsewhere. If you want them to notice you, then you cannot show many insecurities. You need to project confidence, the kind of confidence that makes her stop and look twice at you. You have to show from the beginning that you are the man she can learn on, the shoulder to cry on and above all the one she can trust to take care of her.


3. Be The Answer To Her Emotions

Women don't care how tough or rich you are. If she is pretty, chances are that many rich and tough guys already visited her begging for her attention and you are just a random guy. Laugh with her, smile with her, cry with. After all you want her to feel that you are emotionally attached with her. This guarantees her security in you. Women are emotional beings and if you address her emotions, you get her attention. Simple as that.

4. Health and Grooming

Good healthy body complimented by good selection of clothes makes you stand out among other guys. Having clean teeth, clear bright eyes and smooth skin makes a lot of difference on whether you get noticed by women or not. It’s OK to look dirty in work place but it’s not ok to go shopping or attending a party looking scrappy and smelly.

You can have the most handsome face on earth but poor selection of clothes on your body can let you down. It’s about projecting who you are. Mixed messages are confusing and make women think you’re trying to hide something or be someone you’re not. After all, musicians don’t dress like accountants aren't they?

Good health and dressing are not a deal breaker, all of the time, but if you give off the wrong vibe to a woman when she first notices you– you are definitely going to have to “work” a little harder to make her feel attracted to you. A lot of times, we like to think that people do not judge each other based on appearances, but the reality is, it happens all of the time. Some of the best opportunities that you will get to meet women will happen when they are kind of unexpected, and you don’t want to get caught out there looking like a total mess.

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Be Multi dimensional

Who wants a guy who just goes to work and comes back home and eats and sleeps? Boring isn’t it? I am sure many women will find this boring. How about a guy who manages a very hectic daily schedules in work place but still finds time to go out at nights, fishing in weekends or travels to exotic places when he could or research on-line and write articles in sites like hub pages to earn few extra dollars? Interesting huh! Women want a living man, not a dead man. If you are interesting, women will find you interesting. Women are intrigued by men who are not afraid to step outside of their comfort zone and test their limits.No magic there. Try this

6. Make Her Curious

Very simple but many guys over look this. If you make your women curios by not giving away all information about yourself from the beginning, you will get her to be curious and would want to know more about you. That means you already have her attention.

7. Talk to her as if there was really something to say

If you just walked up to a beautiful women and the street and told her “you are drop dead gorgeous” she might even scold you.

If you say something to her as if it was really needed to be said, say for instance, she is looking at hard a highly priced commodity in a supermarket and there you find yourself next to her. Saying you are drop dead gorgeous just won’t work these days. Why not say something about the high price of that commodity. Why not try normal every day conversations like “the price of cabbages these days are too high”. Make sure she knows you are talking to her. That’s quit important. A good smile, open and healthy and well groomed man easily gets noticed in situations like this.

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      Kessie Tadap 9 months ago from Papua New Guinea

      A must read for very men :) great work!

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      Ian D Hetri 3 years ago from Papua New Guinea

      Thanks Bill. Glad you enjoyed the hub. Cheers for you and your hot girl.

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      bill 3 years ago

      it's nice and impressive...

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      Jen Christopherson 5 years ago from Oklahoma, USA

      Recommending this to my single male friends!!!!

      Sharing socially as well!!!

      Great hub Ian!!! You have done it again! How about something for women on this?

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      Glad you found it useful...funny things can be at times..appreciate your comment.

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      accofranco 5 years ago from L Island

      nice tips...lolz...thumbs up!

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea

      A bit of polishing up being done on this hub...check it out.

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea


      Thanks for commenting. I am glad you found them useful. Really appreciate your comment.

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      sandrafowke 5 years ago

      These are some great tips and real advice not just a list of stuff you can buy her lol. More guys she check this one out :)

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      Deborah Brooks Langford 5 years ago from Brownsville,TX

      You are so sweet Ian. I thought you were so much younger.. great work.. I ant wait to read more. good nite my new friend.


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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea

      Hi hi my lovely wonderful Debbie

      I love writing about what life has thought me for the last 24 years I have been living on earth. I often get puzzling looks when I get up to give a seminar or earthworms and climate change (My field of study) but that all motivates me to do more....Apart from study on earthworm and climate change, I also love reading and researching in almost everything so that probably makes me look much older than I look...lolz

      Thanks again for the wonderful comment.

      Keep the poems coming cuz I enjoy them much.


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      Deborah Brooks Langford 5 years ago from Brownsville,TX

      Ian, you have to be older than you look.. You look so adorable. Love your advice.. hope the men take it and I wish them ,luck.. great hub, my dear.

      Voted up


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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea



      Thanks for commenting. Appreciate your comments much. happy hubbing.

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea

      Ardie. Thanks for commenting. I glad you found the hub interesting. Like every thing else, if you want the best you have to put a little bit of effort in..

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      ajayshah2005 5 years ago from Mid Asia

      Nice hub.Great tips for men.

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      Elena 5 years ago from London, UK

      Hi Five - Lovely Hub..... I hope one day you will write about how to KEEP her. :)

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      Sondra 5 years ago from Neverland

      This is very interesting. I didnt think men really put much thought into how they acted to get a girl. I always thought they were lucky to be able to just act like themselves whereas it seems like many women try too hard and may even change for a man. Great Hub!

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      Ian D Hetri 5 years ago from Papua New Guinea

      Angela Biggs & Crystar. Thanks so much for commenting. It is my desire that guys do what is right and get what they want. Thanks for the vote Crystar.

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      Crystar 5 years ago

      Very interesting hub. Great tips for guys out there. I voted up.

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      Angela Biggs 5 years ago from United Kingdom

      Great hub Ian. I guess this would help a lot of guys out here. Now I am definitely curious to read the other part for women :) The video is also great.