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How do you get a girl to like you

Updated on October 22, 2011

WHO'S THAT GIRL

How can you get a girl to like you?

She is the girl of your dreams,every time you see her your heart skips a beat, every thought in your head is about her, you make small scenario's in your head, taking her out, walking hand in hand with her ,talking and laughing with her and even kissing her. The problem is that you don't even know her name,you have never even spoken to her,so how are you going to get her to like you?.

There are no hard fast rules when it comes to getting someone to like you, you can try as hard as you like but no matter what everyone is different and everyone has different tastes,she may be the girl of your dreams but you might not even feature in hers. You can't force someone to like you nor can you buy affection from a person,a person will either like you or they wont.

Get Her To Notice You Too

The first thing to do is to try to get her to notice you too,if you are passing her in the street smile as you pass and say hi,of course don't make a nuisance of yourself by walking past her every 2 minutes,just in passing, give it a couple of days of saying hi once or twice a day in passing and then the next time you pass pretend to notice something at the other side of the street just as you are passing and see if she says hi to you first.it sounds silly but if she says hi it means she has noticed you.

Start a Conversation

Now that you know that she has noticed you it's time to start a conversation with her.

The next time you pass her on the street after she has initiated the hi, smile and say hi as per usual let her walk past then turn and say "excuse me" when she turns ask her a question pertaining to the street you are in i.e " Do you know where such and such shop is"?.after that try to get into a conversation.

Ask Her Out

Asking a girl out can go either of 2 ways she will either say yes or no, no doesn't mean yes but sometimes no can mean maybe,if the answer no is followed by "I can't tonight" or what ever night you chose to ask her out on, because "I have to be somewhere else", is an opening to ask about a different night. but if she says "no im washing my hair that night" or something similar to that it means that she really isn't interested in going out with you and it is time to move on.

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      sakoya 2 years ago

      I really like a boy in my school . I want to tell him i like him but when i go to him i panic

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      jenny chung 3 years ago

      I really like someone in my class but I just feel like I am not brave enough to tell him.

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      jenny chung 3 years ago

      i asked this boy in my

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      demont 3 years ago

      I like. this girl and i asked her out but she said in a day o r two

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      Meow 4 years ago

      Last year this girl hated me now all the time on my bus she says hi and winks at me, then I say hi and the conversation is over, does she like me or what?

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      lebanon boy 5 years ago

      i love this girl named hawraa assy her grandparents are next to my house i go everyday their just to see her but when i see her i get too nervous

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      isabellelove123 5 years ago

      I am in LOOOOOVE WITH THIS GIRL NAME ISABELLE SHE LIKES MY BEST FRIEND I ASKED HER OUT NOW I THINK SHE HATES ME

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      howtogetthegirls 5 years ago from Global

      Hey guys, unless you start the conversation you'll never get the point where you can ask the girl out. If you don't ask the girl out you'll never go out with here.

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      X+5=X 5 years ago

      OK so I like this girl and she likes me back but we don't really know each other much. We sit together in some of our classes and we basically flirt whenever we see each other. I am just wondering, should I ask her out right now, or should I try to get to know her better and strike up a friendship first? (and then ask her out of course) Oh yeah I am in middle school

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      batmuppet 5 years ago

      i like this girl in my class im not shure if she likes me back were friends [im the funny guy in my class and she laghs a me when i tell jokes what do i do

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      oppish 5 years ago

      theres this girl i like but her dad is friends with my dad so if i told my dad about it hed probably blab about it we go to church together i really like her because she is close minded like me is there any advice

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      Mtbdog 5 years ago

      I asked a girl out and she didn't respond and this other is trying to figure out if I like her and she sort of likes me but I really like this other girl so what should I do??

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      Brock 5 years ago

      Theres a girl that I like, we're good friends, I haven't asked her out but she knows I like her. I honestly think she doesn't like me but Im not sure. What should I do? Are my chances ruined? (im 8th grade)

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      Corr 5 years ago

      I find myself HOPELESSLY infatuated with this beautiful, artsy neo goth chick. Normally, this wouldn't be a problem. I like her, she's 16. But, I AM 12! I don't know what to do! Not only that, but she has a boy friend! Why?

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      Jake 5 years ago

      Hey, I'm a freshman and I REALLY like this one girl. We've talked twice, but very briefly. The problem is she's a sophomore. Do you have any advice?

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      getthatspecialgirl 5 years ago

      Hey dudes here are a few tips on how to get that special girl! PS I'm a girl :)

      •ok so I know you here this all the time but it really works- be yourself! Trust me girls like that. They like guys who aren't afraid to show who they are

      • the next tip is to try to be funny! Girls love that funny guy with a great sense of humor. When you talk to her don't just tell her jokes, actually talk to her about other stuff too

      • ok another tip is, don't act like someone you're not! I know you boys think that the girls always go for the "popular" guys but trust me the guys who are nice and fun to be around are the popular guys in a girls mind

      • next tip is flirt. It's basic human nature. Have you noticed that whenever you flirt with a girl they'll start to like you back, or when you tell them that you like them they'll start to like you back, I don't know why people do that they just do

      Well I hope these tips work because this is honestly what a girl likes in a guy, follow these steps and I am 89% percent for sure that she will be into you!!!!

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      gurlhelp101 5 years ago

      Here is how to get a girl to like you...

      Ok do girls always like guys who be themselves and are always having fun, trust me I'm a girl I would know. Also try to be funny, girls always like funny guys. If girls think you're funny they'll always want to be around you and want to talk to you :) hope this works!!!!

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      Kamaldyn Yhemmy 5 years ago

      There is a girl called GRACE,in my school(classmate).

      The first time/day raw this girl .i don't fell in love with her and also she too.

      But later after a year of begin in this school,we started talk not as a friend but as classmate .but as time goes on we started talking personally.

      There is a day, i was amoung my classmate during examination time ,'we were just talking about 'LOVE AMOUNG NOWADAYS girls".

      After this all.

      I said to them that i can't toast a girl but a Girl will toast me bcos of my character.they all said your own is different but the girl i said at first "GRACE"

      said to someone(her friend) amoung us that she love what i just said.

      One oe my friend that hear this told me that these girl is in love with me but i don't agree with him.

      But late after tow month i notice that ther e is something in the mind of this girl and also pupils around us and look into her feelings that she love me and she do shows it to me but She can't talk and we are sitting together in the same class.

      BUT NOW I HAVE REALIZED WHAT SHE WANT FROM ME AND IT'S MY LOVE

      PLS TELL ME WHAT TO DO BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE

      PLS PLs pls plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz help me

      I LOVE THIS GIRL.

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      sambit 5 years ago

      ya in our small life time many girls are coming and going but some one is special apart from them.......so get the special person and let ur life with that person....then u will feel that u won ur life........love

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      anmol 5 years ago

      i love a girl so much how can i make her like me as i do

      plz help me friends

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      christian 5 years ago

      dose this work

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      tman1111117 5 years ago

      theres this girl called madison everytime i see her my heart skips a beat i always try 2 tell her sometin but just 2 shy idk wether to just start a conversation or not o and need tips

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      Chips 5 years ago

      Hey I am Ben and I like a girl called nicola from school but at our school we aren't allowed to date and she is always in a big group and I can't talk to her unless she is alone I only met her last week but I still love her

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      ladies man 123 5 years ago

      I really like this girl that sits next to me but Evan though she talks to me and had a good time with me she allways talks about another

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      andrew 5 years ago

      hi i am 13 and i like a girl that's 14 she is really pretty but iam to shy to ask her out what do i do ?

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      Another guy 5 years ago

      Hey guys my name is Connor and I am 13. I really like a girl but I have overheard her talking about another guy she likes. How do I win her love before she wins his :) tnx

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      babygirl1911 5 years ago

      i am a girl and i like this boy what do i do

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      Gabe 5 years ago

      Girls loooove funny guys though beware: you will get friend zoned sometimes. The best way to get a girl in my opinion is to friend her friends. Also most chics love super nice guys (i got a girl that way)

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      jack 5 years ago

      I have this girl in my class that I like and she always comes up to me a like puts her arm around me what should I do?

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      Brad 5 years ago

      anyone under 12 shudnt be even thinking about a girlfriend.

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      CJ 5 years ago

      theres a girl i realy like and i cant get the courage to ask her out please help

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      lexie 5 years ago

      im so in love with this girl i roght a song for her like brono mars how do i no if she likes me back

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      jacob 5 years ago

      hi im 10 and thars a girl but shes 10 to what do i do ?

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      lizzy 5 years ago

      You guys r funny allu have to do is is text her saying hey I was thinking about you a lot and I wanted to ask if u would be my girlfriend and then its either a yes or no or sometimes I t will be ill think abou I'm a girl and trust me all the girls i n my grade want that to happen or just send them a valentine on valentines day!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      logans 5 years ago

      i like this girl, he doesn't like me, she has a locker next to me, and my best friend told her i like her. what should i do?

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      logan 5 years ago

      listen, i'm 13, and i want to ask her out, but she doesn't like me, and he knows i like her. what should i do?

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      Yeah... 5 years ago

      Well, let me teach you all a very useful lesson. Give up! Just quit! Because in this life, you can't win. Oh, yes, you can try, but then again, you will fail. And you will be losing big time. And, after all, the girl is going to call you a fat, washed-up loser and crush your soul! So do yourselves a favor and just give up!

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      Sam 5 years ago

      Its like the girl is confused how can i realize her that she is in love with me ??

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      gurveer 5 years ago

      i like this butiful girl named camile i am shy to ask her out i told my friend that i like her and told her now she hates me and we stay like 5 feet away from each other anyone got some advice and everyone is tessing me in my class meaning all the boys in my class i am a boy and i am 9

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      utkarsh 5 years ago

      i am 18,i love a girl and her name is manisha. we only know names of each other.she study in my tution and sometimes i thought that she also likes me but what i will do

      i feel scared in proposing her i always see dreams of her every moment hey guys plz help me

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      Brock 5 years ago

      Hi I have a hot girl I like and she is so hot and she is by her friend all the time and and how to get her and I do not no her name and I get a to scared to take to her so what do I do

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      gthgfc v 5 years ago

      i have a crush on this girl called Kennedy and shes really pretty, but she doesn't like me

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      suzz 5 years ago

      I am 20,a special kind of feeling for a girl is emerging inside my heart even though we haven't seen each other.....

      she also says that she loves me...but she is just 16...we used to chat through facebook and share each other's feelings...i don't know whether it is love or not...sometimes i feel that it is just a puppy love....

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      talk-to-the-hand 5 years ago

      Im 11 years old, recently via my dads work at a school i met a 16 year old girl.

      The school he works at does a camping trip at the end of the year, she was one of the year 11s the came,

      she was put into the camp me and my dad were in.

      ( THAT'S HOW I MET HER )

      its january now and ever since camp in july i haven't stopped thinking about her, she never leaves my mind.

      what should i do?

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      Mark 5 years ago

      I love someone call Hannah she dateing a boy call Ben I shy to ask her out myself but my friends have do it for me the 1 time she said yes but week later she dumbed me and backed to Ben and all the rest has been no and iam 11 and she is as well. What do I do?

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      muzammilkamran mama baby care school 5 years ago

      I love a girl very much,she is like a dream to me but the only thing is that i don't know how to make her my friend she study in mama baby care school i love her very much but i don't know that she love me our not there several girls in our school but my heart have chosen her as my life partner,we both have been study from our child hood she is soo beautiful and nice now it is upon Allah to make us life partner and most importantly her name is AIMA MALIK THE FAERY OF MY DREAM THANK YOU

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      Tank Dempsey 5 years ago

      To all young people in the world having troubles picking up a girl: I agree it is a bit hard to talk tO the girl you like. I'm in that problem right nOw. You see I'm young and I like this girl who I think might like me back. That's not the worst case scenario my friends asked her out for me she said no wait one of my friends asked out a girl she said yes to him. What I'm trying to say is maybe the girl likes you back but she's scared of telling your friends sO I think what's best is you ask her yourself man up and do it if she's says no don't worry eventually you'll get over it.

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      juna 5 years ago

      two girls proposed me,,but i like them both,,i need one girl ! what to do¿

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      Chris 5 years ago

      I love a girl that i have n ever talk to i want God to halp me get her.

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      Louca 5 years ago

      Hi I'm guy ki like this girl she noes it I told her we r speaking for a month now and little more. She broke up with her boyfriend now on 3 months and she must up want should I do to win her I'm 27 and she is 24.

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      Ashish 5 years ago

      I need help..i like one girl very much & i want to mary with her,,for that she said yes,,,but now she says i don't want in her life,,,she loves me too,,but i cant understand the reason why she is doing like this,,i don't want her to go,,plzz help me . i cant live without her

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      Mandy 6 5 years ago

      Okey im a girl and your comments are realy funny actualy we girls love cute boys i luv 2 boys and i cant choose

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      5 years ago

      i'm 11 and i like a girl i,ve done her but then she triwked on somone else. does she still like me?

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      Piyush vij 5 years ago

      hieeee i wanna share smthng dat i know a girl she is my best frnd and unfortunately i fall love with her i love her a lot i cant live without her!! And i proposed her bt she said that i cant be in relationship because i dnt want to break my parents trust and she said bt when we wl get our jobs thn u come to our home thn i wl say i wannna marry u!!! Wt shud i doo!!nww

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      abs 5 years ago

      hi guys I'm a girl and here are some tips on what to do:

      • DO NOT ACT LIKE YOUR ABOVE HER girls absolutely hate that. when I guy does that to me i automatically think their rude.

      • don't try to fit in; yea being in the "popular" group is good but girls would wayyyy rather have you be nice

      • don't be too shy; yea, girls think shy is cute but don't go overboard. then you just look immature

      • show that you like her; if u have already tried that and she absolutely doesn't like u then act like your unbothered by her decision it will annoy her.

      • if texting her and ur talking about who u like and she knows u have liked her tell her u like some1 else. it will make her jealous

      •. DON'T TALK ABOUT OTHER GIRLS; girls hate that.

      • talk about her; not you

      • include her in your group of friends then she will feel important and liked

      • if u have told her u like her and she doesn't like you then she's not the one ; there are many girls out there that are probably far better. don't waste ur time on one

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      niko 5 years ago

      there is a girl i like but i don't know if she likes me

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      Mo 5 years ago

      Sup guys well my problem is that I like this girl and so she found out but now i had to tell I don't like she thinks I don't like her anymore but i do so I talk to her best friend and now the girl I like thinks I like her friend. Anyone that has any help pls I really need it I'm 12 years old and now I'm going to grade 7 in 2012 and I don't know what to do pls I really need help

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      raul 5 years ago

      she's looks at me as well as smiling there is no problem on this step.,but when i going talk with her, she goes away every time i mean, she not talk with me...what can i do?

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      piyush magar 5 years ago

      it worked in case of me . i got that girl

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      Jd 5 years ago

      I'm in 6th grade but I love someone in 8th I want to be with her so much what do I do

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      shy guy in school 5 years ago

      i rilly like this girl in my class bu when i toled her she put he down twice how do i get her to like me

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      J-o-e 5 years ago

      Man, we all have the same problem, i like a girl but she has asked me out then changed her mind, and it is driving me nuts. I like her a lot and think she is funny and smart and pretty but she just changed her mind. I am in a pickle

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      tevin 5 years ago

      why is everyone 12 or 13 lol

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      Ramin hakimzada 5 years ago

      Hi my name is Ramin hakimzada i love a girl wich she is work with me at office every time i saw she lookat at me

      i don't know what should i do she is my boss iam really afrad from her i cant say any thing for her please help me i wana to be with her i love her so much help me help me pleasssssssssssssssssssss

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      RAMEES 5 years ago

      I AM LOVING A GIRL ,SHE IS A GIRL WHO TAKES THE DECISIONS ONLY WITH THE PERMISSION OF HER PARENTS.SHE LIKES ME.BUT IN THESE FEW DAYS SHE HAD HATED ME A LOT,BECAUSE I HAD CALLED TO HER HOME AND HER MOTHER IS HAVING DOUBT.WHAT I WANT TO DO TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM?HOW CAN I,MAKE HER LOVE WITH ME?

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      Dan 5 years ago

      There is a girl that has asked me out and says I'm a nice (I'm not a hugger) I don't like her but am afraid that I will ruin her rep If I say no

      Wat should I do anybody help plz

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      Name 5 years ago

      When u ask a girl to be ur gf wat if she says no.wouldn't peoples say that's z kid who asked her.what a shame. that's z problem now get it?

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      alex 5 years ago

      hi my name is alex im 12 years old i like this girl named jasmine but shes dating somebody else and i will do anything to break her and her boyfreind up what should i do.

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      marcus 5 years ago

      i love this girl name Kayla with all my heart and she don't even know i exist

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      Avery 5 years ago

      Okay, I really like this cat, but when I try to have butt sex with it my wiener won't fit. What should I do?

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      Wanted06 5 years ago

      hey so theres this girl who ive known for a while now and we recently started talking after she broke up with her man she had for 4 years, even when she was going out with him i liked her, i give her signs like using hearts and stuff and she always sends hearts back too. recently she got back together with her man but that week they got back together he moved pretty far from her. shes been putting up images on her bbm about how girls can only stay for so long and stuff... is this a sign shes trying to tell him shes going to leave him? and should i tell her that im falling for her?

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      flippidy stick 5 years ago

      Im 12 and Im dating a 13 year old. She is a gamer and likes hellokitty and things like that but she always shys away from me when I try to talk to her...

      How do i get her to talk to me?

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      Falcon 5 years ago

      Hi I'm 12 and sports captain for my school team and I really like this girl but I get nervous around her

      Any help????

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      Wolfey101 5 years ago

      Some of these comments r really funny

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      cookies 5 years ago

      It seems weird that im a girl and i read an article for boys but ir read it for fun bcuz some things boy write down(talking about what women like and such)is hilarious.it could even be a girl writing bout a boy and its funny.BUT thiis makes sense.Im only in sixth grade to

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      bob 5 years ago

      so i like this girl. Someone told me that she like me si I dated her once for a week and i didn't like her that time and i just wanted her to get out of my life cuz she was mean so i broke up w/ her. 3 weeks after we broke up i started liking her and even still now and that was 2 years ago when we dated. I don't know what to do. I mean like i don't know if she is still interested in me. Should i give up?? Give me some advice

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      john mason 5 years ago

      i love this girl but i don't know wat 2 do around her and i move away

      my friends tell me she loves me 2 but i just am 2 shy but i am very cute i just want 2 be with her

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      HilumNlngKoOyyyy 5 years ago

      i have this girl named Jordana Dacayana but i cant tell i haven't told her for about a year cuz im scared :( uhh well i guesss its time to move on i give up i mean i cant even get close or talk to her and i am afraid to her rejecting me aww please help me

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      rana 5 years ago

      i like a girl named sania dutt ...i noticed her she is out of my reach not even in my section ...............how should i get her .....v both in same yeaars of college ......i totally like her

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      jung 5 years ago

      i love a girl called hannah

      she is so beautiful,smart,abd funny.

      i love her!!!!

      someone....tips please

      i cant talk to her....i am too SHY!!!!!!

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      bilybob22 5 years ago

      alright there is this groop of girls in my class one just broke up and another one is making out with this eight grader which im a sixth grader and she is two and we are really good friends but this one girl man she is I just cant put it into words. And ya. Can somebuddy help me get her please pleas please please please please

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      I need advice 5 years ago

      Ok I like 2 girls I like them but I'm sure they like me but one of them nows I like her and what should I do should I just give up?

      P.S. I have slow danced with both of them and I am 12 years old? What do I do

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      Katrina 5 years ago

      OK so i like this boy named Anthony, and i'm in 6th grade and he's in 7th I know he likes me but he's not even trying to get my attention help!!!!!!

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      kate 5 years ago

      ugggggggg

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      penisstroker 5 years ago

      everytime i ask a girl out I jerk off before i ask her out with out washing my hands. it releases a lot of stress. I also found it helpful to to tickle my butthole and make it pucker and that makes me laugh like hell hahaha i sure love a good old stroke off

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      poopyass12 5 years ago

      I am in love with a goat, I have already bumfucked it about thirty times. I like to lick the goats butt a lot. My ding dong has since gotten infected because of the feces on the goats ass.

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      girl 5 years ago

      i am a girl: when u r trying to impress a girl, u can see that she likes u too by looking at the following:

      she likes to bite her lips or lick them while talking and smiling at you

      she drops her bag deliberately so u can look at her feet

      she likes touching your hair and your arms

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      girl 5 years ago

      i am a girl: when u r trying to impress a girl, u can see that she likes u too by looking at the following:

      she likes to bite her lips or lick them while talking and smiling at you

      she drops her bag deliberately so u can look at her feet

      she likes touching your hair and your arms

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      shawn 5 years ago

      alright i am in 8th grade an i like this girl since the 6th i cant get up the courage to ask her out so i ask a friend to ask if she would for me( i told him to ask her hypothetically excuse my spelling)she says we are only friends what the hell do i do or should i just give up.

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      subham 5 years ago

      i love a girl. I love her by my heart. Liking someone and loving someone are different. At first i liked that girl. But since few days, i cry in her thoughts, in every work i do, i feel her. I am in love with her. But that girl takes me as her best friend. She loves an another boy. I didn't want to break her heart. But i can't live without her. What should i do?

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      234123234123234123 5 years ago

      There was this Girl named Carolyn...

      I was always dreaming about her since the last 4 days...

      I know it was her in my dreams because I love her...

      I also had a feeling that she likes me in real life...

      Yes, I love her... but I don't have the courage to tell her...

      Please help me... BTW She is my Classmate (2nd year HS)

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      Lukester 5 years ago

      Plz help me!!! I LOVE HER!!!!and she is the most beautiful person I know and she has te most beautiful name-Karly

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      Lukester 5 years ago

      Well ive dated this 1 girl twice. Everytime I see her my mind goes blank, I asked her out the first time she said yes but broke up with me 3 day later, then in the middle of summer we started 2 talk again and she And I started 2 ask q's I brought up who do u like?, she said I'll say if u say I said a girl I used 2 like and she said me. I was so happy because I liked her, we talked everyday and she was embarrassed that she was dating me so she didn't want anyone 2 know then she broke up with me out of the blue I was heart broken. Once I got the courage I asked her out again, she said no, then she and my friend sent nude pics back and forth, I was devastated so then I just became absolute emo but I can't get her off my mind. I LOVE HER!!!!!!(I'm in 8th grade)

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      dee 5 years ago

      i like this girl in 5th grade she is my age and she likes me to

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      Kingpro 5 years ago

      I like this girl but my best friend just broke up if i go out with her does that make me a bad person plus i can not say any thing to her because she is hot

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      sejnas 5 years ago

      hi! good day. can i ask you guys some question? there's this girl, she's in a province and im in the city. i really like her since she's grade 2. and now she's in 8th grade. the only communication we had is thru txts, but she's no longer answering my msgs. how will i know if she likes me back o how will i tell her i really like her? how can i tell it to her parents? please healp me. thank you so much.

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      Anomynous 5 years ago

      I want this girl so badly, like I rate her infinite! Almost every boy in my class likes her. But I've still got a fighting chance!

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      Romeo 5 years ago

      I don't like one girl i don't like her anything, but I love her and she's already a boyfriend & her boyfriend was my best friend before we hadn't met,,,,,i have left my best friend for her i have give up so many things in my life just for her,,,,before a couple days it was her birthday i wrote a nice poem and gave it to her as a birthday gift but she didn't accept it so i gotta know that she hates me can someone tell me should i keep loving her or trying to forget her please tel me the right thing to do

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      a girl speaking 5 years ago

      So i'm in 8th grade

      First of all be yourself anything else is stupid. Second stop freaking out if she likes you or not, just ask. If you have been waiting for along time then she is most likely dieing for you to ask her out. If you don't she will think that you don't like her. Even if she does say no there is probably a reason behind it, like can't date till high school, or is just around friends. If she just plain says no, and honestly doen't like you get over it she's not right for you. But if you really LOVE her then keep trying-she could turn around and start liking you back, sometimes it just takes us a while.

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      brogan 5 years ago

      ive been out with this girl once before and made an excuse to break up with her once a year ago but now everytime i see her or speak to her or smell her perfume i feel like my hearts in the palm of her hand and she does not even know it i just try to think of the words to express my feelings and to be honest i have thought of a lot but i know i will get shot down worse than a duck in hunting season so if anyone out there has any points of view on how i can do this please let me know but don't tell me to be myself cause to be honest i don't like myself i can be funny but im immature and loud where as i know girls hate that so should i stop...