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How to Tell If a Guy Is Really Into You - 5 Signs
If you are dating someone, and you are interested in finding out how to tell if a guy is really into you, here are a few tips --
He Calls/Text Messages You Daily. When a guy is genuinely interested in you, he takes the time to check on you on a daily basis. Normally, the calls and messages are substantive in content -- not simply -- “Hi how are you” -- but he demonstrates a true concern and wants to know how you are doing. Aside from checking on you, the guy who is interested will want to share details of his own day. Although some men will “fake it” or play at this type of behavior, if you listen to your intuition, you will be able to figure out if his actions are sincere in nature.
He Plans Dates Around Activities You Enjoy. A guy who is truly interested in a woman will often plan dates around what she enjoys doing. An example of this is a guy who opts to take a woman to the ballet or theatre, although he hates performing arts. Men like this are “keepers,” because this type of behavior demonstrates that he is not selfish, and he is serious about making you happy.
He Says He Wants to Take It Slow. If a man tells you he wants to take it slow, but still actively pursues dating/seeing you all the time, he is normally being sincere. He handles everything with care, because he is attempting to win your heart.
He Asks You in Depth Questions About Your Plans for the Future. When a man asks you detailed questions about your plans for the future, it is normally indicative of the fact that he is trying to see if you are long term relationship material. In addition, he will also share his own hopes and desires for his own future, and what he is seeking in a long term partner.
He Tells You that You are a Wonderful Woman. The guy compliments you all the time, and says that he has never met another woman like you before in his life. He makes it clear that he wants you to become a part of his life, and that he desires to be a part of yours.