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How Do You ask a girl out
How to ask a girl out
How to ask a girl out
Asking a girl out on a date should be easier than it actually is for some people after all how difficult can it be to say "Would you like to go to the movies on Saturday night with me"?
Fear of rejection holds us back why? because we are men and our ego gets hurt easily, it's embarrassing and you wish that the ground would open up and swallow you whole when a girl says no. Girls just don't understand just how much effort and preparation it takes for us to ask them out, what thoughts run through our heads in the day running up to the event, it's hard work and it drains your energy mentally and physically.
Does she like me, will she say yes, what if she says no, will she laugh at me, a million scenario's run through your head you even imagine the date the will you hold hands, what will you talk about will she kiss me, will she want to see me again. Crazy thoughts what if's and buts.
Calm down, take it easy, there's no need to sweat buckets all she can say is yes I will or no I wont or words to that effect, drop dead loser is also an old favourite.
What would a girl do if she liked you?
Ask yourself the question above and then try it for yourself, if a girl likes a boy what would she do?
1) She would get her friends to find out more about you.
2) She would get her friends to ask your friends what you think about her.
3) She would get one of her friends to approach you and ask how you feel about her.
4) If a girl likes you after steps 1-3 she will either get one of her friends to ask if you would go out with her or she would come and ask you herself.
Girls do it the correct way we guys should take note.
Now you try it get your friends to do the work for you follow steps 1-3 once you have followed steps 1-3 you should know whether she likes you or not if it is yes then you should ask her out, don't ask a friend to ask her for you girls prefer the personal touch.
Knowing that she likes you should be a boost to your confidence and you should have no worries or fears when you ask her out.
FOR THE GIRLS
If a boy looks at you more than once he likes you, ask him out lol.
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