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How Do You ask a girl out

Updated on June 11, 2013

How to ask a girl out

How to ask a girl out

Asking a girl out on a date should be easier than it actually is for some people after all how difficult can it be to say "Would you like to go to the movies on Saturday night with me"?

Fear of rejection holds us back why? because we are men and our ego gets hurt easily, it's embarrassing and you wish that the ground would open up and swallow you whole when a girl says no. Girls just don't understand just how much effort and preparation it takes for us to ask them out, what thoughts run through our heads in the day running up to the event, it's hard work and it drains your energy mentally and physically.

Does she like me, will she say yes, what if she says no, will she laugh at me, a million scenario's run through your head you even imagine the date the will you hold hands, what will you talk about will she kiss me, will she want to see me again. Crazy thoughts what if's and buts.

Calm down, take it easy, there's no need to sweat buckets all she can say is yes I will or no I wont or words to that effect, drop dead loser is also an old favourite.

What would a girl do if she liked you?

Ask yourself the question above and then try it for yourself, if a girl likes a boy what would she do?

1) She would get her friends to find out more about you.

2) She would get her friends to ask your friends what you think about her.

3) She would get one of her friends to approach you and ask how you feel about her.

4) If a girl likes you after steps 1-3 she will either get one of her friends to ask if you would go out with her or she would come and ask you herself.

Girls do it the correct way we guys should take note.

Now you try it get your friends to do the work for you follow steps 1-3 once you have followed steps 1-3 you should know whether she likes you or not if it is yes then you should ask her out, don't ask a friend to ask her for you girls prefer the personal touch.

Knowing that she likes you should be a boost to your confidence and you should have no worries or fears when you ask her out.

FOR THE GIRLS

If a boy looks at you more than once he likes you, ask him out lol.

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      Zeke 4 years ago

      I'm in 6th grade I like this girl at my school I've know her for like forever and I'm to scared to ask her out. What should I do about it?

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      help please 4 years ago

      hey I like this girl , lately she's saying "hi" and "bye" when I walk by her and she only does that to me but she likes my friend who is dating my crushs best friend it's complicated but what should I do , ask her out? we are on the same bus so tht would be kind of awkward, but my friend who's dating her friend asked me if i wanted him to ask her out , but i think it might be since I've never asked out a girl but im in 5th grade

      WHAT SHOULD I DO

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      Tiffany 4 years ago

      Listen guys I you want to get a girl to like you, you have to make her feel like the most beautiful thing on earth. This doesn't mean that you tell her this all of the time, you just need to tell her through your eyes, look at her. Also get to really know her before you ask her out. You should consider her to be your bestfriend before you make her your girlfriend. This may be hard but you have to have the balls to ask her out in person, not texting. If she says yes, you got a girlfriend. If not, get over it. She will still be your friend and there is a whole school full of beautiful girls. Coming from a girl, I hope this helped :)

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      dean 4 years ago

      theres a girl in my class and she has a boyfrind what do i do to get her to like me

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      CHAOD 4 years ago

      I LIKE THIS GIRL IN MY CLASS SHES OLDER THAN ME BY A YEAR AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO HER BECAUSE THE KIDS ARE NOSEY IDIOTIC FREAKS AND WONT LET ME TALK TO ANYONE REPLY ARE HELP PLEASE

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Please please please help me!! I'm currently stressed out about exams and stuff and I really wanted to ask my ex out. I know she's stressed too but he really was the best thing that happened to me and I really like her. Should I ask her out?

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      Black Panther 5 years ago

      ok so im in the 4th grade now, this girl always hits me and we catch each other staring at each other, and we have a joke that when she touches my desk i throw sumthing at her, and then my friend found all those stuff in an icebreakers case and a 60 piece gum thingy....does she like me? P.S. For the 5th-12th find her lokcer number, slip in a note between the 4-5 lines and write you locker number and wait a few days.....Good luck and please help!

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Never mind, never mind! Its all fine! Im currently dating my ex again and im sure it'll go fine.

      My technique is to have a 'great' taste in music and it totally works! Srsly, try it

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      TimeLord 5 years ago

      I really don't understand why guys make fun of you if you like a girl its not funny and its normal and its hard enough On the guy to get enough guts to ask her out without his friends laughing at him anyway and that kind of stress can really change a guys life

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Okay yet another problemin the chapter of my lovelife :(

      I asked this girl out (no problem) but she was with my best friend for like 2 days. He became really obsessive but apparently he's moved on. I'm wary about telling him since I'm unsure if it'll bring back his obsessive function. Should I go out with her? Plz reply with opinions!

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Trevor you should root your way in by doing these three simple steps

      1) find out what she likes (you know that she's fond of running already)

      2) find some of those things that you're good at or could work to be good at

      3) try to include in a conversation that you have some similar interests

      then you can ask her out and not look weird if she rejects you.

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      trevor 5 years ago

      There is this girl I like and we are pretty good friends and she invite me to do things mainly with other people but the only time we were alone was when she invited me to go running which is a big thing for her she is one of the more popular people at my school and if I get rejected tons of people will make fun of me and I don't know if she likes me or not

      Heeeeellllllpppppp!!!!!!!

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      Confused As Hell 5 years ago

      I was dating this girl for about a month and i thought she stopped liking me so i told her "someone told me you don't like me." and she was like "that's not true! who told you that?!?" when we were texting.i later told her i made it up maybe the next day, but anyways i told her i made it up because i thought she didn't like me and she was really mad and was like "Anything else you lied to me about?!?" and i told her no. she then asked me if i had feeling for someone else while we were dating. and i said "no!" but i was mad but kept calm and followed by saying the first two days we started dating everyone told me i shouldn't be dating you and dating another girl, and i thought about it and decided it made no sense you are perfect and she got mad! she was like "You thought about it!!!!!" and i was like no i just thought about what they were saying not about breaking up with you. anyways she broke up with me then, and this was back on december 13th (only remember that because our 1 month would have been fiday, the 13th) back to the story though about a month later she said she liked me again but wouldn't go out with me. i still think it makes no sense but learned to go along with it. she stopped liking me after like 3 days, but on april 6 (first friday of the month) she told me she liked me again, and we talked on the phone for about an hour the day after (april 7) and we saw each other at this teen night thing at the YMCA and i was gonna ask her out, but A) on the phone i asked her if i asked her out would she say yes and she said idk maybe, and B) there was never a time because i saw her for a split second there and it was with a lot of people so i didn't want her to get nervous, and don't get me wrong we talk a lot even at school not just texting or on the phone.after we texted more and she was like hey, i didn't see you very much and i was like yeah unfortunately i couldn't see you except i said something and i was teasing her (she teases me too it wasn't mean and she did one of those:) and said lol or something and teased me) and she was like i thought about it and if i would say yes and i like you but i wouldn't because someone stood up for me at teen night and i was like o... ok...:/ and at teen night someone who goes to our school threw a ball at her and hit her in the face and she thought it was on purpose and i would have said something but i wasn't playing dodgeball i was playing basketball on the other side of the gym and is sectioned off by a dividing wall thing anyways she likes me but wont go out with me? what should i do? thanks in advance!

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      slightlynerdypianokid 5 years ago

      Hi im back. After all that time both those girls are both dead to me. One I never see, and the other is a shallow idiot. Anyway, there's another girl I like who I'm almost certain likes me (she takes every chance to brush up against me and stand/sit next to me hold my hand etc.) that I want to ask out. It's not that I fear rejection, it's just that I don't know how to ask her out. Oh yeah, I'm 12 and in 6th grade and the girl is a lot like me. HOW DO I ASK HER OUT WHAT DO I SAY WHEN DO I SAY IT HELP ME!!!

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      L+E forever 5 years ago

      ok so i am a girl. yes i know it might sound weird I just wanted to see it from a guys perspective. Here is the advice part I like this boy named Elvin he is also my bff my girl bff told him so now he knows. he asked me put and i said no because of friendship but I still can't stop thinking bout him. He also is on my bus and we sit together and talk but never about this. He often looks at me but never tells me what he is thinking. This ruined our friendship. And this is what I wanted to avoid. Btw my friend slipped it out she wasn't. Suppose to say it I let it go

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      Jared Feldman 5 years ago

      I like a girl in 6th grade and I asked her out because we both play bball for our school team and we are both close together in height and she said I just don't think it's the right time then She said my dad said no so help me what should I do I really like her we text

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      That also means I'm caught in 2 love triangles.

      1) My soon to be girlfriend, my best friend and me

      2) My soon to be girlfriend, me and my ex who is in an emotional state after we made out last week.

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Ok now I really need help guys. There's this girl I really like but my best friend also likes her. We both reached a compromise that we would work it out if she asked one of us. Now that she's asked me I really don't want to hurt any of their feelings. I know I'm older than most guys here but please help me. How do I work this out between my friend and (maybe) girlfriend?

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      Afterburnerflame 5 years ago

      Hello! There is a hot girl in my form and I'm not sure what to do. I don't even think she likes me. I need advice as I don't know what to do! She sometimes looks at me! Is that a sign? I am clever but do you think that could be a reason why any girls don't want to go out with me! There are other girls I think are hot too! I am 12 by the way! Year 7. Thanks guys!

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      Jack 5 years ago

      girl 1 I like several girls in my school im 10 bye the way but the oe i want to ask out i know about the best im 10 i don't know if it is too early cause im going to a boy and girl highschool but shes going to a girl school she always talks to me about minecraft and other things during a game we played we were both out sitting on the floor she scooched over to me i have got extreme hots for her but i don't know what i should do girl 2 another girl im preety sure we are just friends but she once asked me to put her homework in my bag because the teacher checks there bags to see if were lying that we didn't bring it she hadn't finished i gave her back the homework at the end of school i asked her why did she trust me? not her other friends i did not really get an answer. girl 3 this girl is one of the hottest girls in my school we have known eachother since kindergarten BUT NEVER TALK i don't think were meant for eachother. so should i ask her out? or lure her to me?

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      madly in luv.. 5 years ago

      hey... I am madly in luv with 1 of my classmates... she is very pretty... but i hav 1 prob dat my best frnd also luvs her .. wat shud i du ??

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      Flyinmatty 5 years ago

      I now like this other girl that I think likes me. She comes over to my lunch table every day and talks to me. And in our science class, she always askes me what I grade I got whenever we get tests, projects, and quizzes. I want to ask her out but I dont know if she has a boyfriend or not. We are friends though. I need advice.

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      Alex Bourbonneau 5 years ago

      i hav this girl tht i like since a while. i no shoulda ask a lot earlier but, guess i didn't. im a bit shy sooooo...

      well today im going ask her out. i didn't get my friends to ask her if she likes me. i didn't do it either. ill just have to cross my fingers and hope for the best :D

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      Sam and rachale liker 5 years ago

      Ok I'm 12 in sixth grade and everyone in my school kinda talks about inappropriate things and u no what I mean but there's this girl rachael and Sam there both so nice I won't them both but rachael already said no like a thousand times!! Whirl rhea got in trouble yesterday for bringing a condom to school too!haha!PLEASE HELP. My friends boys and girls keep asking who it is! HELP!!

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      Kyle Saysavanh 5 years ago

      hey im in 6th grade and i want to ask this girl out but i like 2 other girls 2 and i know they might like me too cuz they were asking me weird questions about and once i was going to join the broadcast club and they ask me if i was joining so i said yes and they were jumping up and down with excitement so i was wondering do they like meor not and wat should i do i don't wat to break there heart if i date a different girl if they like me D=

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      kyle 5 years ago

      hi im kyle and im in 6th grade and i want to ask this girl out cuz we have a good relationship were best friends but like i like 2 other girls and they might like me cuz they like smile at me and ask me weird questions about me and once i was joining a broadcast club and they were wondering if i was going to join and i said yes and they jumped up and down with excitement so wat should i do i don't want to break there heart if i date a girl D= plz help me

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      dannythehottiewiththerockinbod 5 years ago

      hi....I have a little predicament... I have just started dipping my toes in the waters of dating, but felt it was too strong cuz my gf shanaynay was coming on a little too strong..But now I have put ointment on my toes and i am ready to step back in! :D So, theres this girl i am head over rump in love with, she is the stick to my lollipop!I met her in the beginning of 9th grade and ever since I met her there was this passionate love that cant be expressed through words, no really when she walks by I have to have a bucket next to me.. (if you catch my drift) hehehehe.... ;) Ok, well she wears turtle necks with her favoirite denim dress. I thought that maybe I could catch her attention by dressing just like her and picking the bugs out of her hair like a chimp! Ok, well give me some advice on how to win this smokin hot babe!! I LOVE HER MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WHOLE WORLD!!

      LIVIN.LAXIN.LOVIN SHANAYNAY.

      PEACE SHAROLD OUT

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      alex 5 years ago

      Im in 8th grade and theirs this rilly hot girl in my class (samantha) that i like but she has a boy friend that is in 9th grade (richard) and my friend (jr.) wants me to ask her out but im scared of being rejected. What should i do? HHHEEELLLPPP

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      Safo 5 years ago

      Hi im in 9th grade and i really like this girl whose in 8th grade but i never get the courage to tell her because i have no idea hiw she will respond or how she feels about me. And I cant ask my friends for help because they'll think im a phsyco

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      JD 5 years ago

      Hi i'm in year seven and theres this girl I like, Lizzie, and I know she likes me as a friend (I help her with math, I make her laugh, s we're quite close) and I'm wondering if I should ask her out because I'm worried it will ruin our friendship and it will be awkward because we sit together BTW I've got math first period tomorrow!

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      Reb lover 5 years ago

      I like a girl in my school she's hot and a lot of other things that I don't want to say I keep looking at her and sometimes I think she lets me look at her what should I do!

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      Andy 5 years ago

      hey there is this girl that i keep hugging and i dont know if she likes me .... i asked her bestfriend and she said i wasn't her type that she likes some one else......so i don't know what to do i tried asking her out but she just laughed and shaid hell no.... so should i still keep tryen too get her????

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      flyinmatty 5 years ago

      SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME! today, whenever she turned around to hand back papers, she would turn to me and smile at me.

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      Gcdjr2 5 years ago

      Ok I am in year 7 have never had a girlfriend and there is this one girl I like and she's pretty cute but not that hot. So she had told me personaly in 5th that she liked me but I wasn't sure so now I'm ready but I'm just really nervous she will reject me be auss I guess I'm just really nervous because during once we got back from school during the summer she got really hotter!

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      Gbaby7445 5 years ago

      Ok theres this one girl I really like she is actually my best friends sister and she's really hot.the problem is I've known my friend since I was 8 and were in7 th now what should I dO and me going out with his sister would screw everything uP what should I do

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      flyinmatty 5 years ago

      plus when she asked me for gum and i gave her a piece she said thanks and smiled at me. i really like her. i don't know if i should ask her out or not. somebody please respond!! we are both in 7th grade.

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      flyinmatty 5 years ago

      I like this girl that sits near me in my math class. every day when i get into math, she asks me for gum. she asks me every day, 5 days a week. is this maybe a sign that she likes me?

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Ok guys i need some help. I feel like my girlfriend and i are drifting apart and she said something that she 'wanted a break' but my friend just broke up with his gf and i don't want it to look like im trying to get all the attention. We haven't made out in days (that's a lot when you're 15) what do i do now?

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      Joe 5 years ago

      I am 9 and I really like this girl Veronica in my class I told my friends I like her and 1 of them asked her he said she said yes but I do not know what to believe HELP ME!!!!

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      Worriedkid1 5 years ago

      I'm in grade 7 and there's this girl I really like but I think she has a crush on my good friend and she's danced wth him at the school dance and every time I think about him and her, it almost wants to make me cry especially because I'd been trying to ask her to dance for awhile but she keeps on dancing wth other strange kids

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      5 years ago

      i talk to this girl a lot at school andi we have all the same things thing in commen she did the 3 steps when i asked her she said NO :( y

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      5 years ago

      ALSO i really like her she is so funny like me and i think she looks really gud aswell thumbs up

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      5 years ago

      i am in the 6th grade me and this girl talk and we have all of the same thing in commen she did the 3 steps when i asked her she said NO sorry? y

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      Pratham(sparrow) 5 years ago

      Guys i had seen a girl last year she was gorgeous i had directly proposed her she had accepted then we both started to love she loved me than i loved her then after holidays i stoped talking with her now she always see me "Do things which impreses them"

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      Jaws6 5 years ago

      Im in 6. There is this girl and she might already have a boy friend. How do I no if she does and if she doesn't I think she likes me????

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      Luke 5 years ago

      I think she likes me again! Llyr I did what u said and moved on but I left a special place for her

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      Red 5 years ago

      There's a girl that I like but i have already asked her out she said she will think about it that was a month ago and I text her quit a bit and I ask he every now and again she still don't know what should I do to get her to give me the right answer just wait cause we have hung out and we have kissed a few times but I was just wondering what I should do

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      rye or the kaiser 5 years ago

      Hi I Am a boy in 6th grade and I just asked a 7th grader out and she said yes! I also kissed an other 7th grader, but I don't think my girlfriend knows... What should I do if she finds out?

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      a random guy 5 years ago

      Hey, theres a girl in my class that sits in front of me and we both talk to each other a lot but I don't know if she likes me. We did a project together and she semed very confident I would bring some of the materials but I forgot most of them and she doesn't talk to me for 4 days . What do I do to get her back?

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      Justin 5 years ago

      I'm 12 and I really like this girl and I've told her I like her but I don't know if she likes me back cause shes really popular and I'm really not popular and she might think I'm weird if I ask her out what do I do.

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      Luke 5 years ago

      Thx llyr I rlly appreciate it

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Okay luke if that happened then you should just move on. Seriously, dwelling in the past is the worst thing that u can do now. It took me a helluva lot to move on from my old girlfriend but hey, look at me, I've moved on and i'm in a very serious relationship now. Good luck man :)

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      man of many faces 5 years ago

      if i really like a girl and she says im annoying should i ask her out and if i should then shout i ask her to go somewhere or just say hey wana go out with me?

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      Luke 5 years ago

      Llyr I did that for a month then she said she has a bf so should I workout while she is dating that this is the guy she use to love

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      Korean 5 years ago

      I need help i like a girl. Her mom said she had a crush on me in the 3rd grade. We are in the 6th now. Im not so sure now if she has a crush on me. I`m afraid to ask cause then if she says no people will laugh and make jokes, very bad even nasty jokes :(, but it is eating at me trying to figure out if she likes me. she hides expressions well, true expressions she shows lots of expressions, shes hard to figure out. she acts mean to me but nicer to me when people who don't know us are around. i need help plz aswer me quickly!!!

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Hey luke if you're still emo about her then I say SNAP OUT OF IT! Regret is the worst thing you could be feeling now and you should go up to her after shaping up, and hang around for 3 weeks or so, and then when you feel comfortable maybe ask her out again

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      Luke 5 years ago

      I still need help look three down

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      Llyr 5 years ago

      Yo this is Babemagnet666 with my REAL name! Umm yeah so my girlfriend's birthday is in 9 days and I got NO IDEA for a present! I already thought out a plan:

      1) Tell her I got 2 gifts

      2) Give her the gift I need advice with

      3) Give her gift 2 which is a long, passionate kiss

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      Luke 5 years ago

      Hey troubled. Ask the girl u like if u wanted to go get a shake or something or start hanging out more. The more u learn about the person u like the more they c that u r understanding or a trait that some ppl might not c that's wat happened to me and my ex and we dated 4 20x longer than the first time

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      Luke 5 years ago

      I need help plz reply. I like this girl in my class we I asked her out in gr 7 she said sure. She broke up with me three days after. We started to talk again in august she brought up who do u like I said I will say if u will say she said me I was so happy we dated for 1 month then out of the blue she dumped me I was so devastated that I became emo. Everytime I see her I remember y I love her. Wat should I do?

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      evan 5 years ago

      Ok so ALL of you just ASK not that hard after all just be confident and get the what ifs out of yor head i always ask people out if they say no ask someone else good luck

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      Dear Abby 5 years ago

      Kitty-Lovie I would say for sure go for it and if she "rejects" you don't sweat it.

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      Troubled 5 years ago

      I am 12 and in 7th grade. i moved to my new school right when school ended after 4th grade. My best friend when i moved there was a girl and she was one of the only people who didn't hate me when i first moved there. most people hated me for no reason. anyways i would tell her anything and she would tell me anything until we started 7th grade 7th grade is the junior high so we just had changed schools and i feel we are growing apart. i told her i liked her because i thought she liked me because at football game she would always lean on my, but i guess she didn't. i have a girlfriend now but i still like her more than my girlfriend but i don't think its right dating someone who i don't like as much as another girl i like her though just not as much. i dated the girl im curently dated once before but she started crying when i broke up with her and we dated for a month and then we got back together a few months later but i don't want to hurt her again, and my main concern is the girl i like more growing apart from me, and i eventually want to go out with her. we dated then broke up 4 times and she always broke up with me i really want to maintain a relation with her instead of dating for a week and breaking up. we were still good friend after dating 4 times but it was at the start of 7th grade that we started to grow apart so i think the dating was irrelivent she snowboards and i ski but i am really good at skiing and she is ok at snowboarding so i have no problem keeping up with her so i actually have to go slower but anyways every thursday she does this thing through the school which tons of people do even though i only have about 400 kids in my school, so if you guys could help i would REALLY appreciate it and if you have any questions just post them and i will get back to you as quick as possible.

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      guy 5 years ago

      hey I'm a 7grader aad there's this gir I like and herfriend askin about her iff she's nice nd wat n sshoouldd iask herr out

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      Joshua 5 years ago

      there is a girl that likes me and i like her but she has not done steps 1-3 and i don't know what to do

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      Kitty-Lovie 5 years ago

      There is this Girl and she is very shy just moved to the school about a month ago and i got her number and started texting her ect. but its been about a week or 2 and she has opened up to me greatly she gets along really well with me,should i ask her out or should i wait to see one of the steps becaues she is so shy its unreal and doesn't have many friends in the school at the moment.

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      dev whatup 5 years ago

      hey so this girl named allie is in my class she did 1and 2 steps do u think i should ask her now or wait

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      Ntt 5 years ago

      Here's the thing, there's this girl in my grade and I like her a lot but here is the problem, I'm confident in my abilitys to not freak out when I ask her out but I'm scared out of my mind of working my way up to ask her. Any tips?

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      Anonymous 5 years ago

      Hey, I like this girl a lot, but she is with another guy, so should I just wait for them to break up?

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      Anonymous 5 years ago

      Ok. So I'm in 7th grade and I really like this girl and in class some people called me over and said she liked me and she said she would talk to her friends about it and that was a week ago and since then we haven't talked because somebody has been sending her fake texts that say I like the smell of crap and she probably hates me now. She hasn't even talked to me since then. And if the person who sent those texts is reading this then know that I will find you and do things to you that you would never imagine. You screwed me over, so I'll screw with you

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      A Guy 5 years ago

      There is a girl in my class named Carolyn, I really like her but I don't know if she feels the same. We are both in 6th grade. I'm afraid to ask her out because I'm worried if I get rejected. Also another girl who is mentally challenged asked if she likes me. WHAT SHOULD I DO FOR BOTH PROBLEMS

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      TBR 5 years ago

      There is this girl and she is popular and i don't fit in.She flirts with me but i don't know if she really likes me.Im afraid that if she rejects me all her friends are going to laugh.What should i do please help me?

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      Lane 5 years ago

      I like this girl Merren she's hot and I want to date her we talk a lot and I make her laugh and Im in love but were not dating (sixth grader)

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      Your Mom 5 years ago

      Help me. So I thought that my crush liked someone else but I don't know if I have been proved wrong. So today I looked over at her (my crush) and caught her eye, and she held my gaze and started to smile really really wide. I have no idea what this means, but she might like me. She might just be amused because I like her though.

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      slightlynerdypianokid 5 years ago

      Msta,

      Thanks so much for the advice, I will try it on Monday. I really appreciate your help.

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      Msta 5 years ago

      slightlynerdypianokid,

      If you like the girl, and the school is really big, just look for her. You're bound to find her again sometime, and when you see her you'll know it's her, cause its like a sixth sense. Try talking to her and getting to know her, then after that if you know you're sure she likes you, ask her out.

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      slightlynerdypianokid 5 years ago

      dang i keep accidentally hitting post. anyway i met this girl yesterday and whenever i turned around she was looking right into my eyes and we kept staring at each other for the rest of the day i know were both interested in each other but i don't even know her name. my school is so big and im not sure if ill see her again and idk if shes already taken but i cant get her out of my head help plz. PS i don't have a phone so i cant ask 4 her number or anything. I wanna ask her out though. heelllppp

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      slightlynerdypianokid 5 years ago

      ok so i kinda like this girl i met yesterday at a workshop im in sixth grade and am eleven. anyway yesterday i found out my crush liked the popular kid in my class (figures) so i was open when i

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      Babemagnet666 5 years ago

      Yo guys! Still in teh relationship! Been like 5 weeks now and I'm feelin great about myself. Longest I ever dated anyone!

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      Anonymous 5 years ago

      Hi I really like a girl in seventh grade, my grade too, been trying to steel myself to ask her out for a while, but then I find out right as I'm about to that she's going out with someone help!

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      dfliyerz 5 years ago

      I am 12 and I am in sixth grade. There is a girl named Katherine that I really like and want to ask out. However, I don't know where to ask her out to. Boys and girls in most of my classes are telling me to go for it. Also, she seems to be somewhat avoiding me. A couple of days ago she had someone tell me that she is with someone, but her friends proved it as a lie.

      Please Help,

      Jake

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      C.Flo 5 years ago

      im in 8th grade and there's this girl i like shes in my foruth period and shes a little out my leaugue and i want to ask her out but i don't know if she likes me i mean i see her looking at me a lot and i've had the same problem before and i got rejected

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      Andrew D 5 years ago

      ok im in the 4th grade, i really reall y really really like this girl addison ,(addi for short)So ive heard rumors and her friends have told me she has a crush on me,but im too nervous to ask shy to ask and,and another girl im not a big fan of asked me out today.She laughs at all my jokes,we make eye contact a lot (idk why, but i think that's a sign she likes me)and i say random crap during the day,she laughs, but should i ask her out?Should i believe her friend?Should i have the friend who told me she has a crush on me to have Addison tell me herself or ask me out? is it too early? PLEASEEEEEE HELPPP!!!!!!!!!! P.S AND IF YOUR MY CRUSH, THEN I GOT A QUESTION

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      Adam C 5 years ago

      There is a girl in my class named Ashley Clark and i wanna ask her out but im scared she will say no! What happens if she says no? The reason i have not asked her is I'm really shy

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      Zac 5 years ago

      I'm an 8th grade boy and I really like this girl in 6th grade. We're friends on facebook but I haven't really talked to her that much.. Please don't judge me. Any suggestions on what I should do?

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      Mouse 5 years ago

      Thanx for the advice shud have looked here earlier. Asked a girl out yesterday and got burned

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      Msta 6 years ago

      Hey guys,

      I'm 12 and in the 6th grade, and I like this girl in my 7/8th period class. Her name is aryn and she is hot, but the day I finally was gonna try asking her out I overheard her talking with a friend saying she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. I over heard because my desk is right behind her's, so I ain't a stalker or anything I was just sitting down when I heard that. What do I do? I've made her (and most all the class) laugh by saying the most random crap in class (I got this off another kid in my class named Parker and hes had several girlfriends!) I dunno what to do. Do I wing it or play it safe? I have no idea and in need of help! HELLLLLP!!!!!

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      Dude 6 years ago

      So Im a guy and yes I am a hip hop dancer I'm 13 and ok looking and there's this really cute girl in my hip hop classes , Olivia and I think she kinda likes me. But I don't know how to ask her out. We've been texting for the past month and I think she's been flirting but not sure . Any help?

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      MatchMaker13 6 years ago

      Say the pick-up line first.

      Then say that you free any day this week and if she would go out with you, set a date if she says yes.

      Go to the movies first up, then the mall, then your house and finaly dinner.

      The girl will love you for who you are.

      Not for the outside, but for the inside.

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      The Lonly 6 years ago

      I need urgent help b4 its too late! Im 12 years old and im too ugly 4 anyone to like. But this one girli like seems to smile and wave to me a lot. I want to ask her out but i don't know what to say ive got a pick-up line and ive got everything planed. Im going to walk up to her and say "Hi! Im (me). Your looking very good today!" What do i say next and where do i take her?

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      Isaiah 6 years ago

      First of all try making small conversation, and after two, three days then try to hang out with her, make her laugh too.

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      Robin hoody 6 years ago

      I want a girl that i have had a crush on 4 yaers now to notice me.she dosint notice talk or look at me even though im her friend!i really like her but im to much of a wus to go near,talk,or look at her. pleas help me i domt whant to think to myself evryday that ill die a lonly old man....

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      Isaiah 6 years ago

      Your welcome connor

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      Aidan 6 years ago

      Me again,I asked her out and she said she will think about it.....

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      Connor Lynch 6 years ago

      thnx :D :D

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      Isaiah 6 years ago

      Just date her best friend until chloe breaks up with her boyfriend but be careful you still might want to date her best friend if chloe stays with her boyfriend to long, and by the way you should use first names not first and last names because some people could be stalkers by the way im 15

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      Connor Lynch 6 years ago

      I have recently told Chloe Eastonwe should just be friends 4 now and if they ever break up, i am always here 4 her. But now, her best friend told me she likes me, and she HASN'T got a boyfriend, and i like her 2, but im worried if i go out with her, Chloe will get upset, fall out with Robyn(her best friend) and will never go out with me! Im only 12! I sholdn't b dealin with this shit! :(

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      Connor Lynch 6 years ago

      I really like a girl(Chloe Easton) and she told me she likes me 2, but, she has a boyfriend! They have been dating 4 2 weeks and she said when they break up(if they do) she will go out with me. My m8's say shes usin me, but i have never felt this way about a girl b4! What do I DO!???!!

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      Isaiah 6 years ago

      Aidan try to talk to her, try to walk with her but the point is get to know her make sure to hang out a lot not to much though because you don't want to get in that friend zone and make sure she doesn't like any other guy and try to make her laugh to but still act like yourself

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      Isaiah 6 years ago

      Curly ask that girl out when u and her are alone, but don't ask her friends to go even though they're your friends other wise its not really a date, but if you know this girl likes you, you

      should be more confident

      know if you know she likes you,

      I'm 15 (BTW) by the way