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I'm so glad I'm not a man
I just had a chat with a bunch of girls that started off on the topic of weight loss. When one of them mentioned "most men are pervs", the others immediately agreed. In fact, I found myself the only one to disagree after which I was attacked as a traitor to my sex.
Conversations like this are very common - not just on the web but in every day life too not to mention the media. I only mention this particular one because it was the most recent - a few hours ago. If anything, this was a mild version compared with some I've seen. We're basically living in a kind of glorification of anything feminine. Check out my article on female supremacy for lots more on that topic.
I can't help but wondering how it must be like to go through life with everyone you meet having the first impression that you're a pervert, potential rapist or violent sociopath. Myself I only started wondering from my acquaintance with my dear love who seems to suffer from this more than most guys. Well if I was in such a situation, I would find myself over compensating by being extra nice and kind and to make sure my 'potential victims' don't get too scared. I'd try my absolute best not to show any sign of attraction or even DARE to touch them without a formal contract. I would stay far away from any form of body contact or remarks on a woman's looks.And that was exactly how my boyfriend was behaving when we started dating. Now, I love sensitive men and I like being the initiator so we clicked perfectly. Fortunately, there are a lot of men like that now days and its not surprising. The only problem is, that those men are nearly always rejected by women because they say they want a "real man". Don't ask me why cause I love the unreal men but I'm a freak.
So as a man you're either a pervert or you're a wimp. You can even be both but you're definitely going to be at least one of the two when you leave your home.
All men are useless
The other popular belief is that nobody needs men and that they're useless. It is soooo untrue and shamelessly childish to say or even think that. If this was true, then who's running the farms and power plants, the steal, coal and gold mines? Who built the houses we're sitting in right now? Who invented all of those things that we take for granted every minute of our lives? What about sewers for a really nice example? Still think men are useless with all that in mind? Perhaps you should reconsider. The truth is, and it took me a few years of growing up to admit, that without men, society wouldn't be better. There would be no society in the first place. We'd just live like wild animals - our only aim in life would be naked survival from one minute to the next and with no time for complaining about gender inequality.
Being a man in today's feminist society has got to be a living nightmare compared with what it's like for women. Honestly, most of us women have no idea how much easier it is for us on average (if you have doubts then you should become acquainted with the male suicide rate. Not a nice statistic at all). It's not surprising that men are becoming more feminine (which I like). Don't blame them for it when they're only trying to survive in a world that despises and punishes maleness.
With the increasing influence of women, this will not be feasible much longer. I wrote in my article on the matriarchy, how we will sooner or later not have a choice but to start caring about the male gender. With this more optimistic thought I'll leave the rant for today.