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Ways In And Out Of Relationships
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All But Love
I started to title this, In And Out Of Love but love is not always in the equation or what a relationship is involved with. Relationships are usually started because of infatuation, sexual attraction, good looks, material value, prestige and other things that maybe you can come up with based upon your experiences. Many times a relationship between a boyfriend and girlfriend or man and woman is everything wonderful except for love. I think that is too bad because without love between the two, how far will the relationship go? When the chips are down, will the good outweigh the bad?
Is It Lust Or Love
Love Was Not There
I need your honesty here. How many relationships have you been in since you first liked a little boy or girl? What about since your teenage years? Oh, come on now, you were kind of hot so I know they were after you. Ok, what about in your young adult life between ages eighteen to twenty-four? What about from twenty-five on up? How many hearts have you broken? How many hearts have broken yours? Wow, there’s been a lot of emotion floating in the air over the years. What about your brothers and sisters coming home after breaking up with a mate and you had to console them. Like the song says, Breaking Up Is Hard To Do. Why? Because the love wasn’t fair and if it wasn’t fair then it was never there. Sorry… You can debate me all you want but for love to be there it must have come from both ways with Almighty God (The Creator of Love) in between.
Love Me Or Leave Me Alone
The Realness In A Relationship
Let’s be real now. Have you ever been in a relationship and you knew darn well, that you were not going to marry the person or should I put it, you had no intentions of marrying even though that you knew the person wanted to marry you? Huh? But, you weren’t ready to give the person up yet. Right? This is real game playing. I’m not going to suggest, that someone was being played for a fool but you call it what it was.
Treat Someone The Way You Want To Be Treated
This idea is a tough one when you think of it. Some people don’t want to receive in return what they dish out in a relationship. I wonder why not? Maybe it is because they cannot take it. I didn’t say all people. I said some. Can you receive what you are dishing out or have dished out in a relationship? Did you consider the relationship full of love properties? When the person said, I love you. Did you immediately return the phrase? Every time?
It's Either Casual Or Love
Accepting Someone For Who They Are
Sometimes, there is a problem of accepting a person for who the person really is.One wants the other to change their ways. There is nothing wrong with wishing that But… It is a grand mistake in trying to change a person. It creates friction as well as conflict, feuding and eventually to war. Why? A person is who they are from deep down inside. They must see the need to change for the best of themselves instead of for someone else. Once they figure out what’s going on, they would rather say, Poop on that! Subconsciously.
Changing For Someone
I need some feed back for this one (please).Have you ever known someone to change for the request of the other? And they lived happily after? I don’t meant if one helped the other stop smoking stuff, drinking or doing drugs or even from being a terrible character but well, this is a hard one because people help people change but I guess I mean change some natural good ways to fit the mate’s preferential standards.
Hip Hip Found True Love
Evaluate To See If Love Abounds
Put the emotions and heart aside for just long enough to evaluate or at times evaluate to see if love abounds. Is that important or absolutely not?
From now on, I’m going to work from a mental checklist. I am not going to be caught up in the wrong relationship ever again. I’m not going to go two, five, seven or ten years just to realize that there was no love in my relationship. It may not have been a waste of time but I could have learned an experience along with the precious value of love. As we venture in and out of relationships, are we looking for that precious value of true love so that we can feel secure for the rest of our lives? Or, what is it do we want? Or, do you want?
What Was Your Relationship Like
How Many Times Have You Found Yourself In And Out Of Relationships
Is Love Realistc
Do You Believe In Love
One Way Out That Works Best
You can certainly pray to God if it is according to His will for you to bow out and move on from the relationship. If you are disrespected, disregarded or taken for granted to no return of these then you want out then move toward the doorway and don't look back.