ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Is He Really Into You

Updated on June 11, 2010

The Reality Of It Is.....

I mean come on girls....lets be serious! How do we ever really know if a guy is into us? Is it in his eyes, his touch, or the way he speaks. Well if you thought any of these you were right. Its in his over all persona. Guys tend to give off subtle hints on whether or not they are into you. All you have to do is look for the clues and use them to your advantage.

His Eyes Say It All

A man's eyes are known to be the gateway into his soul. This is so freaking true!. Men aren't emotional at all. They are very skilled at hiding how they really feel, but if you can look into his gateway then you will know what's real. You will most definitely know if he is or isn't into you.

The Glance

  • If you get the sideways glance he definitely letting you know he's into you, but he's trying to be subtle about ie. This is the first encounter glance. This means nothing you relationship could still go either way. Down the aisle or to the bed.
  • The prolonged glance aka the "I want to sleep with you" look is one to avoid. that is unless you are just looking for a fling that won't mean much by the end of the night. Sl-ts this is the one for you!

The Liar

  • Most men lie! There is no need to argue the fact at hand. Be a human lie detector by reading his eyes.
  • Up and to the left....He is definitely hiding something. Run from this guy or stay but at your own risk.
  • He can't look you straight into the eyes when explaining something. He looks down continously while talking and also rubs his ears, nose, mouth or chin. He knows that eyes eyes will give him away.

The One

  • He can't take his eyes off of you. He lets you see into his soul! His eyes agree with his conversation and shows that he means what he says.
  • He talks to you and not your assets.
  • When making love he constantly looks into your eyes. is his way of telling you that he wants a deeper connection with you. Its not just physical!

Stare Poll

Which look have you gotten the most from a man/ woman?

See results

His Stance

 A man's stance is anther way you can figure out if he is into you. He can have a stance that's inviting or standoffish. Either way you will get the hint.


  • When a man is into you he will stand facing you with his feet spead apart, chest stuck out flexing his muscles. He will not flex his muscles in a body building way but just enough for you to notice that he works out and is in good physical shape.
  • As the conversation progresses he will lean into you. this is because he's secretly wanting to touch you but he's trying to ease into it. He's being subtle about it. He wants to get close to you.
  • If he stands/ sits with his feet turned in he is a shy guy. He's not to sure on how to approach you or talk to you. He will admire you from afar. You would do much better making the first move yourself with this obviously shy guy.

Get Back

  • When uninterested a man will stand with both his feet turned away from you. this gesture signifies that he is trying to run or walk away from you. Maybe what you're sayig or doing is unattracting him to you or he was never into you in the first place. Maybe he wanted your friend.
  • When in a group and a man approaches you look at the direction that his chest is pointing in. A man will usually point his chest towards the woman he is interested in with that group of friends. Get out of the way! that's if its not pointing in you direction.

What It Comes Down To

 All and all.....these are just the basics. There is still a  lot more that needs to be discovered. there is much more to be discussed. This is only the beginning. Look for these tall tale signs and be on the way to catching you man. Remember none of these thing will guarantee you a long lasting relationship. You have to be open to it and ready to deal with every aspect that comes with it. Be you and you will be able to keep a good man.


Submit a Comment

No comments yet.


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)