"Jealousy is a malignant Cancer that Will Kill Any thriving Relationship"

I know this to be a true fact because I lived it myself, when I was much younger. Jealousy is like a malignant tumor that eats at the core of an otherwise healthy relationship, until there's nothing left but hatred, heart break and frustrations. This is the reason most relationships shrivel up and dies. ahe people that carry the jealousy around like an important part of a realtionship, have no clue that this jealousy is the culprit of many broken homes and wrecked relationships. They have no clue what the green eyed monster is capable of, until it's to late to fix the problem. A jealous heart people put their loved ones in prison, by them causing to punch time cards,when ever they go anywhere so they can be able to time the person to see how long they been gone.

These jealous people go as far as to check your phone messages to see who you been calling or whose been calling you. It does get worse because some of them have the audacity to want you to stop seeing your family and relatives for fear of someone telling you something like warning them about the pitfalls of being with a jealous person. Anyone that's involved in a relationship with an insanely jealous person is living in a nightmare in the daytime. I have lived in fear, fear of arguing, fighting and even to the point of fearing for my life. When you live in fear in your own home , where else can you go to feel safe. Everything you say or do is under total scrunity when you're involve with a jealous person. Jealousy is an emotion that destroys and kills it's victims mentally and sometimes, physicially.

I have seen my children involved with jealous control freaks, that want to tell them what to wear and what not to wear, what to do, when to come home, who to see and not see. I know this sounds silly and pathetic but it's true. The sad thing about it is these people are making your life miserable and they don't seem to care as long as you're doing, what they want you to do. So, if anyone of you are going through this type of relationship, maybe it's time for your to free your self cautiously for this person. always remember that this jealousy cancer want stop until it destroys you and your emotionally stability.

Love is trust and respect for the person you love and not being a prison warden over the person. Jealousy is not love, it's an insecure sickness that destroys the people that you profess to love. If you want genuine love, respect and security, then find someone that love, trust and respect you. Then you can enjoy life and peace of mind because without it you're miserable.

Benny Faye Douglass (C) CopyRight