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Ladies - Do You Believe That All Men Are The Same?

Updated on August 14, 2011

Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a few jerks. However it's important to know that all men will not treat you bad. Therefore, it's not fair to put all guys into one bad category.

Instead this is what you should do:

1. Learn to trust the next guy. If in your last relationship you've been lied to or cheated on, you may put up a wall to guard your heart. But instead of putting up a wall, you should open up to the guy. Tell him that though it's going to take some time, but you're willing to work on trusting him. Give a person 100% trust- and let them know that it's up to them to decide whether they want to keep it or lose it. This gives a guy a fair shot to show you what he's about- without feeling like he has to fight for something he never initiialy lost.

2. Make room for love. Don't make excuses like "I have to focus a lot of my time on work" or "there are just a lot of things going on in my life right now". If you decide to pursue a relationship with someone, give him the same amount of time and attention that you think you deserve to get. By coming up with're putting up barriers. And you'll never know how great a guy will be until you give him a chance.

When you go through many bad relationships, you have to understand that it's only going to bring you one step closer to finding that special guy. So once you find him, it's going to make you appreciate the relationship more. Don't give up now on finding true happiness. Keep your hopes high, your heart open, and keep in mind that all men are different.


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      10 years ago from Calgary

      good hub, But it is hard to trust just any guy that you meet weather you have been in a bad relationship before or not. You always go into the relationship with caution until you get to know the person. Never say that you had a bad ex because usally this scares the person off. You want to wait until you know the person better before saying something like this.


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