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Ladies! It's a One Shot Deal

Updated on May 26, 2009

So, let me whisper in your ear

You're excited and a bit apprehensive because this is the night you meet your Matchmaker's selection to find love. Spend the day at the Salon or Spa but this is not a good time to experiment with haircuts.

If you have a lovely home, have him pick you up. Candles, music, etc.

Stash Rover and the children away to play elsewhere. This meeting to find love deserves privacy.

A posh restaurant allows for dusting off your favorite dress and accessories. Do not dress overly provocatively. Be certain whatever bosom you do reveal protrudes out not down. Note his view is from above, not horizontal.

Wear a figure flattering, smooth fabric dress, and very feminine shoes & bag. Most men don't like noisy jewelry, clog shoes, or flesh tone lipstick.

Too much lip gloss negates a first kiss. If your upper arms are not toned, wear a 1/2 or 3/4 or long sleeves. You can pick up skin colored hosiery—like body suits to wear under any revealing imperfect area.

Loose upper arms are the first sign of the proverbial "matronly look." We can fight it and postpone it but everyone faces this unrelenting, natural process.

No one's perfect . . . Your date may take off his jacket to reveal a concave butt! Hopefully, one day these flaws will completely become a non-issue and your journey to find love is fulfilled.

Now one may think I would rise above the affective domain on the date, and discuss more meaningful topics such as, the coversation, the body language and the chemistry. And oh, I have much more girlie inside info to share. But today my focus is mostly to get you thru those first 2 seconds of your Gentleman's attention. Capiche?


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    • Dr Nancy Kenyon profile image

      Nancy Kenyon 8 years ago from Orlando, FL

      Christa Dovel,

      I thank you so much.


    • Christa Dovel profile image

      Christa Dovel 8 years ago from The Rocky Mountains, North America

      Even for someone who is not dating, these are great tips.

    • Dr Nancy Kenyon profile image

      Nancy Kenyon 8 years ago from Orlando, FL

      Wise women know, and sometimes they'll let you know it.

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      Shadesbreath 8 years ago from California

      I'll be surprised if you don't some heat on this from the "be who I am, ain't dressin' up for no man" crowd, but as a guy, I can certainly say that your suggestions are spot on.  We can profess to not care, to be blind to beauty over brains etc., and we can actually BE blind to beauty over, or at least not prioritize it over, brains and wit.  But not in the first two seconds.  Any guy who says different is lying or denying. (Oh, and yeah, the arm thing is very true. Great cleavage well displayed can be completely undone by an outfit that doesn't serve up the uppers arms as tastily as the decolletage.)

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      Nancy Kenyon 8 years ago from Orlando, FL

      Candie V— Thank you! You are welcome!

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      Candie V 8 years ago from Whereever there's wolves!! And Bikers!! Cummon Flash, We need an adventure!

      Great hints! Thank you! (when and if....)