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Ladies- What You Should Know BEFORE You Have Sex With The Guy You're Dating
Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do:
- Do you know what Oxytocin is? It's a hormone in humans that subconsciously causes a bond between the individuals that engaged in sexual activities. Women have a lot more of this than men. So there's much more of an emotional attachment. So if you're not ready for such a connection with the person that you're involved with, you may want to hold off on the sex a bit longer.
- Have you talked about it with your partner? No one can tell you when it's the right time. That's something that only you and your partner can determine. Communicate with him about the subject and find out his thoughts. Then you can make a better assessment on the timing, get a better understanding of his sex history, and know if this is a person you want to share your body with.
- Are you ready physically? The first time comes with a lot of pressure and expectations. If you've been intimate before, I'm sure you know this... and you agree. It could set the tone for any future encounters with your partner. So I ask you, are you experienced enough to feel confident and comfortable about the situation? If not, would you be willing to learn? There are many things that you have to think about when it comes to actually being physical with a person. So make sure you truly think about them.
Whatever decision you make has the ability to change the relationship that you have with your partner. So be sure to think wisely...and be safe.