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Lessons Achieved in an Adoptive Country
Croatia is a beautiful country, with peace and freedom
Lessons learned in Croatia!
Years have gone by, and I still share my lessons learned from my adoptive country, with my readers about Croatia.
Writing about such experiences gives me a better perspective of my lifestyle.
Lessons are learned daily, by everyone it is how you grasp those lessons, and it is what matters to you and I.
In everything I experienced I learned a lesson.
Everything I first experienced has been a lesson to me.
I am courageous, confident, and happy in my new discoveries in my adoptive country, Croatia.
It was tough and I had many setbacks, and failures before I got to a steady platform.
The rough climb taught me about life indeed!
Time healed wounds but did not clear the scars.
It is such scars that remind me of how I lived in my past life and of how I improved a different lifestyle.
The many changes and plans allowed for progress in this life.
I couldn't let go for a while of what my life was in the past.
Nobody understood that part of my life.
The memories live on and I treasure that.
The ability to accept the situation, I realized how courageous I have been and of what I learned along the way to feel this way.
The experience allowed me to let go of my anger, and bitterness I had when the change affected me in a foreign country.
Happiness comes from within, and as long as I have my happiness everything else will slowly come to me.
I am responsible for my happiness, and no one can or will make me happy, that part is up to me, to be happy and free from the negativity around the community.
Most unhappy people make themselves happy in a materialistic way.
They choose to be happy in a luxurious way.It is these people who fail to see life as a simple one.
A walk in the countryside, or a treat, a simple conversation with friends, and family is how I feel happy. Overall, I am a happy person..
That is what I call true happiness from within and not from other people.
What offers you happiness?
The point is, I appreciate what I have and if any extras that is a bonus.
If any person doesn’t appreciate what they have, they won’t appreciate anything else for a much longer period.
How could they appreciate the fancy things if they don't first appreciate the little things?
People who do this have an emptiness that is not being filled from within, and this emptiness can't be filled from the outside.
A lesson learned, I shouldn't hold on to anger.
The best is to let go of that anger to move on, and to forgive each other for the little or the big squabbles.
If I kept anger it would have destroyed me and would have made me feel like, I don't have any good qualities.
Good qualities over ride the bad qualities in people. Anger makes people perform actions they are likely to regret later.
The best is to move away from that emotion quickly.
If you are angry and hate someone that will destroy you.
Be happy let go of the bad experiences and focus on the positive side of life.
To forgive someone it makes you stronger.
To let go of hurt you live better, and allow yourself to experience more happiness than sadness.
You don't need to carry emotional baggage.
Life requires understanding of what affects you in many ways.
Skills developed is based on what you conquer daily. The reality is you can't forget anything that happened to you but you can try to make peace with yourself.
Whether you are living in your birth country, or in an adoptive country, life is what you make of it.
Nobody will do it for you.
Acceptance is key to a new life and a new beginning in your chapter of stories.
In life you need the basics, and the extras are part of what you spoil yourself with.
You need to communicate, to be with good people. Those you can count on at all times.
The ability to achieve goals are limitless!
The experience allowed a part of me to receive, to accept, and to interpret, and to gain the knowledge of what is around me.
A purpose I couldn't ignore, I needed that in my life.
A whole new understanding of a different culture, was required of me to gain the knowledge of this culture, the language, the people, the new surroundings, and the approach was sudden.
I learned to deal with the different people, and and experiences through my emotions.
I opened my self to an unknown lifestyle, and figured out the secrets of life here, had to know how to move forward effectively.
Physically, emotionally, spiritually, and with an openness on knowing how to live a life in a different country.
An overwhelming experience it has been and facing up to my challenges showed the greater purpose of life.
I was willing to let go of the negative as it happen with ease.
The willingness to learn a foreign language wasn't in me at first. Without having to be willing I couldn't do it from day one.
The unwillingness I had to speak the Croatian language allowed for a lengthier time to speak the language.
I didn't need others to accept me in my adoptive country.
To overcome the behaviors of other people accepting me or to those who don't accept me didn't affect me in any way.
I am unique and realize in a small community like I live in, there is no doubt their curious minds are wondering about me.
I know when to say something to someone, and would not mention something to someone when the time is not right.
It often occurred to me that if I have something to say to someone it had to be in the right place, and at the right time. To deal with issues I needed to know how and when to do it.
Lessons learned are lessons you shouldn’t forget in your every day life actions, or communications.
I am the one who knows when, how and why, to manage everything, to be direct and face up to what is there in my view.
I am responsible, brave, outspoken, and know what is meaningful in life.
The great challenges have shown me how to understand people and a new culture with an open mind.
Expressions come in different methods make the most of that.
I had taken to gardening, and enjoy this pass time. New experiences have made life feel better in Croatia.
A simple life can get complicated if you make it complicated!
What is important?
Knowledge and wisdom!
Wise and older teaches you to be more thoughtful in your decisions as I have learned in time.
People do make the same mistakes twice, though I prefer to learn from my mistakes the first time round.
I grew wiser and am able to share my experiences with others.
The knowledge gained in this experience through being educated about a foreign country, has shown the way of life and resolved problems.
When you look at a problem and know how to solve that, it tells you of your wisdom and knowledge you have for that problem.
You recognize, explain, and embrace others in society, and to be able to accept one another, and get to know one another is a reality.
There are harmful situations and you need to show your kindness throughout those moments,
Value what you have and understand why you have that.
First, think of what you want in your life before you judge others in their lifestyles.
I learned through others and that gave me the chance to achieve wisdom.
Time spent communicating with the local people got me wiser in our small neighborhood.
I trust that my views on lessons learned and wisdom has enlightened you about humanity and its experiences.
Various problems affected my daily lifestyle, and through that I saw my new culture.
Lessons learned from your experiences
What experience taught you new lessons?
© 2018 Devika Primić