- Gender and Relationships
10 Little Unexpected Traits That Your Partner Finds Lovable
The concept of love might be magical for some and vague for others. Some might simply love their partner for who they really are and some might just pretend to love them but secretly regret. Being in a relationship gives a special feeling, a feeling that surpasses all the material pleasures. To understand and accept what your partner likes and dislikes about you, spending quality time with each other is imperative.
People love you for who you really are and not for what you pretend to be. Being real is the simplest, yet the most difficult thing to do. Wondering what your partner loves about you and what lured him to be with you? It’s not always money that attracts people towards you. Sometimes, it is merely simplicity, honesty, kindness, concern and a little true love. Wondering what your partner loves about you? Well, it might be the little things you did for him unknowingly that he finds lovable. Few of them could be-
1. Your Cheerfulness
No matter how bad your day might have been, if you are able to calm the storm inside your partner’s head and motivate him for better tomorrows when he has had a bad day at the office, you are no less than a perfect partner. Your cheerfulness will make all his stress disappear.
2. Your Concern
It is always good to show some amount of concern so that your partner realizes that he is valued. A simple gesture, a small text message asking if he has had his lunch or not, does the work for you!
3. Your Kindness
Even if he is mad at you due to something he thinks you should not have done, instead of lashing back at him, you can simply apologize with reasoning. Taking it up on your ego is not going to bear any fruit. Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong. Sometimes it can simply mean saving a relationship.
4. Your Honesty
Lying sometimes is aimed at preventing disgrace in any relationship. However, your partner deserves to know your mistakes so that you both can work together to make things as they should be. No matter how hard it is to reveal the truth, clarity in any relationship comes first.
5. Your Politeness
No being is blessed without shortcomings. No one is perfect. No one should be. The essence of any relationship is undoubtedly the ability of the partners to understand and complement one another, keeping aside all the things they don’t like about each other. Informing your partner about what irritates you is important so that it can be altered. But again, there is a right way to do this. Simply mocking at your partner will make things worse. Instead, talk to them politely. This is the most efficient way that they would understand what you are trying to convey.
6. Be easy going and friendly
You should be the first person your partner should think of when it comes to confiding something. Listen to what he is trying to share. Understand his stand on the situation and refrain from forcing your opinion. You are allowed to give suggestions, not commands. Your job is to support him, not judge.
Always keeping a spy eye on your partner can hamper your relationship. When you both have voluntarily chosen each other, don’t hesitate to give each other some personal space. Go back home and share the happenings of the day with each other. Be aware of what is happening in your partner’s life.
8. Be supportive
Even if no other person is ready to support your partner, you are always going to be the first person your partner looks upon to. Give positive affirmations as to make him feel good about life, family, and his goals and his objectives. Stand by him, function as his backbone. But ask him not be supportive of you while you have your cheesecake.
9. Be empathetic
Instead of ignoring and taking the situation lightly, step into his shoes and make an effort to feel the same way like he does. Try to understand his point of view and his stand on the situation. Suggest what you would have done if at all you were in his place. Focus on getting a solution instead of the problem. Encourage him to do better and convince him that better things are on their way. Try uplifting his mood by making a mango smoothie for him, maybe?
10. Be a good listener
Always wanting to speak up is not a good habit. Sometimes sitting behind and listening to others gives you a clear picture about everything. Understand that your partner will always want good for you. They will always wish that you are happy. So, it is important to know the other side of the story as well.
If you think you cannot do this to keep your relationship going, you are not willing to make an effort. Try, try all of these maybe one by one and to your surprise, you guys will definitely emerge stronger than ever.
Spread Love, Not Hatred.
© 2018 William MarkStone