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Love Me Unconditionally
Do you have unconditional love for YOUR partner?
Nothing in life is permanent. Things change, more often than you'd think. One day you have you life together, then five hours later your heart is smashed into a million pieces. As theory would suggest, change happens very quickly. True love is not something that changes quickly. It's an interesting thing, LOVE , it's something that requires attention, desire, and the right person.
Love is more than a feeling, it's a way of being with somebody, it shows how you care, shows how your lover is important to you. Love is unconditional. You don't love someone at certain times of the day, certain days of the week, certain days of the year. There is no horrid event that could make your significant other not love you anymore in that instant...and if they do, well you know that they don't love you as much as you may have thought.
Love takes effort, love takes time, love takes sacrifice. If you play your cards right you might find someone who is worth all of those things and more. Isn't that who we all desire to have? With the right person, that effort seems effortless, because you WANT them. Truly loving someone is to be able connect to them on a deeper level than sex, be able to sit in a room quietly with them with that silence feeling comfortable, and being able to talk about almost ANYTHING to them without fear of judgement.
A great relationship has great communication, something that I seemed to lack in my last relationship and something that many, many people lack in their relationships. That is something that we as a generation need to learn how to do, communicate effectively. We do things based on how other people "like" us or "see" us, NO. DO things, FEEL things because that's what we're supposed to do. When you love someone, TELL THEM! When they're being a huge pain in the ass, TELL THEM! When you need them to help you in any way, shape or form, TELL THEM! Sometimes we need to be blunt, silly mind games and hoping that they other person magically knows what you're thinking isn't the way to go about getting what you need from your partner. If they love you the way they say they do, they'll be there for you, for whatever you need. That is unconditional love.
The right person can make all the difference. I believe that there is someone for everyone, and when you find that person, your life will never be the same. Love is timeless. If you truly love someone, and it's meant to be, it will be. Love never dies if it's real.
Never settle for less than what you need and deserve. Who you thought was right could be so wrong. Go with your heart, it knows best. Never change yourself for someone. Someone will love you for you, unconditionally.
(Sidenote: I edited this from a post i made on VSCO, Just posting it on another platform)